Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin is the bestselling author of The Happiness Projectand Happier at Home, and is currently working on her latest book, Before and After, scheduled for release in 2015. She is considered one of the most influential writers on happiness today, and has become an in-demand speaker and keynoter, having addressed myriad audiences, including Google employees, Yale Law School students and South by Southwest attendees. Gretchen has also made appearances on the Today show, CBS Sunday Morning and Booknotes. You can read about Gretchen's adventures and habits on her blog at GretchenRubin.com.
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6 Tips for Nurturing Your Self-image

From the moment we’re born,we are conditioned to focus onour appearance. Others judgeand comment on how we look becausethere’s nothing else to remark upon—we haven’t yet developed personalities.“What a beautiful baby!” “She haseyes just like her mommy!” “Who doeshe look like, mom or dad?” “Oh no,grandma’s ears!” Our height and weightare even the very firstofficialfactssent to our family and friends on ourbirth announcements. The commentsabout our appearance begin the secondwe make our entrance into the worldand continue until the day we die.With the tone set from Day Oneof our existence, it makes sense thatwe would evaluate and scrutinize our appearance. And with books, articlesand conversations everywhere aboutself acceptance, one might wonderwhy so many of us still strugglewith this issue, why we still judge ourselves so harshly and have sucha hard time accepting and lovingthe physical self that we are.I believe one of the fundamentalreasons we’re so challenged in thisarea is because of the many mirrorsthat speak to us each and every day.Be kind to yourselfYou see, there are two kinds of mirrorswe encounter in our lives: the actual,physical mirrors we look in to see ourreflectionand the metaphorical, orsymbolic, mirrors that are the peoplereflectingwho we are and how we look.I want to turn the whole discussionof appearance upside down. Let’s takethe focus off of societal messages andideals about our body image and turnto our own personal self-projections.Whether or not we personally acceptourselves as we are is the most powerfulmirror we can look into. Therefore, thegoal is to build your ability to embracewho you are and how you look in themost accepting and loving way possible.You are the only person who isaround you 24 hours a day, seven days aweek, year in and year out. You impactyourself beyond all others, and you arein charge of your life, your appearance,and ultimately, how you feel insideand out each and every day. That’swhy it is extremely important to learnthe skills to diminish the critical andharsh ways that you view yourself andmove toward acceptance and self-love.The changes toward having a more positive and accepting image of yourbody can begin with a few easy steps:1. Take time out of each day to focus on being your best youYou cannot think negative thoughtsabout your body at the same time youare focused on nurturing it. Take a yogaclass, exercise to a workout video, puton some great music and start dancingaround your house. While you are doingthese activities, focus on thinking about how good your body feels and howwonderful it is that you are workingtoward keeping it healthy. If negativethoughts enter your mind, push themout and focus on the good taking place.2.Make a commitment to stop criticizing your appearanceCommit to not allowing unkind wordsabout your body or yourself to enteryour mind anymore. If they do creepin, counteract them with somethingpositive about yourself, such as “I ama good person,” “I am intelligent”or “I am always there if someoneneeds me.” As I mentioned earlier,you cannot have a negative thoughtand a positive one at the same time,so keep those positive ones coming!3.Be good to your body so you feel appreciated and pamperedTake baths, drink delicious healthy juices, giveyourself a manicure and shower usinga body scrub that will make your skinfeel soft. While you are doing thesethings, remind yourself how you areappreciating and nourishing your bodyand that you deserve to feel good.4. Stop comparing yourself to other peopleWe are all built differently, and noone is perfect. You will always find someone with a smaller waist, lesscellulite or smoother skin. It’s a losingbattle to try to be like someone else, soinstead, focus on being your bestself.5. Spend time with people who love you for youThe fact is, being around critical,scrutinizing people puts each of us in asimilar mindset. Surrounding yourselfwith positive, accepting people whogive compliments freely will leaveyou in a more positive and self-lovingstate toward them and yourself.6. Celebrate your giftsWhile you may not love everythingabout your body, there must be someparts of it that you can appreciate.Do you have shapely legs? Beautifulhair? Thick eyelashes? Hands thatcan type quickly? A mouth thatknows just the right words to say tocomfort someone in pain? Be gratefulfor those qualities and allow yourselfto recognize and honor them.Remind yourself daily that youhave been given one body to occupy,nurture and accept for the entiretyof your life. It will be there to moveyou across a crowded street, to liftsomething that you need moved andto go with you to every importantlife event you have to attend. Acceptit, embrace it and nourish it withkind words and healthy living.Are you overly critical, or do you love your body? Take our quiz to find out.
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10 Ways to Build Community

We all thrive from connection—whether it’s with family, friends or neighbors. Creating a network of friendly relationships in your neighborhood can give you a greater feeling of belonging and wellbeing. Working together to create a tighter-knit community makes you feel like you are part of something bigger than yourself. Here are nine simple ideas to get you started:1. Step outside your front door. Sometimes, you have to leave your house to make things happen, but you don’t have to go far. Casual encounters are sometimes the best kind. Meet neighbors while getting your mail, planting flowers or weeding out front. Tinker in your garage with the door open, or just hang out on your front porch or lawn. Try walking to a nearby business instead of driving, when possible, and you're more likely to run into others on the way.2. Front yard fun.Pretend your front yard is your backyard, and focus your leisure and play activities out there. Put your picnic table or lawn chairs out front and hang out; as you read or watch the world go by, people will stop to chat and introduce themselves. If you have kids, host a lemonade stand on a hot day. Not only will you meet more neighbors, your kids will also earn a few bucks.3. Host a block party or neighborhood potluck.Pick a date and time and distribute a flier for a neighborhood cookout, potluck or party. Everyone can participate and share in the hosting. Have your cookout at a common area like a nearby park or a clubhouse—or on your own front lawn, if that works. It’s not a new idea, but it’s still one of the nicest way to meet your neighbors on a positive footing.4. Plant a community garden.If you have a common grassy area or someone who is willing to donate part of their land, you can create a community garden where lots of hands, big and little, can create something beautiful together. Often a neighbor with some gardening knowledge can take charge, or you might hire someone from the local nursery to come tutor you and get things started.5. Establish a book-lending cupboard.Imagine a tiny little library in a neighborhood park. A library cupboard typically looks like a big mailbox with a clear glass door and books inside. Leave a book, take a book. Check out LittleFreeLibrary.org to get started.6. Start a tool lending library. See if your community library can donate a space that you can turn it into atool sharing center. Neighbors can donate used tools, and if possible, get donations from local hardware and home stores. Need a tiller, a chainsaw, a snow-blower or a tall ladder? Instead of every household stocking its own stash of power tools, make it a shared community resource. 7. Create a neighborhood social media page. Private neighborhood Facebook pages were becoming so popular that the idea spawned its own company, Nextdoor.com. This electronic bulletin board allows people to share recommendations for everything from preschool to refrigerator repair; find the home of a lost dog, or share information about your upcoming garage sale. According to the company, 70 new neighborhoods launch a neighborhood website every day in the US. Volunteer to start it up or be the facilitator.8. Organize a neighborhood garage sale. Pick out a time and place, announce it on your neighborhood social media and on cardboard signs, and get together to bond with neighbors over old lamps and baby strollers.9. Give a warm welcome.See a new neighbor move in? Pop by with a fruit basket, cookies or bottle of wine and a welcoming note. It’s a great way to actually meet, instead of waving blankly across the driveway. As a bonus, it puts you in a better position, should you ever need to borrow a cup of sugar or have someone water your plants while you’re away.10. Ask yourself how you can be a better neighbor. If you set out to be a fabulous neighbor you can set a positive tone for your community and others will follow. Look out for elderly neighbors by checking in on them occasionally or bringing them something from the store. Pick up the mail or newspaper for a neighbor who is traveling, or shovel a neighbor’s driveway in the winter if they are unable to do it themselves. Even just smiling and waving when you pass someone in the street has the cumulative effect of warming up the neighborhood.
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3 Simple Questions That Could Change Your Life

When you’re focused mainly on one area of your life, itcan be exhausting. We’ve been there. When we were writing Profit from the Positive, though our work was thriving, we noticed thatboth of us took hits in other areas of our lives. For Senia, it was her health.For Margaret, it was her social life.We know that to live a truly happyand fulfilling life, we need to payattention to the domains that make itup, including work (career and money),a social life (family, friends and fun)and health (physical and emotional).The right balance can change your lifeAnd we’re not alone. Professors Laura Nash, Ph.D., and HowardStevenson, Ph.D., interviewed everyonefrom high-ranking executives to stay-at-home parents and found that themost successful people are those whodo well at work, in their communitiesand at home. In the Harvard BusinessReview, Laura and Howard wrote thatpeople with enduring success “havehigh achievement, multiple goals, theability to experience pleasure, theability to create positive relationshipsand a value on accomplishments that endure.” For these people—andus—success isn’t found by focusing on one area, whether it’s work, asocial life or health. Rather, it happenswhen you have the right balance.With that in mind, and to restorebalance in our lives, we examined ourhealth, work and social lives askingourselves three questions, so we couldidentify which areas could use someimprovement and then make conscious,intentional choices. This is somethingwe do with our clients in our coachingsessions, and now, in 10 minutes,you can do it, too.Ask yourself:1. On a scale of 0 to 10, how satisfied am I with my health, my social life and my work?You don’t need a 10 in each category;the goal is for you to simply becomeaware of how the three areasinterrelate.What do you notice?Think of this step like starting anew fitness routine. You don’t walk intothe gym and jump on the first piece ofexercise equipment you see. No, you assess your current fitness level andstrengths first, and then you determinewhat areas you need to work on. It’s thesame here. If you want to improve yourlife, you need a big-picture view first.2. What would each area of my life look like if it were a perfect 10?Explore the ideas that you may nothave seriously considered before. Many of us live in a cycle of work, home and perhaps a little play. We don’t step back and dream of whatwe would love to do because we’retoo caught up in the day-to-day.Laura King, Ph.D., a Universityof Missouri psychology professor,found that writing about what youhope to accomplish boosts positivefeelings about the future, increasesyour belief in yourself and leads toself-fulfilling prophecies.In ourcoaching, we ask our clients to eitherspeak about or write down what theyreally hope to accomplish. Similarly,sports psychologists train athletes tovisualize a successful match, gameor play. So why not apply one or bothof these methods to your own life?3. What can I do to improve my scores and make my dreams a reality?Connect your social life with yourhealth by taking a class with friends orjoining a hiking club. Have workinglunches with colleagues or turnyour next one-on-one meeting intoa walk-and-talk. Start a wellbeingchallenge in your office—how manymiles can you walk as a team?Once you have your plan in place,every three months or so share yourscores, dreams and actions with afriend over a nice dinner. Make itfun, celebrate your small wins andkeep each other honest. Remember,these questions give you a snapshotover time, so your scores willlikely change. They did for us.After we went through this process,we both took actions toward creatingbetter balance in our lives.Making small steps to improve your balanceForSenia, this meant taking up eight-minute high-intensity workouts andexercising almost every morning.Margaret declared 2014 her year ofsocializing. She has already hostedtwo dinner parties and planned tripsand events for the rest of the year.This is really about stepping backand examining our lives so that wecan start to see them clearly. We’verealized our time is a finite resource;whereas our energy can expand andcontract. So, when you keep yourwork, health and social life ignited at a balance that’s right for you, youcan create swells of energy and livea happier, more fulfilling life.
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Tripped Up?

When people are stressed, youoften hear them say, “I needa vacation.” But could a less stressful trip result in higher happiness and energy at work? Is there a vacationfrom work that is scientifically proven to lead to greater levels of productivity,higher energy and lower stress?In December 2013, we set outto find the answer. More than 400people took our 34-question survey,and the results proved travel does notlower happiness when you return towork—travel stress does. Poorly plannedand stressful vacations eliminatedthe positive benefit of time away.In other words, most of the happinessgleaned from a vacation is dependentupon the stress level of the vacation. The less stress you have on yourtrip, the more likely you will be toexperience a positive benefit from thetime off.How to leave the stress at homeA well-managed vacation canmake you happier and less stressedand send you back to work with moreenergy and meaning in your life.Our findings aren’t radical. A 2010study published in the journal of AppliedResearch in Quality of Life by Dutchresearchers had similar results. Likeus, they found that of the 1,543 adultsthey questioned, most reported no change in their happiness before andafter a vacation if there were moderate tohigh levels of travel-related stress. Thisincludes stress involved with managingtransportation, dealing with detailswhile on the trip, unfamiliarity withthe location and not feeling safe.All contributed to travelers feelingless happy, more stressed and lessenergized when they returned to work.So why spend all the time,money and energy if there’s achance your vacations won’t makeyou happier? Because positive, low-stress vacations do have significant effects on our energy and stress.In our study, 94 percent had asmuch or more energy after comingback after a good trip. In fact, onlow-stress trips, 55 percent returnedto work with even higher levels ofenergy than before the trip.More vacation time, better vacation timeAnd top companies, includingMattress Firm, are starting to realizethat positive vacations can decreasestress and create what we call the“happiness advantage,” which includesraising sales by 37 percent, improvingproductivity by 31 percent, triplingcreativity and increasing the likelihood of a promotion by nearly 40 percent.The Houston-based company justannounced a new initiative this springthrough which employees who havemore than eight years’ seniority withMattress Firm will receive eight extravacation days. The goal is to createthe happiness advantage at work.“Ultimately, we understand the needfor our associates to love what theydo, who they do it with, and mostimportantly, why they do it,” says CoryLudens, vice president of learningand development. “Our purpose isto improve lives one night at a time,and that goes for our associates justas much as it does our guests.”In short, when you’re happy andwell-vacationed, your work, your company and you benefit. So, makeyour next vacation one that makes youfeel like you actually took a vacation.A positive, low-stress experience cansend you home recharged, refreshedand ready to get back to the real world,but a ho-hum or just average one canleave you feeling as if you never left.Bon voyage!ShawnAchoris theNew York Times best-selling author of The Happiness AdvantageandBefore Happiness.Shawn recently sat down with Oprah Winfrey to discuss his steps for achieving happiness on OWN’sSuper Soul Sunday.MichelleGielanis an expert on the science of positive communication and how to use it to fuel success.She formerly served as a national news anchor for CBS News, and is the founder of the Institute for Applied Positive Research, which works with companies and schools toraise employee engagement, productivity and happiness at work.
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Kym Yancey

Kym Yancey, CEO and Co-Founder of Live Happy, began his career in music and later advertising—launching one of the top multicultural ad agencies in the country. Working with his wife Sandra, he was Co-Founder, Chief Marketing Officer, and President of eWomenNetwork,North America'spremier women's business network. He is also the recipient of more than 200 advertising and creative awards of excellence, the executive producer of the GLOW Project, and a finalist for Inc. Magazine's "Entrepreneur of the Year."
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3 Steps to a Brighter Day

It's easy to put yourself in a funk or emotional space that works against you. When this happens to me, I do three things:1. I acknowledge my feelings.I don't sugarcoat them—I take full responsibility for how I’m feeling at that moment.2. I decide to do something about it.It’s a well-known, well-researched fact: Exercising gives your mood a boost. I work out to get more oxygen in my system and to stimulate my brain. I may take a walk, ride my bike—whatever. I know, though, that 10 minutes will make a difference.3. I engage my soul.Gratitude is fuel for the soul, and it’s the ultimate emotional tonic for sustained wellbeing. So when I’m feeling down, I think of things I’m deeply grateful for: I am so very thankful for this wonderful day, this moment right now. I am truly blessed by the love I receive from my family, friends and co-workers.I hope you can feel the appreciation and love I am transmitting to you, wherever you are.Today is your day—make it a great one!Kym Yancey is CEO and Co-founder of Live Happy.
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Adventures on Two Wheels

Before going on a bike ride with Trips for Kids, many of trip leader Michael Rogers' young riders had never been to the ocean.These are teens and tweens from Oakland, Calif., a city located directly on the Pacific Ocean, mind you. Some of them have views of the San Francisco Bay right from their bedroom windows. But they'd never seen it in person: dazzling sand, vivid blue water, waves foaming and breaking in a way that that's far more immense and awe-inspiring than it looks on TV or a movie screen."Talk about something that can transform you," says Michael, a perpetually smiling man with a head of springy blond curls. "No one ever thought to take them there. They never thought to walk there or take the bus. But once we take them on a bike, they know there's something amazing practically in their own backyards that they can go to any time."Biking for changeTrips for Kids is an international nonprofit with more than 80 chapters in the U.S., Canada, Israel and Sierra Leone that leads mountain biking trips for at-risk kids. The most active chapter is the Marin/Bay Area location, where Marilyn Price kicked the program off in 1988. Marilyn estimates the Marin chapter takes 1,600 kids ages 9 to 17 a year on rides. They are referred to the organization by schools and social service agencies who are trying to keep these young people on the right track.Michael, an intrepid bicyclist who leads trips five days a week, says something magic happens when he coaches a group of teens through hair-raising trails."When I'm working with older kids, I want them to explore the boundaries of physical exhaustion and where it meets with euphoria," says Michael. "When you push yourself to do something dangerous you've never done before, it makes you feel things you haven't felt before."Nature is nurturingHarvard Medical School professor of psychiatry Dr. John Ratey, author of Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brainand forthcoming book Go Wild, tends to agree.He says that exercise in any form increases the levels of neurotransmitters in the brain, activates endorphins, and encourages the production of BDNF, an important protein that John calls "Miracle-Gro for the brain." BDNF is also intimately bound up with depression: The less your brain has to work with, the more likely you are to be depressed."And then when you're cycling, particularly mountain biking, you're using your sense of balance, and alertness, you're varying your speed, you're watching what's ahead, what's on your side," says Dr. Ratey. "It all leads to a very active brain. And when the brain is active, it releases all those chemicals that make you smile."The group that rides together, confides togetherYes, there is that, Michael agrees. But there's something else, too. The riders are facing the (mild) danger of their rides together, screaming out encouragement, high-fiving when they all make it to the bottom of the hill together."If a kid falls they might laugh, but if someone's having trouble getting up a hill, everyone claps and says 'Go, go, go! You can do it!' And they always do! Having that kind of support, being with a group of people, working hard on something, and then making it happen -- I can't think of a better metaphor for life: You put in the hard work of getting to the top, and then there's the long, amazing ride down."The teens and tweens talk about things on the rides, too, says Michael. Personal things. Things they may not be able to tell the kids they know at school, or their parents. They connect, and learn that many of them share the same problems."It's all very natural; the kids don't even realize they're getting fed information about making better choices," says Michael.Open your psycheParents who have noticed they have great conversations with the kids while driving would agree: There's something special about talking with other people while you're not staring each other in the eye. When you're both engaged in something taking part of your concentration, the pressure's off to fill awkward silence. Interesting things emerge."And so the Trips for Kids riders befriend each other in this easy, simple way, while at the same time connecting with nature as well as their own psyches.And these bike riding bonding experiences can be monumental and even life-changingevents for adult as well as kids. As Barb Chamberlain, the executive director of Spokane bike advocacy organization Washington Bikes, wrote in a recent series about how cycling every day changed her life:"Adults don’t have many playgrounds: Places in which to hang out with a stranger side by side, testing the same new experience or challenge, and starting to talk with each other or help each other out, thus easing into a new relationship. In grade school that swing set or tetherball encounter might launch a lifelong friendship simply through the shared activity that gives you time to talk and get to know each other.""When you're on a bike, you're free. Not just free, but unbound," says Michael, a faraway look in his eye. "There's nothing between you and the wind and the air. It's exhilarating. It's like nothing else."Interested in volunteering or learning more about biking for fitness, friendship or philanthropy? Trips for Kids has chapters all over the country. And many metropolitan areas have community-based cycling organizations, such asAtlanta's Beltline Bike Shop or Seattle's Bike Works.Joyce Slatonis a freelance writer who lives in San Francisco. She blogs regularly for Babycenter.com.
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Scouting for Happiness

When it was time for the Girl Scouts of Troop 41645 in Cincinnati to choose their Bronze Award project, they came up with a simple but ambitious goal: To make the world a better place. And, after brainstorming ideas, they decided the best way to do that was simply to make people happier. “Once we decided to do that, we started talking about reasons why people weren’t happy,” says Carrie Wagner, co-leader for the Troop. “We talked about war, depression, loneliness—we talked about all the reasons people were sad, and why it was important for them to smile more and how we could make them do that.” The girls came up with the idea of a “smile campaign,” called “Smile, the World Needs It,” which launches June 1 and will run for 30 days. Each troop member created a card designed to make someone smile, then the troop voted on their four favorite designs. Those cards were then printed up and the girls are given 30 cards at a time to hand out to people they see. They can hand them to strangers at the mall, to people who buy cookies or just to anyone who looks like they need a reason to smile. The Bronze Award is the highest honor that a Girl Scout can achieve, and it requires that the entire team develop an idea, create initiatives and then put that plan in motion. The girls in the Troop range from age 9 to 13. The goal of the project, as outlined by the Troop, is to “educate friends, neighbors, colleagues, acquaintances and make new friends promoting happiness and smiling to all.” They also are researching reasons why people are not happy and will use their discoveries to “work to change the way people think about happiness.” Cards of happiness Karen Strasser, co-leader, says they have already printed 700 cards, but hope to hand out at least 5,000 cards during the month-long campaign. Each girl is asked to personalize the cards she hands out by writing her own message about smiling or happiness on the back. As part of the project, each girl must also submit four random acts of kindness that she participated in and must submit four reasons to “smile and be happy.” The troop leaders will post those acts and reasons on the campaign’s Facebook page during the month of June. Troop members will encourage everyone they meet to follow them on Facebook, and to “look in the mirror and work on being a more positive person.” Kylie, who designed one of the cards being used, says the movement could help curb sadness in the community. “There are so many people who are rude or not happy,” she says. “It makes the people who are happy kind of sad, so we want to make everybody happy.” And Troop member London says that she has noticed recently that so many people seem unhappy. She hopes this campaign will make a difference. “I’ve noticed from watching the news that there are a lot of bad things happening,” she says, “and this is one way to change that.” Although the campaign has not yet started, the girls say they already feel happier just by working on the project.
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Are You a Giver?

Sharing and giving with others shows strength, not weakness, at workI once had a boss sit me down to explain that the only negative feedback he had about my performance was that people thought I was “too nice.” I nearly fell off my chair.For one thing, I didn’t think I was really that nice. Sure, I was always happy to support, encourage and appreciate others whenever I could, but I hadn’t survived a decade in senior leadership roles without making the tough calls, and I had the scars to prove it.Second, I couldn’t imagine being “too nice” was something that could undermine my performance or hamper my career. Was this code for the fact I wasn’t seen as masculine enough? Was I was beingnaïve?Do nice guys finish last?Some studies have suggested that those of us who enjoy helping others and expect nothing in return do indeed often fall to the bottom of the success ladder.Those who are too caring, too trusting and too willing to sacrifice their own interests for the benefits of others, on average, mayearn less money, and arejudged as less powerful and dominant by their colleaguesbecause they’re more likely to forgo their own interests for the benefit of others.Matchers, givers and takersLuckilyprofessor Adam Grant of the Wharton School of Business has written a bestselling book, Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Successwhich explores the concept of three different personality types—givers, takers andmatchers—and how they interact in the workplace.Grant has found a growing body of evidence across a wide variety of industries to show that givers not only have the potential to rise to the top of the business ladder—they may even have an advantage.According to Grant, matchers look for an even exchange of favors, while takers primarily look out for themselves. Givers, on the other hand, create a ripple effect with the help and support they offer others, which eventually has a way of cycling back around. In the meantime, these people are widening their circle of associates and creating a deep well of good will. (Some would even call it good karma.)Be a giver—with boundariesGrant identifies three strategies successful givers useto ensure they don’t burn out or become push-overs.First, they limit their availability by setting boundaries on when, how and whom they help. This allows them to protect their time and energy more carefully, and focus their giving in directions that will have the greatest impact.Second, they advocate for others and for themselves. They look to help others, but they also keep their own interests in the rearview mirror: They’re willing to fight for themselves when necessary.Third, they use empathy to open doors and identify win-win solutions that meet others’ needs without sacrificing their own.Embrace your nicenessDrawing on similar strategies, I decided to embrace my authentic “niceness,” ignore my boss’s feedback and get on with the job at hand. In less than a year my team and I went on to exceed every measure set from employee engagement to client awareness and preference. At the heart of our success lay “giver” attitudes and actions that won the hearts and minds of my company’s 6,500 employees.Once again I sat down with my boss.This time he sheepishly offered a promotion and a pay raise in appreciation for the way my unique approach had paid off. And no, I wasn’t “too nice” to forgo a little victory dance when I got back into my office.Are you a giver, a matcher or a taker at work? How is your style impacting your success?MichelleMcQuaid, born and raised in Australia, is a best-selling author, and workplace and wellbeing coach.
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