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Anna Faris Opens Up About New Memoir

When actor, producer and podcast creator Anna Faris, age 40, starts talking, anyone within earshot is bound to feel like they’ve run into a long-lost high school bestie. With no veils of celebrity pretense or ego, Anna (whose name is pronounced AH-na, like Donna) has a knack for connecting with friends and strangers alike by exchanging life stories and bonding over common experiences. Anna—star of CBS’ popular show Mom, voice actor for The Emoji Movie and currently filming an Overboard remake due out next year—is also married to Guardians of the Galaxy’s Chris Pratt and mom to the couple’s 5-year-old son, Jack. It’s hard to imagine there would be time for another project. Just ask Anna Yet Anna, who thrives on testing her personal boundaries, fulfilled her lifelong passion of doling out unsolicited advice to family and friends by developing a call-in-style podcast in 2015 called Anna Faris Is Unqualified. Her memoir and advice book, Unqualified, is set to be published this October. Despite her choice of book titles, Chris is quick to note that dispensing advice is a natural fit for Anna. “Anna is genuinely interested in the stories of other people,” he says. “She always takes into careful consideration the well-being of her listeners’ hearts and gives the kind of supportive advice you'd get from a friend.” A fan of NPR and podcasts, Anna says she devoured advice-style talk shows as a child. “Instead of cartoons, I’d watch Sally Jessy Raphael and was always reading Dear Abby and other relationship and advice columns. I just loved Dr. Joyce Brothers, too.” To parlay that childhood hobby into an adult, creative outlet, Anna ordered microphones on a whim. She invited a few friends over to discuss their relationship trials, tribulations and testimonies but didn’t expect anyone to listen to what they had to say. “It was like a therapy session we recorded.” Within days, her longtime pal Sim Sarna offered to lend a hand. “That was the first time someone, including me, took the idea seriously. We really started from there.” Everyone has heartache The podcast has grabbed attention from several of Anna’s colleagues like Sarah Silverman and Lance Bass, as well as legions of listeners seeking down-to-earth advice. “It’s a chance for listeners to get to relate to people they see in movies, hear on the radio, etc., in a real way. To see everyone has heartache. It’s not exclusive to any one group or demographic.” When talking to listeners, Anna isn’t afraid to divulge personal details or dive right into the chaos, like when she made actor Nick Kroll play acting games with her in a New Orleans hotel lobby before chatting with him about the importance of dating passionate people. The podcast advisers—Anna, Sim and a guest celebrity—also share stories of their own relationship successes and failures, tales of puberty or even parenting frustrations or flops. “No topic is off limits for us, or callers,” Anna says. 100% there for you In typical Anna fashion, she quickly—but naturally—connects with callers to the show. “Honest and, hopefully, really good advice is our goal,” says Anna. “Sure, we’re fun and joke around, but when we’re listening to callers, we’re 100 percent there for them and want to let them know that usually someone else has gone through a similar situation.” The podcast’s success morphed into Anna’s writing Unqualified, allowing her to flex the English degree muscle she built in college at the University of Washington. “That’s the most terrifying experience I’ve had in long time,” she confides. “It made me feel more vulnerable than probably I’ve ever felt, besides maybe giving birth. “The goal was to share my experience because it’s not that different from so many other people. Everyone has had their heart broken or screwed up a good relationship. And my hope is that people will walk away realizing that so many journeys are the same. My heartbreak is the same as someone else’s and if I have to be vulnerable for people to get that, that’s OK.” Read more: Garcelle, With Grace and Gratitude
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4 Ways to Stay Engaged With Lifelong Learning

Learning shouldn’t stop when you graduate from high school or get a college diploma. While it’s true that our brains go through a period of rapid growth and development during our late teens and early 20s, we continue to mature, understand the world and, hopefully, learn new skills throughout our entire lives. The more nourishment we give our brains in the form of experiences and information—whether that means taking a class in French cooking, learning origami or becoming addicted to a smart political podcast—the more it keeps us nimble and youthful. When we engage in lifelong learning, not only do we gain insight about the wider world, we also get a better understanding of ourselves. Plus, we reap other benefits, such as a sense of vitality, meaning and fulfillment. Lifelong learning doesn’t just mean going back to school to get a Ph.D. (though some people may choose to do that). Don’t know where to start? Here are four options to consider. Just follow your interests and see where they take you. 1. Listen and learn. We are living through a golden age of audio with multiple options for every listener. Podcasts have opened up a new world of listening and learning, and the best part is that they’re available anytime, anywhere. If you are new to the podcast world, it can be overwhelming; there are just so many to choose from, including comedy shows and plenty of true crime. But lots of podcasts are truly educational. You’ll find options for grammar geeks, history hounds and classic film buffs. Start with names and media outlets you may already know, such as the TED Radio Hour, The New York Times, Malcolm Gladwell or our own Live Happy Podcast. The only limit is your free time. Before podcasts there were audio books, which are still going strong thanks to Audible and other streaming programs. Local libraries also offer a selection to borrow for free. Sometimes it is just easier to listen to a book than to read one—especially if you have a long commute, or spend a lot of time cooking and folding laundry. Read more: 8 Ways to Find Your Own Tribe 2. Watch and learn. Some of us are visual learners, and watching a human being talk helps us assimilate information better than if we just listened to a disembodied voice. We watch their expressions and body language; we take a journey along with this person. There are now thousands of TED Talks on innumerable subjects, from how to recycle Styrofoam to how computers will grow our food in the future. Instead of looking to user’s manuals for instructions, we now look to YouTube videos for everything from tips for riding your new road bike to DIY green cleaning. Education can be as close as your phone. Download an app such as Duolingo to begin learning a new language. A longtime proponent of lifelong learning, The Learning Company offers The Great Courses, a series of long-term classes on subjects that range from the Ottoman Empire to Optimizing Brain Fitness, taught by Ph.D.s who are leaders in their fields. For most of the courses, you have a choice of media: DVD, CD, audio, or video download, priced accordingly. Here is a TED Talk from Live Happy contributor Amy Blankson about how to maintain your happiness in the digital era. 3. Find an online course. Digital learning is now easier than ever thanks to MOOCs: Massive Open Online Courses. These are varied in scope, convenient and usually inexpensive. You can take a one-time class online, sign up for a professional certificate, or even earn a degree. For example, if you are looking for an online course in positive psychology, we’ve got you covered. Start here for an online education: Founded by Harvard and MIT in 2012, EDx is a non-profit clearinghouse of high-quality online courses offered for free (with additional certificates at a cost). It is a pretty amazing resource. Coursera is another large MOOC clearinghouse offering courses from Duke, Stanford, UPenn and other prestigious universities. You register to pay monthly and can take any course. Recently bought by LinkedIn, which was gobbled up by Microsoft, Lynda.com offers tons of useful professional video courses—mainly in computer, web, business and related fields. Learn to edit video, use WordPress or code in HTML. Lynda is a great resource for those who want to polish their digital skills, or even your grandmother who would like to use Word shortcuts. Sign up for a yearly fee and take as many classes as you like. Read more: 5 Ways to Get in Touch With Your Higher Calling 4. Attend a class in the ‘real world.’ Online courses have made staying home a tempting option for adult education, but in truth, nothing beats being there in person, in the presence of the teacher and other students where, at its best, you’ll find an atmosphere of intellectual dialogue. Many universities, colleges and community colleges offer some form of continuing education. The Bernard Osher Foundation has made an incredible commitment to lifelong learning, helping to fund specialized institutes at more than 100 universities. (Check this list to see if there is one near you.) Courses are most often taught by Ph.D.s and other specialists in their fields. Churches, Jewish Community Centers and community recreation centers sometimes offer classes such as bible study, religious history, and computer literacy for seniors at low or no cost. Taking a class is not the only way to continue learning. Developing a hobby or pursuing a passionate interest such as yoga or dance can produce the same life-enhancing effects. Seek out a local crafts guild to take a pottery or painting class, or a 4H or university extension that teaches gardening or animal husbandry. Another way to learn and grow in the real world: volunteering. If you are passionate about books, volunteer at the library, or read to someone who is vision-impaired. You love to cook? Volunteer at your local Meals on Wheels. You’ll learn as much about the other volunteers—from all walks of life—as you will about food. To understand why lifelong learning is so important for our well-being, check out the feature article in the October 2017 issue of Live Happy magazine. Emily Wise Miller is the Web Editor for Live Happy.
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Good Apples

Apple cider. Applesauce. Apple pie. Apples are a fundamental staple of the American kitchen. If apples were not already vibrant red, green and yellow, they might as well come in red, white and blue. The versatile fruit—a member of the rose family—thrives in cold weather but is available year-round. Apples come in a mind boggling number of varieties, from stalwarts such as Granny Smith and Gala to newcomers like Jazz, Pink Lady and Honeycrisp. You’ll get the full benefit of apples’ nutrients when you enjoy them raw with the peel on. (Wash them well and/or buy organic.) Apples achieve their startling colors thanks to antioxidants called polyphenols, including the flavonol quercetin, which concentrate in the peel. These chemicals have been ascribed with warding off cancer, to name but one superpower. Eating apples also aids digestion and lowers two kinds of cholesterol. The fiber in apples gives you a feeling of being full; in addition, apples are lower on the glycemic index than other fruit, which makes them a perfect snack for those who want to shed a few pounds. *** In fall when apples are abundant, you can slice then into salads, juice them or eat them any way you like. Here are two favorite recipes to add to your list. Apple Cake With Toasted Pecans You can easily omit the pecans and leave this cake very simple. Serve it with coffee in the afternoon or bring it to a potluck and watch it disappear before your eyes. (Adapted from “Spiced Apple Cake ” in Muffins by Beth Hensperger.) Serves 6 to 8 people. 3 tart apples, such as Granny Smith or Fuji, peeled, cored and chopped into roughly ½-inch pieces Zest and juice from one small orange or Meyer lemon ½ cup packed brown sugar ½ cup chopped pecans, toasted ½ teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour 1 ½ teaspoons baking powder ¼ teaspoon salt ½ cup (1 stick) unsalted butter at room temperature 8 ounces cream cheese at room temperature 1 ¼ cups granulated sugar 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 2 large eggs Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Butter and flour a 9-inch round springform pan, or a square baking pan. In a bowl, combine the apples, zest and juice, brown sugar, pecans and cinnamon. In a separate bowl, mix together the flour, baking powder and salt. Using an electric mixer, combine the softened butter, cream cheese and vanilla with the granulated sugar in the bowl of the mixer and beat until smooth, about 2 minutes. Then add the eggs, one at a time, mixing after each addition. Then add the dry ingredients a little at a time. Finally, remove the bowl from the mixer and add the apple mixture, using a wooden spoon or spatula to gently mix into the batter. Pour batter into prepared pan and bake until top is golden and a toothpick or cake tester comes out clean—about 60 minutes (check at 50 minutes if using a square pan and not a springform). When the cake is done, allow it to cool on a wire rack for 10 minutes. Release from the pan; let cool and serve. Apple Sauce With Cranberries Use this classic fall recipe with turkey, Hanukkah latkes, or any time you would normally use regular apple sauce. Serves 6 to 8 people as a condiment. 4 whole tart apples, such as Fuji or Granny Smith, peeled, cored and chopped into large pieces 2 tablespoons lemon juice ¼ cup brown sugar 1 cup raw cranberries Combine all the ingredients in a heavy pot with 1/3 cup water. Cook over medium heat, stirring often with a wooden spoon to break up the apples, until the ingredients have melded into a chunky sauce, about 15 minutes. If you would like a more refined texture, pass the sauce through a potato ricer or food mill. Emily Wise Miller is the Web Editor for Live Happy. Some of her previous articles on food and cooking include 3 Steps to Healthier Eatingand Tomatoes Take a Starring Role.
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Live Happy Radio Show Launches in Dallas

Dallas, Texas – July XX, 2017 – This summer, as part of its mission to cultivate and spread happiness around the world, Dallas-based Live Happy launched its first radio show, Live Happy Radio. Airing locally in Dallas on Sunday mornings from 8 a.m. – 9 a.m. on 98.7 KLUV-FM, listeners can also tune in on Radio.com or on the Radio.com app (available on iTunes and Google Play) by searching “98.7 KLUV.” Each week, the show shares uplifting and inspiring stories of Dallas’ own “happy heroes,” a rapid-fire exchange of positive ideas and tips from the magazine’s top editors, as well as positive psychology research on how listeners can add more positivity and meaning to their lives. Since its inaugural episode on June 4, Live Happy Radio has featured interviews with positive psychology and well-being thought leaders including Caroline Miller and Genella Macintyre, celebrities, and Happy Activists within the Dallas community. Show topics range from the importance of a good night’s sleep, to the impact technology has on productivity, even to the positive benefits of looking at pictures of cute puppies. Live Happy Radio is the newest addition to the company’s media platforms. These include Live Happy Now, an inspiring free weekly audio podcast, which debuted as No. 1 New and Noteworthy on iTunes in 2015, and Live Happy Magazine, the first-of-its-kind publication which combines scientific research and practical advice to help readers add joy and meaning to their lives and share it with others. “This transition to radio came from the tremendous and positive response from Live Happy Now, as well as requests from our readers,” says Deborah K. Heisz, Live Happy editorial director, CEO, and co-founder. “This is a great growth opportunity for us, as the show will allow us to reach our loyal audience of listeners and readers, as well as a whole new audience in the Dallas area. Our hope is that they’ll take away a tip, insight or activity that will boost their moods in the short term and build more life satisfaction for the long haul.” For additional resources on finding and sharing happiness, visit LiveHappy.com and espanol.LiveHappy.com. # # # About Live Happy Live Happy LLC, owned by veteran entrepreneur Jeff Olson, is a company dedicated to promoting and sharing authentic happiness through education, integrity, gratitude and community awareness. Headquartered in Dallas, Texas, its mission is to impact the world by bringing the happiness movement to a personal level and inspiring people to engage in purpose-driven, healthy, meaningful lives. Media Inquiries: Megan Miller Krupp Kommunications mmiller@kruppnyc.com 212-886-6707 Dina White Krupp Kommunications dwhite@kruppnyc.com 646-797-2030
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7 Apps to Get You More Involved in Your Community and the World

The summer after my first year in business school, I accepted an internship at the United Way in Gulfport, Mississippi. The year was 2005 and my assignment was to update the organization’s infrastructure by developing new systems for online giving, emergency protocols and sustainability planning. I had no idea how soon my efforts would be put to the test. I wish I could say my work that summer was part of a crucial response initiative, but when Hurricane Katrina hit on Aug. 29, I learned that my carefully written protocol, along with the desk I wrote it on, were literally floating somewhere in the ocean. The emergency we never planned for Following my limited memory of my protocol, I called the other staff, only to learn that everyone was in crisis and our executive director was missing (we were able to connect with her a few days later, and she was fine). I remember feeling so helpless—our organization was supposed to be a hub for disaster response in the area, but our operation was devastated. Yet in the interim, digital humanitarian groups from around the globe stepped up, helping to upgrade our infrastructure for communication and filling in where we simply could not. Crisis management in the digital era Since Hurricane Katrina, technology for disaster response has improved by leaps and bounds. In times of crisis, humanitarians with digital tools can help sift through the high volume of user-generated content (texts, photos, aerial imagery, videos and more) so that aid workers can focus on doing what they do best: providing aid. For example, when an earthquake struck Nepal in 2015, more than 7,500 digital volunteers contributed to improving Wikipedia’s OpenStreetMap so that aid workers could navigate the area efficiently and even use satellite imagery to determine the regions of Nepal affected. Similarly, Humanity Road and Standby Task Force curated social information and coordinated volunteers, while other groups like Translators Without Borders bridged language gaps. The cliché that works: Think globally, act locally You don’t have to traverse the globe to get involved in making your own community a better place. Some of the highest-impact work can take place right within your neighborhood. When I moved into my new neighborhood in Dallas, I learned that a huge percentage of residents use the app NextDoor as a sort of virtual community kiosk. I was amazed to see how this simple, free online bulletin board added to our neighborhood, deepening connections and enabling a whole different level of social support. Every day, users post about dogs on the loose, teenagers driving recklessly, families in need and more. On one memorable day, a man collapsed on a sidewalk and another neighbor found him. He had no identification on him, so the neighbor called 911 and then posted a description of him to alert his family. Within five minutes, his family was found and he was safely on his way to the hospital. If you’re interested in becoming a digital volunteer, either at home or further afield, check out these great apps and dive in! NextDoor.com: Build community in your neighborhood. SeeClickFix: Report issues like potholes and street signs that need to get fixed in your city. PublicStuff: Drive positive change in your community through online campaigns. Care2.com: Start petitions and gain support for causes. BeMyEyes: Help a blind individual see through video chat. CitizInvestor.com: Invest in public projects that you care about through crowdfunding and civic engagement. Translators Without Borders: Offer to translate oral and written documents for people in need. Listen to our podcast: The Future of Happiness With Amy Blankson Read more from Amy: Let Technology Lift Your Life Amy Blankson, aka the ‘Happy Tech Girl,’ is on a quest to help individuals balance productivity and well-being in the digital era. Amy, with her brother Shawn Achor, co-founded GoodThink, which brings the principles of positive psychology to lifeand works with organizations such as Google, NASA and the U.S. Army. Her new book is called The Future of Happiness: 5 Modern Strategies for Balancing Productivity and Well-being in the Digital Era.
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#HappyFacts: Friends Furever

Each week, Live Happy Radio presents #HappyFacts designed to enlighten, educate and entertain you. This week, we’re going to the dogs (and cats) with our pet-themed episode: Pet more, stress less We’re all stressed at one time or another, but if your child is feeling the effects of stress, some quality time with the family pet might be helpful. A study from the University of Florida found that pet dogs provide a great source of social support for children who are stressed. Middle school students in the study who interacted with their pet dog showed lower levels of the harmful stress hormone cortisol than students who weren’t engaged with a pooch. Researchers pointed out that the study’s significance goes beyond understanding what our pets can do for us; middle childhood is a time when students are learning how to deal with stress, and those reactions and habits will shape their future. Providing them with a healthy way to buffer their stress responses could have a lasting positive effect. Dogs don't get all the fun! Read about Norman the therapy pig. Friends furever We all know that social connections are key to our overall well-being and play a major role in both our physical and emotional health. But now there’s evidence that a four-legged friend could be just as good for us as our human counterparts. Three different studies conducted by researchers at Miami University and Saint Louis University came to similar conclusions: people gain a tremendous sense of belonging from their pets. Maybe it’s the unconditional love, maybe it’s just having a companion in the home who is always happy to see you—but whatever it is, when we bond with our furry friends, evidence shows they are just as effective as a best (human) friend when it comes to providing us with that much-needed social connection. Explore 5 ways our pets make us happy. They call it puppy love Finally, if you want to put some magic back in your marriage, maybe you should try looking at pictures…of puppies and bunnies. Yep, if you’ve lost that loving feeling, a few feel-good pictures of furry critters might light that spark again. When Florida State University had study participants look at a stream of pictures of cute puppies and furry rabbits every few days over a period of six weeks. In addition to the cuddly creatures, researchers interspersed photos of the person’s spouse into some of the photo streams. Over the course of the research, they found that spouses with pictures of their partner included in the photo stream registered more positive feelings toward their better half and reported greater marital satisfaction. And, we assume, there was also an increase in belly rubs. Did you know cat videos are great for our happiness too?
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5 Reasons to Stop Hating Your Body

From the moment we’re born, others judge us and comment on our appearance. “What a beautiful baby!” “Who does he look like, mom or dad?” Our height and weight are among the first official facts sent to our family and friends on baby announcements. For most of us, how we feel about our appearance is a barometer of how we feel we fit into the world. When we feel good about how we look, we feel better about ourselves. Societal norms, our upbringing and the baggage we have picked up along the way all impact how we feel about our bodies. Our body image can affect how we think, feel and behave. If we feel positively about our bodies, it impacts us in a positive way. If we feel negative about our physical self, it can impact our mood, emotional well-being and may even build the foundation for an eating or psychological disorder. Glamorizing anorexia? Netflix is tackling some of these body-image issues in its new controversial film, To the Bone. The story features a 20-year-old woman dealing with anorexia nervosa. Some critics claim the movie glamorizes anorexia, possibly laying the groundwork for its vulnerable teenage audience to develop eating disorders. To its defenders, To the Bone creates awareness and stirs much-needed conversation about the topic. When someone develops an eating disorder, there are typically multiple risk factors such as age, family history, psychological disorders, stress, depression and more. A common thread among individuals with the disease is a negative image of their own body. One movie will not precipitate an eating disorder. Instead, there is hope that To the Bone will start conversations about the importance of having a positive body image. Many of us deal with issues related to a negative body image. Here are five ways to improve how you feel about your body. 1. Look at the whole you Take what I call a "whole me" point of view. Don't just focus on what you perceive as your flaws. Instead, look at your long lashes, your capable fingers that type so many words per minute, your strong back that enables you to carry a kid in each arm. 2. Turn off the chatter Be aware of negative familial and societal voices that may be impacting your self-image—including the self-talk coming from your own mind. Does your mother always comment about your weight? Does your best friend consistently talk about diet and exercise, making you wonder if she is dropping a hint? Do attractive models in magazines push your buttons? Work toward emotionally detaching yourself from these situations; let your family or friends know that you don't want to engage in these types of conversations. 3. Heal your history Do you carry emotional baggage about your body image from your past? If we are overweight and teased as children, even if we lose all the fat, we may never completely lose the emotional weight. Our bodies bear their own emotional memories—from trauma, shame, criticism. If you are carrying this kind of burden, read books, search the internet and seek specialized counseling to move beyond past negative experiences. This will not only help your body image, but it will also help your overall health and well-being. 4. Create a list of positives List all of the "things I like about my body." Get specific. Talk about everything from your freckles to your toenails to your hair. Come up with as many as you possibly can, and read the list over when needed. 5. Rewrite your internal script Turn a negative thought into a positive one. If you think something like “I do not like my body,” follow that up with “I like many parts of myself, and I will work on liking my body better.” For more information on eating disorders, visit: nationaleatingdisorders.org Read more: Quiz: Do You Love Your Body? and Quiz: Are You Sabotaging Your Self-Esteem? Stacy Kaiser is a licensed psychotherapist, author, relationship expert and media personality. She is also the author of the best-selling book, How to Be a Grown Up: The Ten Secret Skills Everyone Needs to Know, and an editor-at-large for Live Happy. Stacy is a frequent guest on television programs such as Today and Good Morning America.
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Embracing Awe

Growing up in a small farming community in the foothills of Mount Rainier in Washington, Melanie Rudd couldn’t explain the sense of reverence she felt every time she gazed up at the imposing peaks. “I grew up hiking and camping, and when I was in the outdoors it changed the way I felt. But I didn’t really know what that was or have a good label for it,” Melanie says. She found a name for those powerful emotions when she began studying awe while pursuing her Ph.D. at Stanford University. Today, as assistant professor of marketing at Bauer College of Business at the University of Houston, her areas of research include time perception, emotions, mood and prosocial behavior—all of which are linked to feelings of awe. “There are several emotions we don’t see a lot of research about and don’t talk much about,” she says. “Awe has been one of those; it’s something that our culture has only [recently] decided is important to talk about.” Awe in action Historically, awe has been largely overlooked by science, even though it is something all of us experience (and benefit from) throughout our lives. It wasn’t until 2003, when Dacher Keltner, Ph.D., of the University of California, Berkeley and Jonathan Haidt, Ph.D., then at the University of Virginia, turned their attention to the study of awe that modern psychology began to see it as a viable emotion worth examining. Since then, it has gradually gained steam and research attention, with a growing body of evidence pointing to its physiological and emotional benefits. One of the researchers presently leading the conversation is Michelle “Lani” Shiota, Ph.D., who heads up the Shiota Psychophysiology Laboratory for Affective Testing (SPLAT Lab) at Arizona State University. As a psychology student with a performing arts background pursuing her graduate degree at University of California, Berkeley, she knew that awe “had been a profound and satisfying part of my life.” She was shocked to learn how little research had been done on it. “Outside the field of psychology, people think of awe as a luxury,” she says. “I call it the Gucci handbag of emotions—people think it’s great if you have one, but it’s not something you really need. The truth is that’s not how emotions work. We have those responses for a reason.” Lani’s mission has been to find out why we’re built to experience awe, what it does to our brains and how it affects us physiologically. While it is known to be an emotional response to stimuli, its benefits have been less simple to pin down. Dacher and Jonathan’s pivotal 2003 research on awe defines it as “the feeling of being in the presence of something vast and greater than the self, that exceeds current knowledge structures.” More simply put, awe is that feeling you get when you witness a stunning sunset, listen to a stirring piece of music or observe a powerful work of art. It can be triggered by a religious or spiritual experience, or caused by a powerful personal experience such as the birth of a child. That results in an intense emotional response that can overlap with such states as wonder, curiosity or even fear. “Awe occurs when you are presented with an experience that is so much bigger than your understanding of the world,” Lani says. “It’s different from other positive emotions, and it has a suite of effects on our physiology, behavior and cognition. It’s this massive intake of information that doesn’t fit with your current world.” That requires a process that Dacher and Jonathan referred to as “accommodating,” in which your thought process must expand in order to understand, or accommodate, what you’ve just experienced. Such a process is one more way that awe and its effects differ from other positive emotions, according to Lani. “Most positive emotions feel activating, they make you want to move,” she says. “Awe slows us down physiologically. It actually reduces our fight-or-flight response and is physically soothing. Awe makes you focus on one thing, in a broad way, and put your attention fully on the experience.” In that way, it is similar to mindfulness and shares some of the same emotional and physiological benefits. It can hit the pause button on our automatic behavior and thought processes and change our emotional states. It even has been found to help correct negative health behaviors such as smoking a cigarette or eating food that you know isn’t good for you. “We now have seen that even a brief dose of awe can help put a brake on us” and redirect our actions, according to Lani. Listen to our podcast with Lani Shiota: Expanding awe Tricia Schers spent much of her young adult life traveling; she has gone whale watching in Hawaii, seen the sea turtles nesting in Suriname and trekked through Thailand. But when she took a marketing job for Frontiers North, an adventure tourism company based in Churchill, Manitoba, Canada, she says her level of awe increased exponentially. “I was three days into the job when they sent me to Churchill to experience one of their tours,” she recalls. “I got to see beluga whales in the wild, nine polar bears—including a mother nursing a cub—and the northern lights. I was blown away.” Even today, she feels that same sense of humbled reverence every time she encounters the rugged, frozen paradise. “There’s a reason people use the word ‘majestic’ when they describe seeing polar bears in their natural environment,” Tricia says. “I can sit and watch the landscape and become completely mesmerized. Somehow you feel the interconnection of the ecosystems; the landscape is rugged, yet you can sense the fragility of it. “It is simply awe-inspiring.” While the use of the word “awe” may have worn down its true significance (just note the overuse of “awesome!” in daily conversation), the fact is that true awe is a deeply felt emotion with powerful implications. The feelings it generates tap into the sense of vastness that help de ne awe, and it’s connected to what researchers call “the overview effect.” The phrase was originally coined by space philosopher and writer Frank White, Ph.M., in 1987 to describe the cognitive shift that occurs in astronauts when they view Earth from space. Viewing Earth from such a perspective was shown to trigger a profound sense of awe and a sense of connectedness with their universe among space travelers. Frank found that many astronauts felt the experience so transformative that they returned to Earth with a renewed sense of purpose. The good news, for those of us who don’t have access to a spaceship, is that similar reactions can be derived from viewing images from space. Awe also can be cultivated, as Melanie and Tricia found, by experiencing nature. “A lot of it has to do with an increased sense of connectedness in the moment,” explains David Yaden, a research fellow at the University of Pennsylvania in the Positive Psychology Center and co-author of the paper, “The Overview Effect: Awe and Self-Transcendent Experience in Space Flight,” published last year in the journal Psychology of Consciousness: Theory, Research, and Practice. His research looks at the overview effect as a way to better understand awe and self-transcendence, or the ability to lose ourselves and feel connected to “a bigger picture.” “Most of our worries and concerns are derived from a hyperfocus on our self,” he points out. “When that focus on our self is reduced, so, too, are many of our concerns. And when you feel you are less of a center for concern, you feel more connected to people.” Experiencing a sense of awe, he says, immediately removes the focus from self and resets our thinking to see our surroundings differently. “Evidence shows that awe might be an important part of the mental health diet,” he says. “It’s associated with well-being and with pro-social behavior. So if you care about increasing your overall well-being, awe is one way to do that. We still don’t know exactly how or why, but it’s safe to say that awe forms a pathway to well-being.” He says the last decade has seen interest in awe increase as more research has been released to show its causes as well as its effects. Each study adds to its credibility while at the same time raising new questions that can be explored, such as whether certain traits make us more open to experience awe and how long its impact lasts. David is currently working with Dacher to help build “a more robust scale” for measuring awe’s benefits. “Sometimes the value of these experiences is hard to pin down,” he says. “But if you ask someone about their most awe-inspiring moment, they will see it as something that was profoundly meaningful.” Slowing the clock As awe gains more traction as a research topic, more aspects and benefits are being examined. Among the more interesting outcomes, Melanie has found in her ongoing research at the University of Houston that awe can be useful in changing our perception of time. “This could be particularly useful because today people feel increasingly pressed for time,” she says. “When you look at what time pressure and time famine are doing to us, it’s not healthy.” When we’re pressed for time, we tend to eat on the run (and make poorer food choices), have lower levels of life satisfaction and will postpone self-care, such as doctor and dental appointments. We’re also more likely to over-purchase goods, even though we may not need them. While most of us feeling the crunch of the clock wish for just a few more hours in the day, perhaps what we really need is just a little more awe in our lives. “Rather than try to change the amount of time people have, we look at how to change their perception of that time,” Melanie says. Her studies reinforce Lani’s work showing that awe requires you to be in the moment. “When you are in the experience of awe, it really sucks you in,” she explains. “You can’t wander into the past or the future. You are in the present, and you’re taking in all the sights and sounds and smells of that moment.” As your brain works to process and encode these changes in the environment and your emotions, “time feels more expansive, more full and rich.” Because you crammed so much information into this time, the perception is that time slows down. And along with that sense of having extra time comes less irritability and a greater tendency to give others the gift of your time. “[In our studies] when people looked at the diary of what they had experienced, it really did look like they had more time,” Melanie says. “They were more inclined to volunteer, which had additional benefits by giving them that ‘helper’s high.’ No matter how much money you make, the common thread between us is that everyone is pressed for time. Maybe if we find ways to alleviate the time stress, we’ll start to make better decisions for our well-being.” Incorporating awe If awe is one pathway to well-being, it is a pathway with many entry points. Researchers often use pictures or virtual reality in the laboratory setting to create a sense of awe in their subjects. For those of us who aren’t being studied, it’s much easier. It doesn’t require a trip to the Grand Canyon or to see the northern lights; you can find awe in your own home, your backyard or with friends. “You have to know what has a better chance of eliciting an awe response for you, personally,” Melanie advises. “It can be nature or music or art or even other people’s accomplishments. Think about what inspires you.” She suggests seeking out new experiences. Whether that’s visiting a park you haven’t been to before, taking an exotic trip or just getting out and meeting new people, a new experience “increases the odds that you’ll find something awe-inspiring,” Melanie says. And, when you do find it, collect it. Save pictures or videos in a computer folder to look at when you’re feeling like you need a boost; you might be surprised how much good it does you. “By the time we hit adulthood, we’re on autopilot; we kind of have to be,” Lani adds. “We store knowledge and do the same thing day after day, and that’s good, because that’s what expertise is. But it doesn’t necessarily feel great. “Practicing awe breaks us out of autopilot. And it feels nice to break out and be aware of what’s around us in the world.” Read more: 5 Awe-Inspiring Destinations Paula Felps is the Science Editor for Live Happy magazine.
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#HappyFacts: Sync and Swing

Each week, Live Happy Radio presents #HappyFacts designed to enlighten, educate and entertain you. Here’s a look at what we’re talking about this week: Paying your bills makes you happy OK, well, maybe it’s not the actual bill-paying part that puts some extra spring in your step and brings a smile to your face, but the effects of paying those bills are enormous. A study from Purdue University found that being in debt lowers your level of subjective well-being, or how you experience the quality of your life. While many studies have looked at how much money it takes to reach a state of well-being, few have looked at how the debt-to-income ratio affects us. And, it turns out, debt is a huge detractor from our happiness, regardless of how much we make, accounting for about 40 percent of our life satisfaction. What still needs to be studied is how different types of debt affect us – say, paying a mortgage for a home you love vs. paying a hospital bill – but until then, it appears that paring down your debt is good for your soul as well as your credit score. Find out if money really makes people happier Sync and swing Do you want your kids to get along better? Next time they’re fighting, try sending them to the swing set instead of to their rooms. According to a study published online in the Journal of Experimental Child Psychology, the synchronous movement found while swinging can help children once they leave the playground by teaching them to be more collaborative. That’s because the synchronous movement that occurs while swinging requires the children to pay attention to one another and they begin engaging each other to maintain the same rhythm. (Similar outcomes are found when children march or make music together.) So if you want to teach your kids more about cooperation, maybe it’s time to head to the playground! Learn why grown-ups need recess, too Get a blast from the past Thinking about the good old days can actually make you feel better about the here and now. That’s the conclusion of a study published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. According to their findings, thinking fondly about the past can create psychological comfort and combat feelings of loneliness. Those warm memories help raise our self-esteem and overall feelings of well-being which, in turn, generates more optimism about the future. So next time you’re feeling a little blue, step back in time for a few moments and see what it can do for your mood! Explore happiness rituals from ancient times
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Use Lifelogging to Maximize Your Potential

For many of us, the intrusion of “Big Data” into our lives is truly frightening. It means someone (some company) is out there tracking information about us and using it for their own purposes. They know our likes and dislikes, our temptations and our strengths, and our decision-making behaviors. While debates about the pros and cons of Big Data rage on, the truth is, it’s not going away anytime soon. I think a more interesting question is: If companies are willing to spend millions of dollars to understand our behavior, why aren’t we using this personal data to understand ourselves better? In an online movement dubbed the Quantified Self, individuals from over 30 countries have joined together to “lifelog” (track) and share personal data in attempts to better understand human nature. Lifelogging is the process of digitally tracking your personal data. While it may seem like an odd endeavor, it’s likely you’ve done it without even realizing it. If you’ve used a fitness tracker, pedometer, sports watch or even an iPhone (which automatically tracks your steps), you’ve lifelogged. Nearly 69 percent of Americans are already tracking at least one health metric, whether it’s in the form of calories burned, quality of sleep or heart rate. Aside from a desire to lose weight or improve fitness, you may be wondering why individuals involved in the Quantified Self would bother to track and share their personal data. The answer simply comes down to curiosity and a desire to improve oneself. It’s the ultimate expression of growth mindset in the Digital Age. Lifeloggers have been able to identify illnesses, control levels of anxiety or depression, increase productivity, and improve their overall lifestyles. In one case, lifelogging has even helped to save a life. Steven Keating discovered a life-threatening tumor that would have remained hidden were it not for a combination of lifelogging and the fact that he had volunteered to participate in a university research study. The study included an MRI scan, which revealed Steven had a slight abnormality. Three years after the initial scan, he underwent another MRI, which showed the abnormality had remained the same (good news). Four years later, however, Steven noticed that he smelled vinegar for about 30 seconds every day. For most, smelling vinegar for less than a minute a day would go unnoticed. But Steven’s lifelogging had focused his awareness, which prompted him to get a third MRI. That MRI revealed that his abnormality had grown into a baseball-size tumor. Fortunately, he had the mass surgically removed and has been able to carry on with his life. The process of lifelogging via wearables or apps taps into our innate curiosity and desire to problem-solve. While not all of us are savvy enough to read an MRI, we do have numerous tools at our fingertips that give us greater insight into our own minds and bodies. From fitness trackers to time trackers, productivity measures to sleep measures, a plethora of options capture and analyze data easily using our smartphones. Here are a few of my favorites: Addapp can pull data from multiple apps on your phone to make suggestions for diet and exercise based on past behavior. The app might recognize that your sleep quality has declined along with activity level. However, if you were able to take just 2,000 more steps each day, you could significantly increase your chances of getting better sleep in the coming week. RealizD tracks how you spend your time on your phone. By capturing data about how many times you unlock your phone, how long you spend on it, and what you are doing when online, RealizD provides insight into your behavior, and accountability for decreasing your digital addictions. LifeCycle works in the background of your phone to track time spent at work, home, shopping, enjoying entertainment and more. The goal is to help you raise your awareness of how you spend your time so you can align your goals and intentions with your actions. Journalyfor the Mac and iPhone helps you privately journal about your life. You can manually operate it or auto-journal, by allowing your phone to track destinations, weather, fitness, travel and sleep. Instant tracks your entire life automatically and puts it on your dashboard. Lifelog your phone usage time, places you go, fitness, sleep and travel. In many ways, these apps simply provide a starting place for gathering information and insight into your behaviors. With the exception of Addapp, all require you to draw your own conclusions; however, it’s not hard to imagine that in the near future these apps will become increasingly smart and more predictive. Imagine if you could ask your phone to distract you when you approach a temptation while trying to kick a bad habit. What gets me excited about lifelogging is the prospect of being able to create a renaissance in my own life, using the small insights to create positive change. As you begin to experiment with behavior and mindset changes over the next few weeks, here are five guiding questions that can help you develop a practice of continual learning. How does the data that you gather compare/contrast to the past? How does this data compare/contrast to that of the people around me? What information looks false or might be missing? What factors shaped these outliers or unusual data points? And most important, given this information, how do I need to tweak my behavior for the future? As you embark on this new adventure, I would love to hear how your lifelogging is going. Share your story or ideas with me at amyblankson.com/story and together we will continue to pursue a future of happiness. Listen to our podcast with Amy: The Future of Happiness Read more from Amy: The Internet of Things Brings the Future Home Amy Blankson, aka the ‘Happy Tech Girl,’ is on a quest to help individuals balance productivity and well-being in the digital era. Amy, with her brother Shawn Achor, co-founded GoodThink, which brings the principles of positive psychology to lifeand works with organizations such as Google, NASA and the U.S. Army. Her new book is called The Future of Happiness: 5 Modern Strategies for Balancing Productivity and Well-being in the Digital Era.
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