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3 Easy Ways to Show Gratitude at Work

Anytime you say “thank you” to one of your co-workers or employees for his or her help, you are expressing gratitude. When you take a moment to recognize a job well done, you’re practicing gratitude. Even when you reflect on how fortunate you are to have a job, you’re showing gratitude. Why say "thank you"? It takes just a couple of minutes out of your day, but the results of an expression of gratitude last far longer for you and the recipient. Case in point: Last year, Google studied its employees’ biggest motivators. What the company found was surprising. The No. 1 thing Google employees value most is not increased compensation or stock, but recognition delivered in a personal, genuine way. The company’s engineers said they especially value peer-to-peer recognition. As Yum! Brands CEO David Novak says, “Why be selfish [with] the one thing that matters most to people?” Here are three easy ways you can express gratitude at work today: 1. Catch your co-workers doing something right We’re pretty good at catching people doing things wrong, but we don’t always put the same energy into catching people doing something right. Be on the lookout for your co-workers doing great things, and then point them out in a very clear, specific way. With this positive feedback, your co-worker knows you’re sincere, and he or she can replicate the success. 2. Celebrate small wins Take your employees or co-workers out to lunch or coffee or even take a walk together and recognize them for a job well done. Identify and acknowledge achievements at staff meetings. Actually ask your co-workers, “How did you accomplish that win?” and “What was it about your preparation and effort that got you that far?” Celebrate, and let your co-workers know their win, however small, didn’t go unnoticed. 3. Make someone's day Everyone appreciates a genuine thank you. Make it a point to end conversations or encounters you have during your day with a thank you, when appropriate. Look your co-workers in the eyes, offer a warm smile and say “thank you”—let them know you mean it. You’ll be able to sense their appreciation, and who knows, maybe they’ll take a cue from you and share gratitude. So what will you do to let someone know you appreciate them today? This week? Will you catch someone doing something right? Will you celebrate a co-worker’s small win by treating him or her to a cup of coffee? Or will you aim to make someone’s day brighter by offering a sincere thank you? Whichever you do, chances are, when you express your appreciation for the positive others bring to your life, you’ll discover the effects of gratitude go far beyond a simple smile. Margaret H. Greenberg and Senia Maymin, are organizational consultants and executive coaches, and authors ofProfit from the Positive: Proven Leadership Strategies to Boost Productivity and Transform Your Business. For more information about Senia and Margaret, go toProfitFromThePositive.com.
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Give Happy

Before you go racing out to the mall to pick up a new oversized reindeer sweater for Aunt Sally and a set of drums for your 4-year-old nephew (fun for him, not so much for your brother and his wife), here is a holiday shopping guide based on the science of happiness that might help.The gift of happiness?Scientifically, the greatest predictor of happiness is, by far, social support—the breadth, depth and meaning in your relationships. So consider giving gifts that are activities, like a special evening at the local ice rink complete with hot chocolate and marshmallows. Unlike a physical gift, this experience gives you a chance to spend quality time with friends or family and strengthen your bond. The key is to use these moments to really connect and converse more deeply than you normally do with other people. This reminds our brains of the deep social support that fuels our own happiness as well as theirs.Encourage savoringThe difference between momentary pleasure and long-term positive memory is based on the ability to savor, or mentally return to, an event or feeling. A gift that causes a spike in happiness at the moment but that you can’t remember even a week later is analogous to going on a fantastic vacation that you won’t recall. When shopping this season, think of gifts that will continue to benefit the recipient. For example, for your spouse, you could buy a personalized pillow with important dates in your relationship that will literally help that person savor special moments every time he or she sees it. (We have one of these!) For a friend, perhaps buy him or her a coffee mug with a picture of something meaningful so the day starts with a positive reminder—the key is to pick a present that will continue to focus the recipient’s attention on positive, happy moments.Avoid the deficit trapIt’s normal to sometimes wish that we could give a better present than we can afford. Stanford professor Carol Dweck, Ph.D., calls the phenomenon of focusing on what we don’t have “deficit mindset,” and it robs the present (and our presents) of joy.Instead, we should cultivate a positive mindset by focusing on the facts that we have someone whom we care about so much that we want to give him or her a nice gift and more resources than some people in this world. Receiving is as important as givingWe’ve all heard that it’s better to give than receive, but the saying misses an important corollary: How you receive matters (a lot) to the giver’s happiness.If you receive well, your reaction to a gift can actually be a gift in and of itself. The problem is that many of us can’t receive gifts without our brains producing negative thoughts such as, “I’m not worthy of this present” or “Now I feel indebted to her.” Think about it: We’re happier when others are excited about our gifts and respond with joy and gratitude. So by subtly changing our ego-driven thoughts of guilt to “I am so grateful to her not only for the present, but also the friendship it represents,” we fuel greater levels of happiness for both the giver and ourselves.That way, when Aunt Barbara surprises you with a matching reindeer sweater, you can be genuinely grateful for her love—and the adorable pictures the two of you can take together to cherish for years to come.Shawn Achor, author ofThe Happiness Advantageand the newly releasedBefore Happiness, is one of the world's leading experts on human potential. Michelle Gielanis an expert on the science of positive communication and how to use it to fuel success. She formerly served as the anchor of two national newscasts at CBS News. Together, Shawn and Michelle createdGoodThink, a positive psychology consulting firm.
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Unplugged

How an unintentional break from technology brightened my world.Happy. That’s the word I would use to describe my state after moving into a new house this summer. There were plenty of other emotions that accompanied the move—stress, exhaustion, hope, weepy nostalgia (as I peeled the paper cutouts from my children's bedroom walls in the old house). But since settling in, I’ve had an overriding feeling of peaceful happiness.Cutting the cordThis is not just a lucky-me treatise on a new house. In fact, the thing that’s made me most happy has little to do with the house at all. It has to do with cutting the cord between me and my computer.In my old house, my home office—and thus, my computer—was at the kitchen table. This made sense, because, as a food writer, that's where much of my work takes place. Even when I wasn't working, I could always steal a moment to jump online and check email, shop for something that just popped into my head or check in on Facebook.Screen zombiesWhat this meant, of course, was that I filled a lot of little spaces in my life by popping open the computer. It seemed harmless, even good: "I have 10 minutes; let's see if that editor wrote me back." Or, "I have been meaning to get the kids' Halloween costumes; let's see what's on sale." And thus, I became a screen zombie.I'm not alone We walk through airports, sit with friends in a bar, even drive—unable to resist the pull of whatever fascinating banality pops up next on the screen. This was something I had tried to avoid.The happy LudditeI deliberately don't own a smartphone or electronic tablet, which already makes me a Luddite in our over-stimulated world.I wasn’t consciously planning to escape technology when I carved out part of our new guest room as my home office. But now the computer, and my electronic life, is a flight of steps away from where I hang out.Technology, with intentionThe effect has been immediate and dramatic. Suddenly, I only use my computer deliberately, either when working or when I have a reason to check in. And my sense of wellbeing has increased, as I live more in the physical world. I find that I spend more time interacting with my family, or just being alone with my thoughts. I even find time to read an actual print newspaper.Tied to the mastPutting a physical barrier between you and temptation is no new concept. Psychologist Walter Mischel describes in his new book, The Marshmallow Test, how children who attempt to delay eating a treat can wait much longer if they simply hide the treat from themselves.According to Mischel (who also happens to be my former college psych professor), "If you are able to lock the temptation off and prevent yourself from gaining access, you're like Ulysses tied to the mast against the siren song."Try taking a technology breakCertainly, there are a lot of luxuries built into my scenario—starting with the fact that I work from home. But if you wish to spend less time cozying up to a screen, I believe the lesson here is universal. Just tie your electronic device to the mast, whatever that means for you (turning the phone off after a certain time of night; putting the iPad in time-out ...). Those messages will still be there when you come back.
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Wake Up Happy: Series 3

As a thank you for being part of our Wake Up Happy series we wanted to do something special for you.So we are providing you with immediate access to our inspiring Wake Up Happy Series 3 conversations--at no cost.Listen in on five powerful interviews with New York Times best-selling authors and experts in the fields of happiness and positive psychology. These insights and strategies to make your life better are now at your fingertips; no matter what time of day. Plus we're including transcripts and info-graphics of each session!We hope you'll find these interviews inspiring and helpful. Thank you again for being part of our Wake Up Happy series.Listen in as Debbie Gisonni, New York Times best-selling author of The Goddess of Happiness, healthy lifestyle advisor and corporate leader, talks about how Self-Love & Happiness. ​ Tune in as Louisa Jewell, Founder and President of the Canadian Positive Psychology Association, a speaker and author who spreads the word about the science of happiness through her workshops, talks and webinars with audiences around the world, talks about Flourishing with Confidence. ​ Catch Bubba Paris, three-time Super Bowl Championship winner, founder of Paris Enterprises and Friends of the Homeless, talks about how to Take Control of Your Happiness. ​ Join in as Louis Alloro, a change-agent working with individuals and networks in systems to enable positive evolution, talks about Enabling Positive Evolution. ​ Get excited as Dr. Fred Luskin, Director of the Stanford Forgiveness Projects, Senior Consultant in Health Promotion at Stanford University, and Professor at the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, talks about Forgiveness & Happiness. ​ body{ background-color:#FFFFFF; }
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31 Days of Purpose!

We continue our Year of Happiness with 31 days of purpose. Pick and choose your favorite ideas from our list of things to do, watch, read, contemplate…and share!1. “Those who have failed to work toward the truth have missed the purpose of living.” ―Gautama Buddha2. Spend the holidays with loved ones.3. Listen to “Lose Yourself,” by Eminem.4. Read The Seed: Finding Purpose and Happiness in Life and Work, by Jon Gordon.5. Watch Dallas Buyers Club.6. “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.” ―Eleanor Roosevelt7. Give someone a hug.8. Listen to “Enjoy the Silence,” by Depeche Mode.9. Read For One More Day, by Mitch Albom.10. Watch The Mighty.11. Rescue a dog or a cat.12. Listen to “The Living Years,” by Mike & the Mechanics.13. Read A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle.14. Watch Rudderless.15. “If you can't figure out your purpose, figure out your passion. For your passion will lead you right into your purpose.” ―T.D. Jakes16. Write down five things you’d like to accomplish next year.17. Listen to “Changes,” by David Bowie.18. Read How to Practice: The Way to a Meaningful Life, by the Dalai Lama.19. Watch Boyhood.20. “The meaning of life is life.” —Alan Alda21. Volunteer for a cause you feel passionately about.22. Listen to “Solsbury Hill,” by Peter Gabriel.23. Read The Art of Being: 101 Ways to Practice Purpose in Your Life, by Dennis Merritt Jones.24. Watch The Family Man.25. “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.” ―Albert Camus26. Be social.27. Listen to “Mr. Jones,” by Counting Crows.28. Read Way of the Peaceful Warrior, by Dan Millman.29. Become a Big Brother or Big Sister.30. Forgive someone in your past.31. Watch Seven Years in Tibet.
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7 Ways to Be Happier Now

Happiness is about the journey, not about destination; it’s about how you live your life each day. Some articles you may have missed with a few ideas for adding a little more gratitude, mindfulness and joy into your usual routine.1. Practice self-nurturingTake a yoga class, dance in your kitchen to favorite music, get a mani/pedi or go for a walk in nature. Actively investing in your physical well-being can make your thoughts about yourself more nurturing, too. Learn more ways to focus on being the best you.2. Have a values check-inDo you have a feeling of meaning and purpose in your life? This quiz will help you find out. If you don’t like your score, you might want work on nurturing your relationships, being compassionate and giving back to others—all of which have been shown to have an impact on our own wellbeing. Take the quiz now.3. Look at Mondays in a new wayWhat would your day look like if you felt fabulous at the end of it? What project can you tackle on Monday to start your week super-charged and set the tone for a wonderful week? Don’t dread Mondays, show ‘em some love instead. Put the fun back in your Monday now.4. Call in the superfoodsCertain foods like olive oil, nuts, sweet potatoes and kale have been shown to contain mood-boosting nutrients. Not to mention these ingredients are incredibly healthy for you, and taste delicious when cooked with a little finesse. Four easy-to-make recipes.5. Tap into hopeIn order to be truly happy, you need something to hope for. We have 31 ways you can rediscover a greater sense of hope in your life.6. Find a happy highlight of the dayTake a few minutes every day to write down one positive experience that occurred over the past 24 hours. Enjoy the positive emotions from reliving that event, and look for patterns you can repeat to bring about more happiness. Read more on achieving happiness despite everyday challenges.7. Wake up happyTune in to experts’ advice on how to start your day happy. Don’t get stuck ruminating on negative thoughts. Take responsibility for your own happiness by putting yourself in situations that bring you great joy and choosing love over fear. Try this positive mantra: “You are doing your best.” Sign-up for our free Wake Up Happy! series.
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8 Easy Practices to Enhance Gratitude

We have read it over and over again in positive psychology research, from Martin Seligman to Shawn Achor: If there is a one-word answer to the secret of happiness, it is gratitude.Gratitude may just be the strongest tool in the kit when it comes to pulling ourselves and others out of a funk, or rebooting a terrible blue mood. Here are some simple exercises that can enhance your sense of gratitude and all year round.1. SavorSlow down! Stop, breathe, take notice, and delight in the present moment. Let yourself get excited about little things. Cultivate tiny moments of joy, and notice those times when they spontaneously happen.2. Plan experiencesWhat can you plan this season that will make your holidays more memorable? Be purposeful about planning and creating special experiences, and you will reap the rewards.Is there a tradition you can renew? An activity you can plan with your family in town that will create a cherished memory? It could be as simple as taking a photo of extended family or tossing a football together in the backyard.3. Play musicListening to music can make us feel more alive. When you play music that resonates with you, it heightens your senses and gives you a greater feeling of awe and reverence for life.Create a playlist that you feel deeply connected to personally. Tune into it when you need a gratitude lift or a shift in perspective.4. Write a letter to your younger selfHappiness researcher and author Shawn Achor suggests writing a letter to your younger self with the wisdom you have today. This simple act can transform your past (by showing yourself compassion) and can transform your present. Read your letter and you will likely find advice you can still use today.5. Make a highlights listWhat are your stand-out experiences for each month of this year? Capture those in a simple list. You will experience more gratitude as you recall special experiences, trips and treasured memories. Sometimes time moves so fast we miss the gratitude that comes from reminding ourselves of how fulfilling our lives already are.6. Fall asleep to gratitudeIn a journal, write down what you feel thankful for each day. Capture specifics and small details. Make this the last activity you do before you fall asleep. Not only are you immersing yourself in all that brings you joy, you are putting your mind in a thankful and positive place before you drift off to sleep.7. Make a resilience listWrite down five tough times and how you made it through. We all need reminders that we are stronger than we think. When you know you can cope with what comes your way, you can put worry down and more fully live in the present moment.8. Take the focus off youDo something nice for someone else that is totally unexpected. Leave a happy note for your waitress, pay it forward and buy that eggnog latte for the car behind you in line at Starbucks, or call someone you haven’t talked with in a while. Happy acts for other people give you a sense of contentment, too.
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What People Are Saying About Live Happy

Readers weigh in about how Live Happy has affected their lives. Dear Live Happy: I love the article about choosing a word for the year and it being a great alternative to a resolution. It made me think about it and my word for 2017 is “significance.” I’d like everything I do to add significance in someone’s life; it will help me be intentional about the things I do every day to improve myself and add value to others. What a great way to make sure I’m living happy in 2017. —Eeman H. :) I like the article about choosing a word for 2017. I have done this in the past but it was like reading it for the first time, like the blinders were off and the word “focus” stuck out to me. What we FOCUS on is what grows! —Mechelle C. :) Hey there, I was on the hunt for some info about commuting and found your post "Reboot Your Commute." Great stuff! Keep cranking out the great content for livehappy.com. Thanks! —Joshna J. :) I found your fantastic website, and I have been inspired by the amazing stories and podcast. —Andrew B. :) I just picked up your magazine in the Louis Armstrong New Orleans International Airport and read it cover to cover by the time we got back to Chicago! I am in love with it. My name is Felecia, which means happiness, so the magazine title was my first attraction, and I am a huge fan of Queen Latifah gracing the cover. Every article wowed me, and I am definitely subscribing! Thank you for this experience! —Felecia G. :) I stopped in an airport lounge to have a little oatmeal and coffee before boarding my flight. It was here that I discovered Live Happy magazine. Oh my! It’s my soulmate in print and I’m in love. Every page leads to happy and joy. —Sandra L. :) My daughter and I talk about being Happy all the time. Most of our happy thoughts are centered around Nature and the outdoors. So when I saw "Live Happy" in the newsstands at the checkout line while in Whole Foods, I thought, Yeesss! It made me think so much of my daughter Nyah. She's always been such a happy girl. BTW, The article on Adult Sleep-Away Camps was awesome. Adults could benefit from getting in touch with their" inner child and finding their 'Happy' "! Thanks, Live Happy! —Ebony J. :) I just wanted to let you know that your magazine is so lovely. It puts a smile on my face when I see it in the mailbox. You will have a subscriber for a long time to come. And, I have already made a gift subscription for a friend’s birthday. Thank you so much. —Sue F. :) I’m not a very good flyer, so the positive reinforcement I get from reading Live Happy makes the flight a little smoother! —Paige S. :) I got to listen to the podcast this morning before the crazy day started. I got lots of good input that I needed for today. It really did help! Thank you Live Happy! —Joan A. :) Your recent podcasts with Amy Blankson and Laurie Berkner (my kids’ favorite singer) taught me so much about tech and parenting. —Evan M. :) Live Happy is amazing! The magazine was a welcomed delight but the podcasts are life-changing. I am able to play them at home and in the car. As a stay-at-home mom of kids that are 2 and 3 years old, I need all the focus, lessons, skills and happy time that I get from Live Happy Now. Plus my little guys listen in, too, so they are soaking up the happiness! —Rebecca P. :) OMG! I have known about Live Happy since its inception and have enjoyed the articles, interviews and ideas...and the podcasts are the best ever! I listen every morning while I’m working out. Sometimes I get lost in the subject, other times I am right there. The beauty is that I am so happy listening to good, happy, positive stuff, rather than the news or 24-hour sports commentary! —Lynda E. :) Thank You! I am 74 years old and am reading Live Happy: Ten Practices for Choosing Joy. I have read many books in my day, but this book has touched me and motivated me more than I can even explain. I am savoring each page and know I will re-read it many times. I have never sent an email or letter like this, but felt compelled to. Again, thank you. —Faye W. _________________________________________________________ We want to hear from you, too! Contact us at editor@livehappy.com.
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Happy LuLu Day!

Happy LuLu day everyone!For those who are reading this and have that tilted dog head confused look going on, LuLu stands for Loosen up, Lighten up, and it's one of those made-up holidays that some random dude invented on a whim. So try it. Ahhhh. That feels better. If you are stressed out, maxed out or just overrun with life, today, November 15, you are officially encouraged to relax. You have 364 other days to worry ruminate. Use today as an excuse to break out the jogging pants and flip flops and get that extra helping whatever makes you happy.Here are some tips for loosening and lightening up:Call up an old buddy and have a laughHave two. Remember that time when he/she said this or that and you were all…and they were all…and everyone laughed? Laughing is easy and it is good for you. It lowers your blood pressure and reduces your stress.Watch TVAim for something a little less stressful than Homeland. More like a "Duck Dynasty" or "The Voice" kind of thing.Get outside and get some fresh airTake the dog for a walk in the park. Take yourself for a walk in the park. Or just sit on a bench and breathe it all in. Maybe a butterfly will land on your shoulder (and if that happens, run out and buy a lottery ticket). Just get back to nature. Studies have shown that there are many health benefits to oxygen, including…well, trust me, you just need it.Carpe Diem… because tomorrow, it’s back to the grind.Chris Libby is some guy who works here.
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About Wake Up Happy Speakers – January 2015

Turiel. Her current position at the University of Texas at Austin started in 1999, and she was promoted to Associate Professor in 2006.During Kristin’s last year of graduate school in 1997 she became interested in Buddhism, and has been practicing meditation in the Insight Meditation tradition ever since. While doing her post-doctoral work she decided to conduct research on self-compassion – a central construct in Buddhist psychology and one that had not yet been examined empirically.She has developed an 8-week program to teach self-compassion skills. The program, co-created with her colleague ChrisGermerat Harvard University, is called Mindful Self-Compassion. Her book titled "Self-Compassion" was published by William Morrow in April, 2011. Kristin was recently featured in the best-selling book and award-winning documentary called The Horse Boy, which chronicles her family’s adventure with autism.Darrin M. McMahon is a professor of history at Dartmouth College. He is the author of Enemies of the Enlightenment: The French Counter-Enlightenment and the Making of Modernity (Oxford University Press, 2001) and Happiness: A History (Atlantic Monthly Press, 2006), which has been translated into twelve languages, and was awarded Best Books of the Year honors for 2006 by the New York Times, The Washington Post, the Library Journal, and Slate Magazine. McMahon has just completed a history of the idea of genius and the genius figure, Divine Fury: A History of Genius, published in late 2013 with Basic Books, and his writings have appeared in such publications as the New York Times, the Boston Globe, the New York Times Book Review, the Washington Post, and the Wall Street Journal.ShaniRobins, pioneered the field of Wisdom Therapy in 1998. He is a licensed Psychologist and the founder and director of the Wisdom Therapy Institute since 2000. He is an instructor at Stanford University Medical School’s Health Improvement Program, and an Assistant Professor at the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology. Robins received his B.A. in Psychology and Philosophy from UCLA in 1989, his M.A. and Ph.D. in Cognitive Experimental Psychology from U.C. Santa Barbara in 1996, completed a 2-year National Institute of Mental HealthPostdocat U.C. Irvine in 1999 and a Ph.D. re-specialization in Clinical Psychology in 2002. He has published and has given numerous clinical workshops, invited talks, scientific conference presentations, and corporate consultations nationally and internationally on Wisdom Therapy and its relationships tocognitions, emotions, stress reduction, relationships, work place effectiveness, coping, emotional intelligence, performance, and organizational consulting.He is a member of the American Psychological Association, the American Psychological Society, and has won many honors including inclusion inStrathmore’sWho’s Who. In his spare timeShaniplays racquetball, chess, and GO,rollerblades, salsa dances, runs marathons, and watches sun rises.BarbaraFredrickson, earned her undergraduate degree from Carleton College and her doctorate from Stanford University. She is currentlyKenanDistinguished Professor at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, with appointments in Psychology and theKenan-FlaglerSchool of Business. She is also Director of the Positive Emotions and Psychophysiology Laboratory.Fredricksonis a leading scholar within social psychology, affective science, and positive psychology, and has received more than 16 consecutive years of research funding from the National Institutes of Health.Her research and teaching have been recognized with numerous honors, including, in 2000, the American Psychological Association's inaugural Templeton Prize in Positive Psychology, in 2008, the Society for Experimental Social Psychology's Career Trajectory Award, and in 2013, the inaugural Christopher Peterson Gold Medal, the highest honor bestowed by the International Positive Psychology Association. Her work is cited widely and she is regularly invited to give keynotes nationally and internationally.Fredrickson's2009 book, Positivity, describes the relevance of her 20-year research program on positive emotions for a general readership. Her 2013 book, Love 2.0, offers a fresh and practical perspective on this most vital human emotion.SeniaMaymin, Ph.D. in Organizational Behavior from Stanford,is a consultant and executive coach whose clients include Google, Intel, and VMware.Mayminruns a coaching network that provides coaching for upwards of 30 managers at a time to large technology companies in the Bay area. When entrepreneurs and executives seek far-reaching productivity improvements, they call onMayminas an executive coach and workshop leader.Mayminis the coauthor of the business bookProfit from the Positive(McGraw-Hill Professional, 2013), and the co-business columnist forLive Happy Magazine.Mayminhas been featured in the media—includingPBS’s This Emotional Life, Business Week, The Wall Street Journal’sMarketWatch, andUSA Today—primarily for her work as a positive psychology executive coach.Mayminfounded and is editor in chief of a research news website featuring more than 1,000 articles by over 100 authors. She has worked in finance on Wall Street and in technology ascofounderand president of two start-ups.Mayminholds a BA in Math and Economics from Harvard, a Master of Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania, and an MBA and PhD in Organizational Behavior from the Stanford Graduate School of Business. She speaks Russian, French, and Japanese. She lives with her family in California.
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