Group of happy elementary school kids.

Happy Schools Make Happy Children

In January, the elementary students at North Fond du Lac Schools in Wisconsin took on their most ambitious art project to date. Each of the more than 400 children, from kindergarten through fifth grade, wrote one thing they were thankful for on a strip of construction paper. Then they made paper “rings” of those expressions of gratitude before weaving them together to create one giant “gratitude chain.” Their goal? To create a colorful paper chain that could wrap around the entire school, surrounding it (both literally and figuratively) with gratitude. The project, says art teacher Alice Tzakais, was the culmination of the school’s Happiness Week, which included a variety of activities centered on expressing gratitude and happiness. “Our theme is the power of happiness,” explains Alice, who is now in her 40th year as a teacher. The school has seen firsthand how powerful happiness can be in the lives of both students and teachers. Since Aaron Sadoff became superintendent eight years ago, following three years as principal, he has worked diligently to spread the message of positive psychology throughout the school. “He has a lot of energy and a lot of ideas,” Alice says. “He’s very positive and enthusiastic, and that’s what it takes to sustain a happier culture.” When his contract came up for renewal two years ago, Aaron negotiated to have the school board send him to California to complete The Orange Frog training program. That program, based on Shawn Achor’s best-selling book The Happiness Advantage, uses a parable about an orange frog named Spark to teach new ways of achieving positive results. “I came back and taught it to my teachers, custodians, secretaries—everyone in the district,” Aaron says. “How a teacher feels affects the students, so I knew that if we can change the way the teachers feel, we can affect the culture for the students.” His teaching staff, he says, has taken the ideas and run with them. Today, Alice says, teachers know their character strengths and choose which ones they’ll develop and use in the classroom. They have developed a program to send the comic book version of The Orange Frog home with every elementary school student, along with a reading guide, to stimulate conversation. “The idea is that this is something the family is supposed to do together,” Aaron says. “So while we’re improving literacy, it’s also teaching them the science of happiness.” Learned happiness The district of North Fond du Lac is part of a growing number of schools incorporating the principles of positive psychology into education. As happiness continues to become more relevant globally, more countries are looking at ways to measure and monitor the well-being of their populations. From specific education policies to grass-roots movements, the awareness of the role happiness plays in individual success is changing how teachers, schools and even countries are approaching education. “The coolest thing is, you don’t sit around and talk about happiness. You don’t say, ‘Oh, look at me, I’m so joyous.’ It’s not like that at all,” Aaron explains. “What we’re doing is about recognizing what you’re grateful for, making social connections and focusing on the things that make us better individuals. And now there’s research that backs it all up.” In the 2015 World Happiness Report, Richard Layard, director of the Wellbeing Programme at the Centre for Economic Performance at the London School of Economics, and Ann Hagell, Ph.D., studied the well-being and mental health of children around the world, and then introduced specific recommendations for improving those conditions. They noted the important role an educational environment plays in children’s happiness and recommended that meeting the needs of children meant establishing well-being as a major objective for schools. Their blueprint for action included: Creating a well-being code that all teachers, students and parents would be held to. Emphasizing praise rather than criticism. Introducing age-appropriate courses in positive life skills at all levels of education. Training teachers to identify and promote well-being and positive mental health in students. The authors were able to show a direct correlation between children’s happiness and their intellectual growth. In 2011, a review of school-based programs providing social and emotional learning skills found that children who participated in such programs improved both their academic achievement and emotional well-being by an average of 10 percent. The final conclusion drawn in the World Happiness Report was that if schools truly treasure the well-being of their students, they must measure more than just academic achievement; they must consider the children’s happiness as well. And measuring it, according to Aaron, is what will get the attention of policymakers. “Math and test scores are important, but there’s so much more to education,” he says. “You have to look at how kids interact and you have to look at things like sports, music, art and how it affects them. It’s a process that takes a while, but all cultural change does. “The bottom line is, we now can prove, scientifically, that happiness leads to success.” Hunting positivity At the Parkmore Primary School in Australia, school principal Saraid Doherty has noticed a culture shift over the past year. It’s most noticeable at lunchtime, she says, when students regularly report their fellow students’ actions to teachers on yard duty. But rather than tattling to get their classmates in trouble, they’re reporting on the good things they’ve seen other students doing. Parkmore is one of many schools in 13 countries that have implemented the Positive Detective program. Created by Lea Waters, Ph.D., professor and holder of the Gerry Higgins Chair in Positive Psychology at the University of Melbourne, and Lela McGregor, a graduate of the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology program, the Positive Detective program teaches students to look for the good in the world around them and share it with others. “Teaching students to notice and discern where they place their attention is a skill that is fundamental to learning and well-being,” Lea says. “Many students feel that attention is outside of their own control…and susceptible to external distractions. This has become more rampant with the greater role of technology in a young person’s life.” Teaching them to focus helps them academically as they absorb more from each class, and it also allows them to recognize negative thought patterns or emotions, which makes it easier to change those thoughts. Building on experiences such as gratitude, savoring and kindness fosters students’ self-awareness about their ability to seek out good in their lives. Then, they learn how sharing those stories can help boost their positive emotions. “The program also includes activities that students take home and share with their parents, such as [writing a] gratitude letter and a positive treasure hunt at home,” Lea says. “[Principals have] received lots of feedback from parents about how the conversation at the dinner table had become more positive as a result of the program.” That viral nature of positivity is part of what helps it work so well. Schools where social emotional learning or positive psychology principles are taught report that the children take those lessons home with them and share with the entire family. Steve Leventhal, executive director of the nonprofit organization CorStone, launched the Girls First program in Bihar, India, in 2011. The program teaches personal resilience to girls in an impoverished area and has changed the way the girls approach problems. But even more importantly, that change has rippled through their families. “When you educate a girl, she takes that home with her. It changes the trajectory of the whole family,” he says. And that appears to be true regardless of whether those families are in India or Indiana. Acting globally As happiness in schools moves from an idea to a global initiative, more systems are being put into place to create effective policies and practices. At the International Positive Education Network (IPEN) festival in Dallas last year, Martin Seligman, Ph.D., director of the Penn Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania, noted that while parents claim the thing they want most for their children is for them to “be happy,” education as a whole has ignored well-being and is aimed instead at developing skills like math, literacy, achievement and success. Yet, research shows that happiness leads to success, not vice versa. In the Asia-Pacific regions, the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) is calling for a fundamental shift in education systems. The Happy Schools Project, conceived by Gwang-Jo Kim, director of UNESCO Bangkok, looks at the relationship between happiness and the quality of education. It calls for schools to look beyond the traditional domains of learning and begin embracing and implementing the other elements that contribute to the wellbeing and happiness of students. UNESCO’s 2016 report, Happy Schools: A Framework for Learner Well-being in the Asia-Pacific, identifies 22 criteria for creating what it considers “Happy Schools.” The criteria fall into three broad categories of People, Process and Place, and shines a light on what is important for creating happiness and well-being in each of those areas. The report calls for decision-makers to “create more time and space for a type of learning that can enhance learner happiness and well-being, in hope of inspiring happier learners who can contribute to happier societies, and ultimately, to a happier world.” The key, it appears, is getting decision makers, both at a governmental policy level and at a school level, to buy into it. In a time when teachers and administrators are under pressure to deliver proof of excellence through test scores, the promise of happier students coupled with improved academic performance is “an easy conversation to start,” says Jillian Darwish, president of the Mayerson Academy in Cincinnati, which provides the Thriving Learning Communities program. “There’s not an educator out there who doesn’t want to help others find their greatest potential,” she says. “That’s why they came to the field. They care about others. The notion of helping them do just that really speaks to educators.” Thriving Learning Communities uses three main components. The largest, social emotional learning, teaches students relationship skills and responsible decision-making. The second guides students on how to identify and work to their character strengths. The third, a digital game element provided by partner Happify, helps teach them about positivity in a hands-on way. “This is not a program we give to teachers to give to their students,” Jillian says. “It begins with the teachers. As an educator, I’m going to find out, what are my personal strengths? How can I use those strengths to develop great teams? Once I’ve experienced that on a personal level, then I can start sharing it with my students.” By teaching educators and then students to “focus on what’s strong, not what’s wrong,” the conversation shifts. “It creates an entirely different dynamic,” Jillian explains. “This, to me, is the antidote to many of the behavioral and social problems we see in schools. If we agree to look for the best in ourselves and in each other, it absolutely changes the way we interact with each other.” Feedback from students and educators alike reinforces what Jillian has observed, and shows that these new skills are helping students both personally and academically. One sixth-grader who participated in the Thriving Learning Communities program says that at first there wasn’t much he enjoyed about school. “But with this,” he says, “you have something to look forward to. I get up in the morning, get moving fast and I get it going so I can get to school.” Fifth- and sixth-graders from the Cincinnati Public Schools offer similar stories, noting that identifying their individual strengths has helped them approach their problems differently. “My strengths are love of learning and forgiveness,” reports one student, who added that learning her character strengths helped her understand herself better and helped her get to know other people. It also gave her an understanding of what strengths she’d like to work on developing—becoming more outgoing and brave—but also reinforced her self-confidence. That, in turn, has made her a better student. “I used to have a hard time focusing on math,” she says. “Now, I have the confidence to take a test and know I can do it.” Proof positive A study published in November in the Review of Educational Research, which looked at multiple research results from the past 15 years, confirmed that a positive school environment can offset many of the negative effects of poverty. In 2016, more schools began looking at the role of culture in academic outcomes, and the U.S. Department of Education even introduced an online toolbox to help administrators measure and understand their school climate. The "Every Student Succeeds" Act, signed into law at the end of 2015, requires U.S. schools to consider non-academic factors such as school culture when evaluating overall success. And the International Positive Education Network was created three years ago to help build a global network of educators, students and representatives from governments and companies who support the idea of reforming—and transforming—the current education model. “It’s a big ship to turn around,” says Positive Detective’s Lea Waters. “But shifting the rudder by even a few degrees changes the long-haul course of that ship. I feel hopeful that now, more than any other time in education, we are seeing that change.” Read more about positive education: Does Grit Outweigh Talent When it Comes to High Achievement? 4 Ideas Shaping the Future of Education Listen to our podcasts: The Importance of Positive Education, Part 1 and Part 2. Paula Felps is the Science Editor for Live Happy magazine.
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Summit Merges Meditation and Motivation

The inaugural World Happiness Summit (WOHASU) in Miami, March 17–19, was a crossroads of science and spirituality, with a lineup of philosophers, researchers and motivational speakers all focusing on one thing: generating greater happiness. Live Happy was proud to add its stamp as media partner of the conference and co-host in celebrating the 5th annual International Day of Happiness. The bright-orange signature Happiness Wall, where people from all over the world shared hope and joy became one of the centerpieces of the conference. From daily meditation and yoga practices to an indoor park (complete with AstroTurf, swings and park benches), the environment was designed to help attendees relax and recharge. Speakers including positive psychology heavy hitters such as Sonja Lyubomirsky, Ph.D., Lord Richard Layard, Tal Ben-Shahar, Ph.D., Shawn Achor, Michelle Gielan and Sri Sri Ravi Shankar presented a wide range of information on happiness and how to achieve it. Business leaders such as lululemon CEO Laurent Potdevin, Woohoo inc's Alexander Kjerulf and Google’s Mo Gawdat and Gopi Kallayil looked at the role of happiness in enterprise companies. Here’s a look at some of the weekend’s events and speakers. Africa Yoga Project co-founder Paige Elenson (above) and AYP graduate Patrick Kiragu lead attendees in a morning Baptiste Yoga Vinyasa flow. Each day began with an opening meditation and yoga practice. Alexander Kjerult, chief happiness officer at Denmark's Woohoo, inc. (above) talks about the essence of "Leading With Happiness." Live Happy columnist and author Michelle Gielan (above) leads the panel, "Broadcasting Happiness: How We Perceive the World." Communications experts on the panel are (left to right) Live Happy co-founder and CEO Deborah Heisz; motivational speaker and journalist Ismael Cala; and Tonic associate publisher John Duncan. The conversation looks at the role of the media in spreading positivity while still covering the news. Best-selling author and happiness researcher Shawn Achor (above) discusses how leaders can increase happiness and meaning for their employees, while at the same time improve the success of their companies. Knitters participate in the "InterKnit," (above) a "real-life worldwide web" developed by textile artist Karelle Levy that encourages people to contribute as many stitches as they'd like. She says knitting and crocheting have been shown to lower heart rates and blood pressure, while this low-tech hands-on activity also encourages one-on-one interaction. Paula Felps is the Science Editor for Live Happy magazine.
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Let Technology Lift Your Life

It’s easy to get frustrated by the incessant rings, dings and pop-up messages of the tech in our lives. Technology helps us communicate faster and work better, but it can also become an albatross. Researchers are beginning to study exactly how it affects happiness and emotional development in the long run. So far, the results from academic studies have been a wake-up call: Teens who spend hours online become less happy; the mere presence of a cellphone during a face-to-face conversation can reduce feelings of closeness, trust and relationship quality. While these findings should give us pause, there is another side to the story—about how technology can (and is) being used to improve communication. Think of the numerous geographically divided families that can now communicate on FaceTime or Skype for a fraction of the cost, or of far-flung friends who now stay in touch via Facebook or Snapchat. Positive news about social media Keith Hampton, a professor of media and information at Michigan State University, argues that the idea that we interact either online or offline is a false dichotomy. Through his studies, he has become convinced that social media and the internet are actually drawing us closer together—both online and offline. “I don’t think it’s people moving online, I think it’s people adding the digital mode of communication to already existing relationships,” he says. The more different kinds of media that people use to interact—phone, email, in person, text, Facebook—the stronger their relationships tend to be. Similarly, a 2012 Pew research study of more than 2,200 individuals in the U.S. found that 55 percent of internet users say their email exchanges have improved their connections to family members, and 66 percent say the same thing for significant friends. Sixty percent of users cite email communication as a primary reason for this improvement. If we know that social media has the potential to positively or negatively impact our relationships, the next step is to think more carefully both about what we are consuming online and what we are spreading. Individuals who actively invest in others are 40 percent more likely to receive social support themselves. So how can we help spread positivity? Here are three tips to get you started: 1. Don’t be 'phony.' Cognitive dissonance is the mental stress we feel when we hold or act upon contradictory beliefs, ideas or values at the same time. Brené Brown, a professor at the University of Houston and author of The Gifts of Imperfection, describes authenticity as “the daily practice of letting go who we think we are supposed to be and embracing who we are.” The further we get from our authentic selves, the further we move from becoming our ideal selves. The internet offers rare opportunities for anonymity and reinvention. But don’t use it that way, for the sake of your own happiness. Make sure your online persona reflects your actual persona, and let the world see the real you. 2. If you are going to read the feed, invest the time to respond. It makes a difference whether you simply scroll through posts or actually stop to respond. A recent study found that individuals who use Facebook passively, experience declines in well-being over time. If your friend said something profound or funny, would you merely flash them a smile or would you verbally respond? Researchers report that time spent reading posts from acquaintances without responding to them is related to a slight increase in negative mood; conversely, posters experience an increase in happiness when they see that their friends reacted to their posts in a personal way rather than just hitting a like button. 3. Let your compliments complement your conversations. Social media is not intended to be a replacement for offline communication, but rather a different mode of expressing one’s self.Use it to enhance, not replace your actual friendships and acquaintances. Make plans, check in and then get together in the “RL” (real world). These small changes make a huge difference in the way that we perceive and engage with social media. If we aspire to see a world where technology strengthens our relationships and improves our mood, we have to start by being intentional with our own behavior. Listen to Amy Blankson discuss 'How to Declutter With Digital Spring-Cleaning' on our Podcast. Amy Blankson, aka the ‘Happy Tech Girl,’ is on a quest to find strategies to help individuals balance productivity and well-being in the digital era. Amy, with her brother Shawn Achor, co-founded GoodThink, which brings the principles of positive psychology to lifeand works with organizations such as Google, NASA and the U.S. Army. Her new book is called The Future of Happiness: 5 Modern Strategies for Balancing Productivity and Well-being in the Digital Era.
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10 Steps to Become a Fully Loaded Grown-Up

A few years ago, I wrote a book called How to Be a Grown Up. What motivated me was my realization that there are 10 significant areas each of us needs to focus on in order to have the greatest chance of being a happy and successful adult. Over time, I’ve come to realize that most of us don't want to be just a grown-up, we want to be a fully loaded grown-up! What is that, you ask? My definition of a fully loaded grown-up is a person who knows when to get down to business and when to lighten up; who can bounce back from life's little spills and not blame someone else for the mess; and most important, who can accelerate through any roadblock to success and happiness. Here are my 10 steps to becoming a fully loaded grown-up. 1. Be a dynamic communicator A dynamic communicator puts in the time and energy to communicate effectively. She cares more about the long-term outcome than the immediate gratification of being louder or being right. The dynamic communicator lets go of the need to win and realizes that true winning comes from a successful relationship, whether romantic or otherwise. 2. Learn to cope Each person's ability to cope begins in childhood. But how you behave in adulthood is a combination of the cards you were dealt as a child, your life experiences as you've grown and the baggage you have accumulated along the way. A fully loaded grown-up learns effective coping skills and puts them into practice. When you have those all-important skills, you can handle whatever life throws at you—and in the end, walk away from the game of life with a positive outcome. 3. Build a strong support system A strong support system provides fun, social interaction, encouragement and help during tough times. They are cheerleaders to root for you during challenges, and people who will celebrate your victories. You’ll want to invest plenty of time and emotional resources in this group, as they are the people who provide a soft place to land when you need it. Perhaps you can find this support network in one or two people, or you might need a dozen. Whatever works for you, make sure not to neglect this key area of your life. 4. Find a solid intimate partnership I have found that a satisfying love relationship has the power to make people happier and more productive. The key is finding a person who nurtures your strengths, and vice-versa, and then maintaining that relationship. Put in the effort to find someone who meets your needs and fulfills your head, heart and body. 5. Get comfortable with your appearance Learn that what other people think doesn't matter and that you ultimately have to satisfy yourself. Be kind and gentle with yourself; social comparison—which often focuses on looks—can be the cause of depression and anxiety, especially for women. Learn to be conscious about your appearance but not hard on yourself. 6. Learn to manage your finances Not surprisingly, managing your finances is key to becoming a fully loaded adult. Take time out to investigate your strengths and weaknesses, and identify the bad habits you have developed over the years. Learn to separate your emotions from your finances and be as logical, methodical and reliable as possible. If you feel your skills are lacking in this area, reach out for support by taking a class, getting advice from a friend or reading one of the many great books out there on how to manage your money. 7. Find work that meets your needs If your work is unsatisfying, find a path either to improve the current environment or make a change. If you are unable to make any changes in your present job, look for elements about it that make you happy. Is it down the street from your favorite lunch place? Have you met a great friend? Does it cover your bills every month? Focus on the positive to help you get through the negative. 8. Free yourself from addiction I define addiction as the habitual and/or compulsive surrender to a substance or activity. They can run the gamut from food to alcohol to sex to shopping. Addiction is so powerful that it can destroy every other area of your life in one fell swoop. Fully loaded grown-ups know how to find real and concrete help so they can recover and live a life that is addiction-free. Three main elements come into play with addiction: genetics, the environment/social factors and the ability to cope. If you have weaknesses in any of these areas, stay vigilant for signs of the onset of addiction; it can sneak up on you. 9. Practice good time-management skills We all have the same 24 hours in a day available to us, and yet some people are extremely productive and accomplish many things, while others can barely make it through the bare minimum of tasks. Don't make excuses. Don't overload your schedule. Learn time-management skills that include delegation and focusing on what is most important. 10. Be flexible Flexibility allows you to handle what life throws at you. It is the ability to adapt, bend and stretch as needed. Flexibility in life will reduce your stress and allow for greater happiness and productivity. If you are taking the time to read this article, you are working the skill of flexibility because you are trying to grow and change. Being a Fully Loaded Grown-up requires what I call positive action. Positive action is the ability to take ownership of your life and make steps toward making change and forward progress. The payoff is that you will be calmer, happier and your life will run more smoothly. You can begin this journey by evaluating your status in these 10 areas and getting started at improving realms that may need some extra effort. Listen to Stacy Kaiser discuss the Myth of the Perfect Parent on our podcast. Stacy Kaiser is a licensed psychotherapist, author, relationship expert and media personality. She is also the author of the best-selling book How to Be a Grown Up: The Ten Secret Skills Everyone Needs to Know and an editor at large for Live Happy. Stacy is a frequent guest on television programs such as Today and Good Morning America.
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The International Day of Happiness 2017

Bea Simmons West had one final request for her daughter Zoe Morris before she passed away on March 19, 2015. Whatever happens, she told Zoe, I want you to be at the happiness wall. The year before, Zoe and a few colleagues had erected a giant orange wall on the campus of the University of Pittsburgh and invited passers-by to write down how they share happiness. It was the first year of these happiness walls, an initiative Live Happy had launched to celebrate the International Day of Happiness, which the United Nations had decreed in 2012 would be observed on March 20 every year. No one knew what to expect in Pittsburgh or at the 29 other walls that were being put up in cities across the country. Would people scoff and keep walking? Would only a few cheery folks stop to share what brings them joy? Monuments of joy In Los Angeles and New York, Chicago and Detroit, Dallas and, yes, Pittsburgh, those big orange walls turned out to be magnets for merriment. “We had some 500 people stop and post things,” Zoe recalls. “Teachers wrote about the students that make them happy. Kids wrote about their love of sports or their love for their moms. A lot of people wrote about what they would do to make other people happy. We laughed about one student who wrote that he was going to try harder to like his roommate’s girlfriend.” The next year, on March 21, 2015, two days after her mother’s death, Zoe was once again hosting a happiness wall. “My mother lived her life to serve others and to make others happy,” Zoe says. “And she was still taking care of me that day. The grief was there, but it was good to be around people who were filled with great energy because they were spreading happiness. And that, of course, was my mother’s intent. She had loved the idea of the happiness wall and she knew the joy it brought me.” A day to come together Deborah K. Heisz, co-founder, CEO and editorial director of Live Happy, says what Zoe describes is what the International Day of Happiness is all about and is why Live Happy celebrates it the way it does, encouraging people to take a few moments out of the chaos of their daily lives to visit giant orange walls and come together through acts of kindness and love. “Sharing happiness is not just one day or one promise written in magic marker and placed on an orange wall,” Deborah says. “It’s a way of living that honors our common humanity and reminds us that it’s in our power as individuals and communities to change the world for the better with small acts that shift a moment to the positive. “Happiness as we define it embraces suffering and human connections, growth and possibility and gives us the courage to live fulfilling, authentic lives. It is about what matters most in life, and that’s why it means so much to us to see how many lives just one wall, one conversation, one hand-written card can touch.” A happiness movement grows Every year, the number of happiness walls has grown. In 2016, there were 100-plus walls in schoolyards, malls, office parks, town squares and airports in 70 cities around the world from Rio de Janeiro and Vancouver, British Columbia, to Honolulu and Mexico City. Dance troupes, acrobats, stilt walkers, local bands, face painters and balloon artists, as well as people posing in front of the walls with feather boas and oversized orange and purple sunglasses, have all become a part of the annual celebrations. Viral happiness But the real power of Live Happy’s celebration of the International Day of Happiness is quieter, sometimes even invisible. It lies in the pledges people of every age make to champion happiness through small deeds of kindness, generosity, gratitude. Live Happy calls these #HappyActs. Smile more. Make two lunches and give one away. Tell your friends what they mean to you. Help a neighbor with a chore. Donate crayons and coloring books to a children’s hospital. Every day during the month of March, Live Happy suggests different types of #HappyActs that people can perform and share. In the largest Day of Happiness campaign in the world, these #HappyActs spread from person to person, family to family, gathering strength in communities and cities, countries and continents. Since Live Happy's first celebrations in 2014, thousands have shared authentic images of what makes them happy, online and on walls, and, in turn, tens of millions of people globally have been touched. Last year, Zoe hosted a wall at the Ohio Valley Mall, not far from her hometown of Moundsville, West Virginia. “It was everything I wanted to accomplish and more,” she says. “For three days we had flashing Day of Happiness billboards on the interstate. There was music from 9 in the morning until 7 at night, with a new local performer every half hour. Vendors donated cookies for kids to decorate. Everyone got involved. It was the anniversary of my mother’s death and what would have been a terrible day was instead a beautiful day of happiness.” A young child shared a happy act that perfectly captured the spirit of community and caring. “If somebody falls down,” she wrote, “I will ask if they’re OK and help them up.” Shelley Levitt is a freelance writer living in Los Angeles and editor at large for Live Happy.
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Queen Latifah Lights Up Our May Issue!

Pick up the latest edition of Live Happy magazine to get real with Queen Latifah, Sam Worthington and actor/comedian Echo Kellum. Find your funny bone, feather your nest and figure out if you like the latest spring pastels. The new issue is here! All Hail Queen Latifah In this month’s cover story, “Happiness Reigns Supreme,” superstar singer and actress Queen Latifah goes straight to the heart of what’s truly important in life: family, confidence and health. She shares why tragedy helped her uncover her true strength, how she cultivates shining confidence and her secret motivation for a healthy, happy life. The International Day of Happiness: How You Can Get Involved Since its beginning in 2012, the International Day of Happiness has become a global movement for sharing and spreading #HappyActs, big and small. In this issue, writer Shelley Levitt shares one woman’s deeply personal connection to the day, how it has grown in the past five years and how everyone can share their joy on March 20. Laughter Really Is the Best Medicine Learn why a sense of humor may be your most effective communication tool. In our feature story “Finding Your Funny Bone,” writer Chris Libby explores the world of improv comedy, and why it is surging in popularity as both a pastime and a tool for success. Sam Worthington Bares His Soul When Avatar star Sam Worthington made the decision to take on the small, spiritual film The Shack, he had no idea how it would change him as an actor and a man. We sit down with Sam as he shares his perspective on how to live a life that is personally and professionally fulfilling. 33 Ideas for a Happy Home Happiness starts at home. We’ve pulled together the best movies, music, songs and activities that will inspire you to feather your nest. A few small changes can make your home radiate with love and joy. Plus get the latest on which colors to bring home this spring, what's the latest superfood to replace kale, and why we should be teaching out kids empathy from an early age. Find out where you can pick up a copy of our May issue at a store or newsstand near you! Listen to our New Issue Preview podcast here!
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Sam Worthington Bares His Soul

The opportunity to truly change the trajectory of your life, explore new worlds real or imagined, savor great experiences and live creatively may all come down to seizing a single moment and knowing when to say yes. Actor Sam Worthington knows he’s one of the lucky ones. From Avatar to Clash of the Titans, the 40-year-old family man from Australia has struck gold on the big screen time and time again…not bad for a young kid who never intended to act in the first place. The accidental actor “I kind of stumbled into it,” Sam says. “I was 19 and went to an audition for the premier drama school in Australia (the National Institute of Dramatic Art) with a girl I was dating at the time. That was what she wanted to do.…I went along for moral support. But as the process continued, I got in and she didn’t. So, I kind of went, ‘Well, I’ll see where this path takes me.’ I went there for three years and have been working ever since.” “Working” may be an understatement, as Sam’s workhorse attitude led him to famed director James Cameron’s epic Avatar. After the movie shattered records to become the highest-grossing movie of all time, Sam found himself securely involved in an uber-successful franchise (several sequels are planned for the next few years, and Pandora—The World of Avatar is set to open at Disney’s Animal Kingdom in Florida this summer). Projects of passion Equally comfortable in big-budget films full of special effects or smaller, more intimate pieces, the commitment to the creative integrity of a project is always Sam’s priority. “I don’t really choose my projects depending on budgets or the time it takes to film. It’s never been something that I look at. I look at it and ask, ‘Is this something that interests me? Is the journey of the character exciting? Is the world exciting to inhabit for several months?’ So the scope and the size of the budget never really comes into play.” In his latest film, the big-screen adaption of the best-selling book The Shack, Sam departs from his swashbuckling roles to tackle the inner conflicts that many struggle with when faced with great adversity and the subsequent feelings of being lost. He portrays the lead character, Mackenzie “Mack” Phillips, who questions his own belief system and is forced to embark on a spiritual journey through tragedy and forgiveness. A spiritual journey The heavy subject matter in The Shack is enough to make any actor or film company hesitate before agreeing to leap into such a project. After reading the book and speaking with the producers to learn the vision of the film, Sam says he had no qualms about moving forward. “I think I was going through a time in my life much like what Mack was going through, his search with God and his understanding of what faith can do to other people in the world and these heavy things,” he says. “They really kind of resonated with me in such a strong way that my only reservation was, ‘Can I pull this off and do this as truthfully as I can?’ You go on the journey and you see where it takes you.” Life imitating art Although Sam clearly related to Mack, his relationship with the themes and lessons provided by the story continued to evolve throughout the process. “When I had my first child, about a month or two before we started shooting, that changed my life,” he says. “That probably helped with the journey of Mack. I think it strengthened a lot of my beliefs. I think it strengthened a lot of things in me of what I want to achieve and what I want to pass on to my son…how to live on this earth.” While finding and restoring hope and faith are key messages throughout the story, equally important is the power of forgiveness, a quality that Mack must learn to embrace. Through inhabiting this character, Sam also found a great deal of value in these lessons. Learning to let go “That was something that I definitely enjoyed taking on and learned a lot from...how to forgive, how to move forward, be it from small things or major kinds of burdens that you carry with you as you go through life,” he recounts. “People who have done you wrong and you still carry that guilt and anger many, many years later. It definitely did help give me a set of tools to move forward and become wiser, have a bit more ease with my life and myself, you know?” During his younger days, Sam allowed himself to become too emotionally invested in his work, often to the point where it would affect his life after the cameras stopped rolling each day. Stepping back from those extreme measures signified a true evolution in his priority system, and he resists the instinct to let that inherent anger, sadness or other negative feelings creep in. “I try to realize that the most important thing in my life is my wife and my sons, and any kind of baggage that I’m holding on to from the day shouldn’t be able to come home with me,” he said. “When I was single and alone, yeah, I would beat myself up in hotel rooms and be completely self-indulgent, but I think having kids is the most self-less thing you can do. It teaches you to rise above that selfishness so you have to learn how to let go. Since being a dad, I’ve done, say, four or five jobs and each time has been different in how I let the day go or how I let the frustrations at work go before I get home.” Evolution of a man Now, as a husband and father, Sam says his commitment is to give back to those who matter most to him. “When you’re in your 20s, you think you’re the center of your universe,” he stated. “I’m now 40. The way I look at the world has changed. Your life is very finite and goes fast. It’s the people who are closest to me, not only my immediate family but also my mom and my dad, my sister, and now my brother-in-law and my mother-in-law. They’re the type of people that you always give back to and give love to and be generous to.” His wife, Australian model Lara Bingle, gave him two sons, he says, and “it’s the most beautiful thing anyone’s ever done for me.” According to Sam, his family life isn’t just personally fulfilling, it’s actually given him new perspective as a performer. “I think that it’s a two-fold thing,” he said. “Having a family, especially having children, makes me a better actor because you're open to more emotions than you’ve ever come across and more experiences flood your life than you can ever have by yourself. So those kind of colors, for lack of a better word, really help your work because you can kind of tap into them and use them.” He continued, “The other side of the coin is that I’m very conscious of what movies to choose because when my sons are older, I want them to look at what their dad has done and be proud of it. There are certain movies that I’ve done that I probably wouldn’t do again because I’m a father and I don’t want my sons to think that’s the way of life.” Meaningful work In the end, Sam has faith that his children will appreciate his work, even if all his roles aren’t necessarily role models. “But I definitely still want to be conscious of being involved in projects that have a bit more positive meaning than I’ve done in the past,” he says. “A lot of family-oriented roles come up because I’m getting older, and I kind of like that because you’re exploring what the character goes through and at the same time you’re exploring what it is to be a dad in your own life. And I like that. That’s kind of...it's an interesting journey to go on.” With a family to ground him, a career destined for many more years of success and time to reflect upon his experiences telling the story of The Shack, Sam is now truly ready for the best part of the filmmaking process: the opportunity for the audience to enjoy and learn from it. “I think the movie is a very hopeful film even though it deals with a very deep and emotionally wrenching journey,” he says. “Even in his darkest, most desperate times, Mack teaches us that we can look to God or each other and realize that we’re not alone. That’s a great thing to me.” He adds, “When my kids get frustrated and upset, all they need is a hug from me. I may not be able to tell exactly what’s going on and what’s wrong, but that hug makes the world better. I think sometimes we can do that for each other, and that’s a really good message to come out of the movie.” Gerry Strauss is a journalist who specializes in entertainment and pop culture. He also wrote Live Happy cover stories on Mayim Bialik and Ming-Na Wen.
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33 Ideas for a Happy Home

1. Recycle, repurpose and reuse. 2. Home is the place where, when you go there, they have to take you in."—Robert Frost 3. Read Happier at Home by Gretchen Rubin. 4. Listen to "Our House" by Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young. 5. Open your home to a new furry friend. 6. Read House by Tracy Kidder. 7. Volunteer for Habitat for Humanity. 8. Read The Holistic Home: Feng Shui for Mind, Body, Spirit, Space by Laura Benko. 9. Make sure your home represents your personality. 10. Open the windows and doors on a warm, sunny day to let in the fresh air. 11. Read Healing Spaces: The Science of Place and Well-Being by Esther Sternberg. 12. There is nothing like staying at home for real comfort." —Jane Austen 13. Listen to "My House" by Flo Rida. 14. Watch old and new episodes of This Old House. 15. Nurture a bonsai tree or orchid in a peaceful corner. 16. Plant a garden. 17. Watch HGTV's Fixer Upper. 18. Read Happy Home: Twenty-One Sewing and Craft Projects to Pretty Up Your Home by Jennifer Paganelli. 19. Make your bed every morning. (It gets your whole day off to a better start.) 20. Listen to "House of Gold" by 21 Pilots. 21. Watch the movie Life as a House. 22. Have a garage sale! 23. Read Clear Your Clutter With Feng Shui by Karen Kingston. 24. A house is not a home unless it contains food and fire for the mind as well as the body." —Benjamin Franklin 25. Read The Not So Big House: A Blueprint for the Way We Really Live by Sarah Susanka. 26. Rearrange the furniture. 27. Listen to "Home" by Phillip Phillips. 28. Switch out colorful carpet for natural-looking rugs or wood floors. (It reminds us of our savannah roots.) Form follows function—that has been misunderstood. Form and function should be one, joined in a spiritual untion." —Frank Lloyd Wright 30. Listen to "Homeward Bound" by Simon & Garfunkel. 31. Listen to "Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da" by The Beatles. 32. Create a reading nook. 33. Where thou art, that is home." —Emily Dickinson
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Inclined to Be Kind

On a Saturday morning in February, more than 400 people gathered in Cincinnati’s Fountain Square for a peaceful march. But what made this event different from other recent marches around the country and the world is that this wasn’t a protest, most of the participants were children—and they had gathered to promote kindness. Bill Hammons, co-organizer of the Children’s Kindness March, says he came up with the idea when he saw how his 10- and 12-year-old sons were affected by recent political events. “The tone and tenor of national politics [this past election] has been mean and demeaning. Our kids feel this,” he says. “I thought how great it would be to have some positive messaging that could get our kids out and feel like they could participate and make a difference.” He reached out to his friend Sally O’Callaghan, and the idea for the Children’s Kindness March was born. Within hours they had announced it on Facebook and it immediately started to gain traction. “We wanted to focus on children for this march because we felt it was something they needed,” Bill explains. “Most kids naturally ‘get’ kindness. Hopefully, we can put some positivity into our community and get people to focus on what is important…which is kindness.” Lasting benefits The idea of spreading kindness is nothing new; we teach it to our children and we intrinsically know it’s important. But we may overlook how good it is for us both physically and emotionally. Whether we’re giving it or receiving it, kindness has powerful lasting effects. “One of the immediate side effects of kindness is that it makes us feel happier,” explains David R. Hamilton, Ph.D., author of The Five Side Effects of Kindness. “It brings a sense of connection, warmth, gratitude and happiness.” Some studies also have connected acts of kindness with reduced depression and anxiety, and in addition to positive emotional reactions, kindness has been linked with physical benefits. “Focusing on the feelings of compassion and kindness actually cause physical changes in the brain,” David says, adding that most of these changes are seen in the left prefrontal cortex—an area associated with positive emotions and self-control. Kindness also produces oxytocin, which is often called the “love hormone,” as well as elevating levels of dopamine and serotonin. In addition to making us feel happier, that has biological effects that can help lower blood pressure, regulate cholesterol and lower levels of inflammation in the body. Passing it on As if the individual benefits didn’t provide enough reason to rethink kindness, it also has a viral effect. Simply witnessing an act of kindness can make us feel more inclined to be kind, and David says that’s due to a one-two punch that begins with the inspiration we feel from watching that act of kindness. “A person feels uplifted by either receiving or witnessing kindness,” he explains. “That moves us to imitate what we witnessed or experienced.” That can trigger the “pay it forward” phenomenon, creating a domino effect among all those who participate. But for all its benefits, David has found there’s one caveat for reaping the rewards of kindness: you can’t fake it. “It’s nature’s catch-22; the side effects only occur when kindness is genuine,” he says. “The biological effects come through the felt connection and elevation that genuine kindness produces. You don’t get the positive side effects if you’re only looking to gain.” Read more: Start a Ripple of Kindness in Your Community Paula Felps is the Science Editor for Live Happy magazine.
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Welcome Back to HappyActs!

Live Happy is thrilled to announce our fourth annual #HappyActs campaign! During the entire month of March, in honor of the United Nations’ International Day of Happiness, we will be sharing #HappyActs—small, simple actions you can perform to spread kindness, fun and joy in your community. First, come visit Happyacts.org. Each day in March has been given a theme such as “Love” or “Curiosity” to get your wheels turning. We offer daily actionable ideas for how you can share #HappyActs, such as, “Leave an anonymous letter for a co-worker” or “Share your happy song.” Sign up for daily emails (in the month of March) that will provide you with each day’s suggested act of kindness and information on why it’s important. You can also text HAPPYACTS to 82257 for your morning reminder and inspiration. When you go out and do your #HappyActs with friends and family, make sure to take a picture and post on your social media accounts using #HappyActs. Your posts will automatically go up on our awesome tagboard. Come back often to see how others are spreading happiness. A global celebration of happiness! The Happiest Act of all comes on the weekend of March 18, when we begin our celebration of the International Day of Happiness with hundreds of Happiness Walls across the country—and even around the world. The walls create their own kind of joyful atmosphere, with music and dancing and the chance to post how you share happiness. Visit happyacts.org/participate to find out when and where a wall is near you! Learn how you can host a wall at your school, business or organization and find out how to create your own fantastic wall using one of our Happy Acts Wall Kits. These kits provide everything you need to make your own wall of happiness, including stickers, bracelets, bumper stickers and cards where you and friends can draw and write how you like to share happiness. Get your kids in on the act as well by ordering a HappyActs T-shirt with a smiley face design created by a 6-year-old girl! Help us make March the happiest month of the year!
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