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10 Best Books to Boost Productivity

We all wish we had more time in a day so we could accomplish more and squeeze as much as possible out of every moment. But the clock is not changing anytime soon, so how can we get more done? We turned to productivity experts and best-selling authors and noticed some common themes: Seek clarity each day to determine your top priorities. The right daily habits can increase your productivity. When work does not align with your values, it affects your productivity. Put these 10 motivating, action-oriented titles on your reading list and soon you’ll be accomplishing more than you ever imagined. 1. Greater Balance, Greater Reward: Five Steps to Better Health, Productivity, and Work Life Balance by Jeff Kooz If you are tired of feeling as if your life is a juggling act (and you’re not the greatest juggler), read this book. Through a parable, the author highlights how our reluctance to change can prevent us from living a productive life. Learn the five steps that can help you become healthier and more productive, and live in harmony with your work life. 2. Eat That Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time by Brian Tracy Legendary time-management expert Brian Tracy tells it to us straight: “There isn’t enough time for everything on your to-do list, and there never will be. Don’t try to get it all done, make sure you get the most important things done.” Eat That Frog is a metaphor for tackling the most challenging task of your day first—the one you are most likely to procrastinate on—because it can have the biggest impact on your day and life. The 21 productivity tips included in this book just might change how you function. 3. Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen David Allen’s classic bookGetting Things Doneis your quintessential guide to personal organization, time management and productivity. “What we truly need to do is often what we most feel like avoiding,”he writes. Learn the four Ds—do it, defer it, delegate it, or delete it—as well as other gems, and get more done in both your personal and professional life. 4. The Compound Effect: Jumpstart Your Income, Your Life, Your Success by Darren Hardy Author and personal-development expert Darren Hardy offers the fundamentals of being productive in every aspect of your life—and it boils down to the action steps you take each day. When your work and habits are aligned with your core values, says the author, productivity ensues. “A daily routine built on good habits is the difference that separates the most successful amongst us from everyone else,” he writes. 5. High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way by Brendon Burchard “We learn that the more we are true to ourselves, the more we can connect with and contribute to the world,” writes performance expert, Brendon Burchard. Discover the six habits needed to master productivity and achieve success. Without mastering them, says Brendon, life is a never-ending struggle. Becoming a high performer is first about seeking clarity. The book offers tips and exercises based in science that you can implement right now. 6. Your Best Just Got Better: Work Smarter, Think Bigger, Make More by Jason Womack If you already consider yourself an achiever, this book will show you how to take your accomplishments to the next level. The author encourages you to define what an ideal day looks like so you can focus and live according to what you truly love and want to do—with work, life, family and friends, and in your community. 7. The Power of Less: The Fine Art of Limiting Yourself to the Essential..in Business and in Life by Leo Babauta This book’s mantra: Reduce your number of goals and focus on the essentials. “Doing a huge number of things doesn’t mean you’re getting anything meaningful done,” says Leo Babauta, known for his website zenhabits.net and minimalist lifestyle.Reduce the noise in your life so you can focus on doing what matters most to you. Start with one tiny step, create a positive feedback loop, work in accountability and put everything you have into accomplishing your goal. 8. Superhuman By Habit: A Guide to Becoming the Best Possible Version of Yourself, One Tiny Habit at a Time by Tynan Left unexamined, our habits are just as likely to hinder our progress as they are to enhance it, says backpacker, blogger and best-selling author Tynan. Without a deliberate system for building positive habits, we become our own worst enemy. Understand specific habits in every major area of life and learn the path to implementing them. This is a great way to get younger readers (adolescents and college-age) interested in productivity and goal-setting. 9. The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg Since writing this book, Pulitzer-Prize winner and best-selling author Charles Duhigg has lost 30 pounds and started training for the New York City Marathon. He did so by following the methods he lays out: First analyze your habits and then discover how to change them. He believes exercise is a “keystone habit” that triggers widespread productivity. People who exercise are more likely to eat better, be more productive at work and live with less stress. The key to productivity isn’t found in extraordinary people, he says, but in ordinary people who learn to maintain positive habits on a regular basis. 10. The Power of Full Engagement: Managing Energy, Not Time, Is the Key to High Performance and Personal Renewal by Jim Loehr “We live in digital time. Our pace is rushed, rapid-fire and relentless. Facing crushing workloads, we try to cram as much as possible into every day.” The key to overcoming this time crunch, Jim Loehr writes, is not to manage our time more effectively, but to manage our energy. Increase your productivity by balancing energy expenditure with energy renewal. In this book, the author lays out a road map to becoming more fully engaged, physically energized and emotionally connected. When your energy is at its peak, you will also be more mentally focused and spiritually aligned. Read more: 10 Best Books to Help Achieve Your Goals Read more: Become Smarter, Faster, Better! Sandra Bilbray is a contributing editor for Live Happy, and the CEO and owner of themediaconcierge.net.
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Jesse Tyler Ferguson is Fully Committed to Taking Risks for Happiness in the May/June Issue of Live Happy Magazine

Dallas, Texas – May 3, 2016 – On newsstands today, Live Happy cover star Jesse Tyler Ferguson shares in the May/June issue why he chooses to forgo comfort in favor of living a rich, vibrant life on the edge. Ferguson, who says he uses risk as a motivator, puts his mantra to the test this month by starring in the one-man Broadway show Fully Committed, lending his voice to Ice Age: Collision Course and continuing his role as a member the ABC hit comedy Modern Family. Live Happy magazine devotes its May/June issue to finding new ways for all to flourish and as a result experience deeper engagement at work, at home and everywhere in between. This month’s issue combines scientific research on happiness with practical advice from experts, readers and celebrities to embrace the full spectrum of emotions that comes with living a fulfilling life. “Instead of just checking off the tasks we all have to tackle each day, we brought together new ways to encourage a sense of authenticity to these activities at work, with family and in your social life,” says Deborah K. Heisz, Live Happy’s co-founder, CEO and editorial director. “Building each day’s schedule around what is truly important creates a fulfilling lifestyle that sets us up to flourish.” Among the features in the May/June issue, readers will find: Jesse Tyler Ferguson is “FULLY COMMITTED” – If taking risks is the key to happiness, then consider Jesse Tyler Ferguson the happiest man on earth. Committing to a role of more than 40 characters in his one-man Broadway show, aptly titled Fully Committed, is just one of the actors’ most recent ventures along with lending his voice to the new Ice Age movie and continuing his beloved Emmy-nominated role in Modern Family. Ferguson knows he has a lot on his plate, but that doesn’t stop him from enjoying time with his husband, entertaining guests and spending any extra time in the kitchen. Readers learn the five items that Ferguson can’t cook without and how to mimic his favorite recipes from his new food blog on his website, JesseTylerFerguson.com. “HAPPY DAYS ARE HERE, AGAIN” – Last month, more than 70 cities around the world celebrated the third annual, U.N.-sanctioned International Day of Happiness with Live Happy by hosting happiness walls and posting thousands of #HappyActs. View inspiring photos from cities such as New York City and Manhattan Beach in California to join the action. The happiness walls featured a variety of activities including celebrities, clowns and laughter yoga, plus lots of smiles as people around the country joined together to spread joy. Niecy Nash is featured in “HAPPINESS IS HER STYLE” – Tragedy struck Niecy Nash’s life when her mother was critically injured in a shooting and again with the loss of her brother, but this sadness taught her what a gift comedy can be. Once she realized she wanted to make people laugh, there was no going back. Nash, starring in TV Land’s The Soul Man and FOX’s Scream Queens, reveals why she chooses her attitude like she chooses her outfit and how her tumultuous journey led her down a path of positivity. “BEYOND HAPPINESS” – The term “flourishing” describes a mental state characterized by positive feelings and functioning. Readers will learn five essential tips on how to flourish within their own lives that will then promote positivity within the lives of those around them. Additionally, people who flourish at the office are proved to be more productive. Readers can jump-start their journeys with “33 Ideas to Flourish at Work.” Actor Michael Emerson lives “A LIFE LESS COMPLICATED” – Emmy Award-winning actor Michael Emerson plays a mysterious tech genius in Person of Interest. But in real life, Emerson revels in the simple joys of reading a book, watching an old TV show and spending time with his wife and dog to bring happiness to his life. “MAKE-A-WISH: WHERE SCIENCE AND HOPE MEET" – The Make-a-Wish Foundation promotes a string of positive effects by granting wishes for sick children. Follow the stories of wish granters and grantees as they share the impacts that Make-a-Wish has had on their lives and families. From trips to Europe to paving pathways in a backyard, even the most impossible wishes come to life, which promotes a sense of hope for those who need it most. Readers will also learn the power of personal storytelling. Taking 20 minutes to write about your experiences will exercise your mind and even improve physical function! This issue also provides advice on how to stay engaged at work, the two nutrients that boost your body and brain, and why when it comes to wine, you should pour another glass—and more! In March, Deborah K. Heisz and the editors of Live Happy debuted their first book: Live Happy: Ten Practices for Choosing Joy (HarperElixir) brings together the latest research on what practices and actions contribute to a happy life, with 40 inspiring celebrity and real-life stories. Learn more at LiveHappy.com. Live Happy also goes beyond the pages with Live Happy Now, an inspiring free weekly audio podcast on iTunes that offers interviews with top researchers and experts in the fields of positive psychology and well-being. Readers can also visit LiveHappy.com and the newly launched espanol.LiveHappy.com for even more information on finding and sharing happiness. Live Happy is available on newsstands at major retailers throughout the U.S., including Barnes & Noble, Whole Foods and Hudson News, and in Canada at Presse Commerce newsstands, among others. Live Happy’s award-winning digital edition is available from the App Store and on Google Play, and current subscribers receive complimentary access on their tablet devices and smartphones. Separate digital subscriptions are available for $9.99 at livehappy.com. # # # About Live Happy Live Happy LLC, owned by veteran entrepreneur Jeff Olson, is a company dedicated to promoting and sharing authentic happiness through education, integrity, gratitude and community awareness. Headquartered in Dallas, Texas, its mission is to impact the world by bringing the happiness movement to a personal level and inspiring people to engage in purpose-driven, healthy, meaningful lives. Media Inquiries: Megan Miller Krupp Kommunications mmiller@kruppnyc.com 212-886-6707
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Live Happy Invites All to Join the ‘March to Happiness’

Dallas, Texas – March 1, 2016 – Today, Live Happy launches a month-long ‘March to Happiness’ celebration, kicking off with the release of the new issue of the magazine, which is dedicated to savoring life’s greatest moments, including those as a parent of joyful children. On March 15th, Live Happy will release its first book: Live Happy: Ten Practices for Choosing Joy (HarperElixir). Throughout the month, everyone is encouraged to share #HappyActs to honor and support the International Day of Happiness on March 20. The new March/April issue of Live Happy, the first-of-its-kind publication that combines the science of happiness with practical advice, features actress Kristen Bell on the cover. Additional celebrity features highlight NFL Hall of Famer and TV host Michael Strahan and Tony-Award-winning actress Laura Benanti, currently co-starring on CBS’ Supergirl. As with every issue, the magazine shares expert tips, insights, and resources from leading positive psychologists, which offer small actions you can take for ’round-the-clock’ happiness that will get March off to a cheerful start. Debuting on March 15th, Live Happy’s new book, Live Happy: Ten Practices for Choosing Joy, offers actionable steps toward achieving authentic happiness. Each chapter examines the science of happiness and small, everyday “happy acts” that can result in life-changing breakthroughs. Live Happy shares 40 inspiring and heart-tugging celebrity and real-life stories, highlighted by the key components of a happy life such as gratitude, positive attitude, play and purpose. With its third annual #HappyActs campaign, Live Happy will share small, simple actions and “happy learnings” on its social media channels and website. March 18-20, in conjunction with the International Day of Happiness, more than 100 happiness walls will be set up in communities across the country—and around the world—encouraging visitors to physically post, share and participate. To learn more, visit happyacts.org. “Every March is the most exciting time here at Live Happy when we rev the happiness movement into high gear and encourage everyone to participate, but this year is that much more special with the launch of our first-ever book,” says Deborah K. Heisz, co-founder, COO and editorial director. “Happiness is a choice and something we can always continue to work on, so we are thrilled to continue to expand our offerings and tools that complement the magazine and our other initiatives, to help readers achieve the healthiest and happiest lives they can.” Read more in the March/April issue of Live Happy: “Kristen Bell is Honestly Happy” – For the actress, mom and wife, happiness at home starts from a balance of honesty and authenticity. Bell conveys her joy in taking on challenging and varied roles in shows like House of Lies and the upcoming CHiPS movie she’s working on with her husband, Dax Shepard. Michael Strahan asks “When, Not If” – Continuing the celebration of the release of his book, Wake Up Happy, the NFL Hall of Famer and TV host talks about how optimism and determination helped him create a life full of possibility. Tony-award winning actress Laura Benanti has “A Song in Her Heart” – Also featured in Live Happy’s new book, Benanti shares her happiness philosophy, stories of fun and camaraderie at Broadway rehearsals and what she’s learned about happiness from her husband, Patrick Brown. “Celebrate Happiness at Home” with Family Boards – Embrace the spirit of the International Day of Happiness by creating a happiness board at home, school, or with a group of friends. Your board—posted in a prominent place—serves as a “living reminder” of what you love and how you can share happiness with those around you. Share your creation with us today at Pinterest.com/livehappy. Beyond the pages of the magazine, Live Happy continues to offer Live Happy Now, an inspiring free weekly audio podcast on iTunes, which features interviews with top researchers and experts in the fields of positive psychology and well-being. Readers can also visit LiveHappy.com and espanol.LiveHappy.com for additional information on finding and sharing happiness. Live Happy is available on newsstands at major retailers throughout the U.S., including Barnes & Noble, Whole Foods and Hudson News, and in Canada at Presse Commerce newsstands, among others. Live Happy’s award-winning digital edition is available from the App Store and on Google Play, and current subscribers receive complimentary access on their tablet devices. Separate digital subscriptions are available for $9.99 at livehappy.com. # # # About Live Happy Live Happy LLC, owned by veteran entrepreneur Jeff Olson, is a company dedicated to promoting and sharing authentic happiness through education, integrity, gratitude and community awareness. Headquartered in Dallas, Texas, its mission is to impact the world by bringing the happiness movement to a personal level and inspiring people to engage in purpose-driven, healthy, meaningful lives. Media Inquiries: Rachel Albert Krupp Kommunications ralbert@kruppnyc.com 212-886-6704
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Live Happy Magazine Features Jillian Michaels on Cover of January/February Issue

Dallas, Texas – January 5, 2016 – On newsstands today, Live Happy, the first-of-its-kind publication combining the science of happiness with practical advice to help its readers lead lives of meaning and joy, dedicates its January/February issue to achieving and celebrating our better selves in 2016. “Instead of focusing on those short-lived and often failed New Year’s resolutions, Live Happy is providing our readers with guidance on how to make lasting changes,” says Deborah K. Heisz, Live Happy’s co-founder, COO and editorial director. “Major achievements often start with small steps, so our team consulted leading experts and researchers to show readers not only how to take that first step, but also how to create positive habits to help them build a path to lasting happiness.” Among the features in the January/February issue, are: “Jillian’s world” – How does international fitness icon, TV star, entrepreneur and mother of two, Jillian Michaels do it all? Before she invites the world to see firsthand on her new docu-series reality show Just Jillian, which debuts on the E! Network on January 16, she first shares with Live Happy how she juggles life, love and health to achieve ultimate happiness. Michaels also gives an inside look into her evolution from a tormented teen to the confident woman she is today with the help of martial arts and psychotherapy. Don’t miss her five lessons for living happy. “THE CHANGE WILL DO YOU GOOD” – Research finds that, particularly when it comes to lifestyle changes, people rarely succeed on the first try. “The Change Will Do You Good” feature shares expert advice on visualizing and realizing your long-term goals from Tal Ben-Shahar, Ph.D., entrepreneur and positive psychology author and lecturer. He shares the three main components to lasting change and explains how to apply them to your daily life. “90 DAYS TO A HAPPIER YOU” – Two lucky readers can win 90 days of expert coaching! Join five Live Happy staffers who have enlisted the help of top positive psychology and well-being experts to swap out their bad habits for good ones in 2016. They tackle unplugging from work, anxiety, trouble communicating with loved ones, poor sleep and how to build long-term life goals. Follow their journeys and read more about our contest at livehappy.com/90days. We’ll also share our coaches’ blog posts and podcasts and will present the final, life-changing results in our June 2016 issue. Surfer Bethany Hamilton is “RIDING A WAVE OF PURPOSE” – Live Happy catches up with Bethany Hamilton, the surfing phenomenon who at age 13 lost her left arm to a shark attack. More than a decade later, the happily married Hamilton (and new mom!) continues to inspire millions with inspirational speaking engagements, a book and her annual Beautifully Flawed Retreat, where young girls who have experienced a limb loss gather in a loving environment. “POSITIVELY HODA” – Do you wonder how Hoda Kotb, Today show co-host and author of the recently released Where We Belong: Journeys That Show Us the Way, stays so positive every day? She sees every day as a gift, even when balancing a hectic schedule or life-changing challenges. Kotb opens up about her own happiness journey and shares her get-happy tips. Actress Teresa Palmer is “HAPPY INSIDE" – Teresa Palmer, star of the upcoming film The Choice (the latest from romance novelist Nicholas Sparks) tells Live Happy readers how she stays in sync physically, mentally and spiritually. Readers will also learn why playing isn’t just for kids. Reconnecting with your playful side has surprising and powerful benefits proven by science! This issue also provides advice for turning your car into a Zen-filled oasis (after all, most of us log 30 miles and nearly one hour behind the wheel every day), how to beat the energy crisis when you’re feeling drained, the five foods that boost your mood, and more. Live Happy goes beyond the pages of the magazine with Live Happy Now, an inspiring free weekly audio podcast on iTunes, that offers interviews with top researchers and experts in the fields of positive psychology and well-being. Readers can also visit LiveHappy.com and the newly launched espanol.LiveHappy.com for even more information on finding and sharing happiness. Releasing in March, Deborah K. Heisz and the editors of Live Happy will release a new book, Live Happy: Ten Practices for Choosing Joy, published by HarperElixir, an Imprint of HarperCollins Publishers. This highly anticipated book brings together the latest research on what practices and actions contribute to a happy life, with 40 inspiring celebrity and real-life stories. Learn more at livehappy.com/preorder. Live Happy is available on newsstands at major retailers throughout the U.S., including Barnes & Noble, Whole Foods and Hudson News, and in Canada at Presse Commerce newsstands, among others. Live Happy’s award-winning digital edition is available from the App Store and on Google Play, and current subscribers receive complimentary access on their tablet devices. Separate digital subscriptions are available for $9.99 at livehappy.com. # # # About Live Happy Live Happy LLC, owned by veteran entrepreneur Jeff Olson, is a company dedicated to promoting and sharing authentic happiness through education, integrity, gratitude and community awareness. Headquartered in Dallas, Texas, its mission is to impact the world by bringing the happiness movement to a personal level and inspiring people to engage in purpose-driven, healthy, meaningful lives. Media Inquiries: Rachel Albert Krupp Kommunications ralbert@kruppnyc.com 212-886-6704
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The Healing Power of Yoga

I was only 6 years old when I discovered what I wanted to do with my life. I wanted to save people who were sick. I wanted to make them strong so that they could be their own heroes. Not the kind with capes and X-ray vision, but those who realize their power to take charge of their health and live their best lives. Those who make their health a priority and implement important life changes to achieve greater health and happiness. Health Heroes. I want to create a world full of them. It’s what drives me to this day. Two of the best ways to achieve a healthier life are through movement and spirituality. Each is an important tool in your fight against disease and premature death. That’s why yoga is such a powerful ally to any Health Hero; it serves as a bridge connecting your physical and mental well-being. Strengthen Your Body Practicing yoga can result in significant improvement to your physical health. As part of your daily routine, yoga will likely transform your body into one that is firmer, leaner and stronger. However, some of the most impressive benefits happen beneath the surface. When you practice regularly, you increase your chances for lower blood pressure, improved cardiovascular health, better flexibility, greater muscle strength, perfected posture, better pulmonary function, lower blood sugar, boosted immunity and improved bone health (critical to warding off osteoporosis). Transform Your Mind When people think “health,” they tend to think only about the body. But a Health Hero knows that your mind is your greatest power. What’s amazing is that the simple practice of cultivating your mind can actually improve your health and happiness and add years to your life! Think of yoga as a workout for your soul. You need to condition it, like a muscle, in order to develop and grow stronger. Because yoga clears your mind of distracting “noise,” it creates space in which new things can develop. You become empowered to discover yourself on a much more intimate level. Your personal strengths and desires become easier to identify. It becomes easier for you to focus and get creative. That alone leads you down a path to new ideas, solutions and purpose. We know that stress is a silent killer, but did you know that yoga is the ultimate stress reducer? When you begin to breathe deeply and focus on your poses, you reduce anxiety. You enter a more relaxed state and calm your nervous system, diminishing the fight-or-flight response. Yoga is believed to combat depression. In fact, a study published March 16 in PLOS ONE concludes that eight weeks of twice-weekly, 90-minute hatha yoga sessions can significantly reduce the severity of depressive symptoms. Even your romantic relationship can improve. When you’re centered and more connected with yourself, you’re able to be that same way with your partner. A Life Reimagined Imagine how your life could change if your body and mind transformed in these ways. What would you do differently with improved health, extra endurance, less anxiety, more focus and a greater sense of purpose? You’d probably be able to enjoy life in entirely new ways. My Prescriptions for a Healthy Body and Soul Make the commitment to move with purpose every day. Even a few minutes of yoga will do the trick. If you’re stuck at work or have limited time to yourself, opt for an easy yet effective yoga pose that can quickly be done at home or in the office (try cat pose, forward fold and seated twist, as shown in the accompanying illustrations). A chair or a place to stand is all you need. Practice yoga every day, and the repetition will intensify the physical and mental health benefits while creating an ever-deepening spiritual connection. I encourage you to use the power of yoga to improve your mind-body wellness and continue your journey toward a healthier and more purposeful life. Recognize that your health comes first and give yourself permission to make it a priority. When you give yourself this most important gift, you’ll be taking that first step to becoming a true Health Hero. The light in me honors the light in you. Namaste. Read more: Become Your Own Health Hero Listen to our podcast: Health and Happiness With Dr. Partha Nandi DR. PARTHA NANDI is the creator and host of the internationally syndicated, award-winning medical lifestyle television show Ask. Dr. Nandi and author of the book Ask Dr. Nandi: 5 Steps to Becoming Your Own #HealthHero for Longevity, Well-Being, and a Joyful Life.
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7 Happy Songs Guaranteed to Make You Cry

It can happen almost without warning. You’re listening to the radio or your favorite playlist when “that” song comes on—the one that makes you cry every time. And it’s not even a sad song. You can try to fight it, but it isn’t long until you feel the chills down your spine or the goosebumps on your arms. Before you know it, you’re choking back tears and wiping them from your cheeks. It’s understandable when sad songs bring us to tears, but it’s harder to understand why happy ones can do the same. However, scientists will tell you it’s a good, healthy thing, and that those tears are cathartic and healing. The goosebumps and chills? They’re courtesy of your brain reacting to the music and releasing dopamine, a neurotransmitter that helps control our reward and pleasure centers. And those seemingly incongruent tears are a response to being moved by the music and a way of helping you balance feelings of intense emotion. So now that you know what causes it, here is my list of seven songs that make me feel joyful and elated, while bringing tears at the same time. I’m curious what songs would be on your list. Comment below and share your sentimental favorites. 1. “You’re Gonna Miss This,” by Trace Adkins. You don’t have to be a parent to appreciate the sweet sentiment of this song. It’s a powerful reminder that every moment we share with someone else is precious and fleeting, so we should appreciate the small things—even if that someone else happens to be bugging the heck out of you at the moment. 2. “You Raise Me Up,” by Josh Groban. We all have someone who has been there for us during our darkest night, and they’ll invariably come to mind the moment this song starts playing. Gratitude and appreciation are just some of the emotions that are shaken and stirred by this flawless tune—a reminder that none of us walks this earth alone. 3. “Live Like You Were Dying,” by Tim McGraw. Few things put life in perspective quite as clearly as the prospect of death. This song celebrates the message of living fully and enjoying the moment instead of worrying about what’s to come. 4. “Home,” by Phillip Phillips. Home isn’t always a physical destination; sometimes it’s the hand you hold or just a warm hug. This song delivers that reminder with comfort and encouragement—and a catchy chorus to boot! 5. “100 Years,” by Five for Fighting. This song is so powerful that it can make you nostalgic for times that haven’t even happened yet. As it walks through the years of a life, it gives a nod to the moments that have already passed and gently reminds you to appreciate where you are – and what’s to come. 6. “Blessed,” by Martina McBride. If you’re ever having trouble counting your blessings, this song will help you remember just how much you’ve been given. It’s the simple, intangible things that mean the most, and this song is a beautiful way to remember that there is always something to be thankful for. 7. “I Hope You Dance,” by Lee Ann Womack. This Grammy-winning song has become a favorite because it sends such a sweet, life-affirming message. It perfectly expresses how it feels to want the best for someone else, hoping they can sidestep life’s storms long enough to dance in the rain. No matter who you think about when you hear this tune, chances are it’s accompanied by waterworks. Listen to our Podcast: How to Create a Gratitude Playlist, With Paula Felps Read more: The Joy of Being Dolly Parton Paula Felps is the Science Editor for Live Happy magazine.
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15 Ways to Stay Grounded

Walking along a trail through an ancient redwood forest deeply rooted into the rocks and cliffs of the Pacific Coast, I stop for a moment and inhale a deep, refreshing breath of earth, ocean and pine. The quiet that surrounds me is timeless. Sunlight pierces the forest canopy and moves down deeply grooved bark until it reaches the forest floor nearly 300 feet below. By the time it touches the moss and pine needles beneath my feet and sparkles across the brook that nourishes giant roots that seem to have grown since the beginning of time, the constant state of hypervigilance that seems part of my daily life has dropped away, the tension that keeps me ready to run at a moment’s notice has gone and the sense that—in an hour, a minute, a moment—the sky will surely fall has simply disappeared. Gently, I reach out to touch the bark of a tree nearly 1,400 years old, close my eyes and take a deep breath of the richly scented air that surrounds me. Here among the trees, I feel grounded. And I know that I can handle anything. The New Reality Today the sense of feeling deeply rooted, deeply centered and able to handle anything is a gift. Recent economic, social and political events may trigger changes that can come at us so quickly that we run in circles trying to figure out how our lives will be affected six months or a year down the line. Negative noise surrounds us as we become dependent on instant news, social media and plugging in. And that’s in addition to the tumult of everyday life—coping with moody teenagers, watching over aging parents and navigating workplace politics. In a 2017 national survey, the American Psychological Association (APA) reported that 57 percent of us view the current political state as a source of significant stress. “This is a crazy time,” says Catherine Mogil, Psy.D., director of training and intervention development for UCLA Nathanson Family Resilience Center and a consultant for the National Military Family Association Operation Purple Family Retreats. “Parents are stressed, kids are stressed,” she says. And, says Katherine C. Nordal, Ph.D., the APA’s executive director for professional practice, “We’re surrounded by conversations, news and social media that constantly remind us of the issues that are stressing us the most.” Searching for Solid Ground So what are we to do? How—when this fast-changing world seems bent on keeping us anxious and unsettled—do we work, feed the family, get Dad to his doctor’s appointment on time and still keep our own feet planted firmly on the ground? 1. Carve out your turf. Begin by showing yourself that you can make a difference in the world, suggests Catherine. Pick one single thing in your neighborhood, local school or community that needs fixing and figure out how you can carve out the time, talent and resources from your life to get it done. When Galit Reuben realized several years ago that people in Los Angeles were abandoning dogs on the streets in unprecedented numbers, for example, she began picking up the starving and often battered pups, and asking friends to keep them until she could find the dogs a home. Eleven years later, the Ojai, California, mom has built an organization with a network of foster homes and street corner adoption fairs that has led to the placement of more than 3,000 mutts in forever homes. Her passion to help these abused creatures—to make sure they are loved and cared for—has not only rescued dogs, but has also brought together an entire community of caring people to support one another. Read more: 17 Ways to Give Back According to Your Strengths 2. Ditch the online politics. A 2016 survey of more than 14,000 social media users from the Pew Research Center reveals that more than one-third of us are “worn out” by all the political comments we run into on Facebook, Twitter and the rest of the social media universe. What’s more—59 percent of us who engage in a political discussion with a social media friend with whom we disagree end up feeling stressed and frustrated. 3. Manage your phone. Assign a special ring tone to your children and others who depend on you for care and emergency help. Outside of work, ignore other calls that come in, but then set aside 30 minutes or so each day to return to them. And turn off notifications! Any device that pings, beeps, burps and plays the national anthem can drive you crazy. According to a 2016 study by researchers at the University of British Columbia, students who kept their notifications on for one week reported significantly higher levels of inattention and hyperactivity than students who kept their phones off. The researchers reported that the higher levels of inattention predicted lower levels of productivity and well-being. Read more: Are You a Phone Snubber? 4. Sink into the mud. When Los Angeles marriage and family therapist Carly Arenaz needs her own personal renewal after helping clients explore the unique challenges they experience every week, she’ll pack up her miniature Pomeranian—Philippe, aka “the mayor of Hollywood”—and head north to the mud baths of Napa Valley. “They’re unbelievable,” says Carly, as she closes her eyes in remembrance. “You sink into a tub full of warm mud,” and the mud—a combination of volcanic ash, peat and mineral water from a hot spring—gently pulls you down until you’re suspended in its warmth, totally weightless. “The world just floats away,” Carly says. 5. Ration your news. Pick two mainstream news outlets, each from a different political perspective, and subscribe to their news feeds online. Check them no more than twice a day, Catherine suggests, and for no more than 10 minutes in the morning and 30 minutes at night. 6. Trace your roots. Few things ground us like family. Use online databases like ancestry.com to follow the wild and sometimes twisting adventures of your own. Interview distant relatives and get to know cousins 10 times removed. Aside from discovering where that cute little nose of yours came from—and your penchant for chocolate—you’ll hear story after story of a people who survived and thrived through war, famine, migration, ocean voyages, possibly even a plague of locusts. With that kind of a heritage, you know there’s nothing that can keep you from taking control of your own destiny. 7. Connect with older women. The older women in my community have been there, done that, bought the T-shirt and survived. I love to hang out with them. They’ve tended their children, nurtured their families and supported friends through good and bad times. Plus, no matter what their political proclivities, they marched, boycotted, advocated, visited their representatives in Congress, even wrote editorials for the local newspaper. They survived and they changed our world. Sipping tea under the trees with my 80-something-year-old friends Barbara and Elspeth is a joy. Stories flow, challenges are discussed, advice is given, laughter is rich, and I go home uplifted and ready to solve every one of my—and the world’s—problems. Read more: How to Be Happy at 90 8. Look for a few good warriors. Any service member who has served in a combat role abroad and survived has a lot to tell us about staying grounded during unpredictable events. Attending a community barbecue at the local Veterans of Foreign Wars in your town and sitting down to talk with veterans can be an eye-opening experience. It’s amazing what you can learn when you open your heart, open your mind and sit down to gnaw on some corn on the cob straight from the grill. 9. Ground yourself with meditation. Whenever you feel as though the world’s spinning out of control, sit down, plant your feet solidly on the earth and close your eyes, suggests Carly. Focus your attention on one part of your body after another for 15 minutes. Then open your eyes, stand up and stretch. You’ll feel calm, centered and ready to restart your day. 10. Reach out. “Connecting to other human beings can be so restorative,” says Catherine. So nurture those relationships. When your best friend—overwhelmed by job loss, soaring rent, or just the demands and decisions of daily life—curls up into a ball and cries, throw your arms around her, feed her chocolate, tell her husband to take her camping for the weekend and haul her kids over to your place for a sleepover with uplifting kid movies and taffy-making. The fact that you would do this for her will ground her. The fact that you did will ground you. 11. Look deep. Pick out a group of people on the nightly news who are yelling and screaming about one issue or another, then try to figure out who those people are, what makes them tick and why they’re so steamed. Patti Callahan, a retired psychiatric nurse who was house-sitting in Hawaii for friends last year, was puzzled by some of the presidential campaign talk about how there were still no jobs for huge numbers of people whose industries had been decimated in the last recession. “I wasn’t interested in all the lamenting, protesting and putting people down that was going on during the election,” Patti says bluntly, “but it seemed obvious that [I] had missed something. And I wanted to know what it was.” So, Patti stopped by the local library, ordered a bunch of books for her Kindle and started reading. First up was Strangers in Their Own Land: Anger and Mourning on the American Right by Arlie Russell Hochschild, Ph.D., professor emerita of sociology at the University of California, Berkeley. Arlie had experienced the same curiosity as Patti about why some American workers were angry, so she had gone on the road to Louisiana’s bayou country, a repository of American conservatism, hung out with people and listened to what they had to say. It wasn’t long before she learned of whole communities in which jobs had disappeared, homes had been lost and kids had been robbed of their futures. “I got a vivid and sickening picture of what’s happened to the land where they live and what they’re surrounded with,” Patti says. “It gave me a better understanding.” 12. Practice gratitude. We get so absorbed in bouncing from one crisis to another all day that we never focus on all the amazing things in our lives, says Catherine. So, make focusing on gratitude a daily practice. If you can take the time to say “I have my health, I have a loving relationship” for just two minutes every day, it will change your brain chemistry and allow you to move forward on solid ground. 13. Hold out a crayon. Reach out to children around the globe who have been forced to flee the horror of war and make a difference in their lives. You can donate time, money and talents to organizations like Save the Children. Or, like one couple from Santa Barbara, California, you can get even more directly involved. Robin and Robert Jones, who live part-time on the Greek island of Lesbos, were there when the rubber boats of Syrian refugees started hitting the shore. The entire island’s population turned out to help, but Robin, an art teacher, was concerned about the pain she saw in the children’s eyes. She went home, grabbed blankets and art supplies and took them to a transfer point at the beach. Within an hour of their arrival, she had children drawing and sketching their experiences, which gave them a voice to express their fear, confusion and pain—and a way to take the first step into a new life. 14. Weave a sense of Presence into your life. Pull together a book discussion group that encourages you to explore your inner spiritual life. Friends Mary Karp, Paul Harris, Polly Post and Maureen Glancy are four members of a local Quaker community in Santa Rosa, California, who meet every other week at Mary’s house to discuss A Testament of Devotion, the classic 1941 book of essays on the internal spiritual journey from Haverford College professor Thomas Kelly. The brief pause in their busy lives is an opportunity to rest in the inner stillness brought through a quiet attentiveness to that which is holy. 15. Retreat. Whether it’s a wicker chair on your front porch, a boulder in Yosemite National Park or the third pew on the left inside an empty cathedral anywhere in the world, regularly retreat to that one single place of quiet in which the world’s voices are hushed and your own can emerge strong and free. A long weekend, a day, even just a few hours is all it takes. A few yards from where I sit on my tiny porch surrounded by sunshine and jasmine, the narrow Santa Rosa Creek runs beneath a canopy of gnarled oaks and fresh California laurel. It begins as a great stream in the mountains to the north, but by the time it tumbles down the hills, over rocks and through lush vineyards into the valley where I live, it has gentled to a soft murmuring rhythm that soothes away all my edges. Here, the chatter of Twitter is absent, the minutia of life disappears, and the incessant voices that demand my attention don’t exist. My retreat only lasts an hour. But here I am grounded. I know who I am. I know where I’m going. And no matter how fast and furiously the world erupts in 10 directions at once, the ground under my feet is firm. Read more by Ellen Michaud: Living on Less to Give More Ellen Michaud, editor at large for Live Happy magazine, is an award-winning writer who lives in Northern California. She has written for The New York Times, Washington Post, Better Homes and Gardens, Readers’ Digest, Ladies Home Journal and Prevention Magazine.
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Lifelong Education Delivers Confidence, Joy and Hope

Mark Murphy knows firsthand that learning changes lives. His conviction is so strong that the former school principal and past Delaware secretary of education founded a nonprofit devoted to helping young adults become lifelong learners. His organization, GripTape (named after the surface used to create secure footing on skateboards), encourages young adults to pursue learning challenges. There is one simple condition: Do it on your own. Challenges are self-proposed and self-directed and take place outside of traditional schooling. For example, GripTape Challenger Alphina Kamara wanted to better understand the root causes of homelessness. To do so, she created a multistep plan that included running clothing and donation drives, holding a banquet for homeless individuals in her town of Claymont, Delaware, and recruiting local organizations to help host these events. Alphina was successful in completing her project and hosting the banquet late last year. The intensity of the experience surprised her. “My journey was not without its challenges. I received a lot of rejections as I contacted organizations. But I still managed to make it fun by bringing my friends along for the journey and meeting new people and contacts who encouraged and reminded me how many people want to see young people succeed.” In doing her project, Alphina not only learned about homelessness, she gained confidence. It made me feel like I was more capable of doing more things,” she says. “The results were fascinating and empowering in a way I never could have imagined.” Through GripTape, Mark wants to create a generation of lifelong learners like Alphina, individuals with the unfailing agency to make intentional choices about what and how they learn. Why is that such an important skill heading into adulthood? Mark’s research and personal experience show that being committed to learning beyond our school years helps individuals develop both their sense of self-worth and their problem-solving skills. Something special happens when people construct their own learning paths, he says. “At GripTape, people experience the deep sense of fulfillment and accomplishment that comes with engaging in learning in its most relevant and authentic manner.” Mark believes that when we improve our knowledge and craft, our hearts and minds open in new ways. Creative juices flow. We see a new world of possibilities. As working adults with family responsibilities and busy lives, it is easy to get so caught up in the day-to-day that we feel we don’t have time to breathe, let alone to learn something new. Yet, as Alphina says, “If we are not learning, we are not growing.” Benefits of an Active Mind Scientists confirm that lifelong learning is associated with greater life satisfaction and a sense of optimism and engagement. According to the VIA Institute on Character, adults who are learning something new—by taking a class, pursuing a hobby or reading every day—report less stress and greater feelings of hope and purpose. Ryan Niemiec, Psy.D.,VIA’s director of education, explains that researchers have identified love of learning as a character strength whose expression is consistently linked to positive outcomes for oneself and others. These outcomes are present across cultures and countries and include a boost in one’s sense of possibility, an increase in seeking and accepting challenges, and aging in a healthy and productive way. Individuals who love learning are more motivated to persist through challenges, setbacks and negative feedback, Ryan says. One such individual is Byrd Helguera, age 89. More than 70 years after graduating from high school, Byrd is still intent on learning and takes regular classes at Vanderbilt University in Nashville. She’s so hooked she doesn’t even take the summers off. Understanding history, in particular, gives her perspective on an ever-changing world and keeps her engaged and interested in her place in it. “It’s good for us to know how we got here and to consider what other people are thinking and talking about. It’s really quite valuable to all of us.” The classes, which are taught by Vanderbilt professors, are part of the national Osher Lifelong Learning Institutes program. Byrd has studied literature, history, astronomy, psychology and many other topics. “I grew up in a family of teachers and my husband was a professor of history,” says Byrd, the former associate director of Vanderbilt’s Medical Center Library. “I’m always doing something to keep my mind busy. If I’m not reading, I’m playing Scrabble or doing crossword puzzles or that sort of thing.” She also belongs to a book club and writers group. “I think keeping your brain active is important to having a happy life,” she says. Ryan explains why that is. “When adults have a passion for learning, they stay open to new knowledge, rather than being stuck in a know-it-all mode. This helps us see new opportunities for ourselves—who knows what our passion for learning might lead us to in the future?” Researchers are still piecing together the links between learning, life satisfaction and having a sense of possibility. We do know that the hippocampus, an area of the brain essential to learning and related to forming and retrieving long -term memories, also plays a role in mood regulation and in our ability to imagine new situations. The hippocampus is of great interest to neuroscientists because it is where adults generate new neurons throughout their life spans. Read more: Never Stop Learning What Happens to Our Brains When We Learn? As evolutionary biologist Alison Pearce Stevens, Ph.D., has written in Science News for Students, learning physically rewires the brain. Alison explains that the millions of neurons in our brains speak to each other via chemical and electrical signals. When we learn something new and the information becomes part of long-term memory, the neurons involved in the task become more efficient at talking to each other. As they work together, their communication pathways become faster and form networks. The result is that we improve our understanding or physical skill. Scientists no longer believe that adult brains are unchangeable or in decline with age. Instead, they now know that our brains can undergo remarkable amounts of reorganization at any age. Brain plasticity, the ability to build new neurons and neural connections—that is, to change and grow—persists throughout our lives. Lara Boyd, Ph.D., is uncovering ways to harness the power of neuroplasticity to create more effective rehabilitation for victims of stroke and other brain trauma. Lara’s work as director of the Brain Behaviour Laboratory at the University of British Columbia and the Canada Research Chair in the Neurobiology of Motor Learning shows that our brains have an extraordinary capacity for change and that every experience or stimulus we encounter reorganizes our neurons. In fact, Lara would say that after reading this article, your brain will literally not be the same. Lara believes that maintaining neuroplasticity throughout adulthood is vital both to our survival and sense of fulfillment. “Learning is the key to managing our rapidly changing culture. We must keep learning in order to keep up with technology, our kids and our grandchildren,” she says. Learning is the key to managing our rapidly changing culture. We must keep learning in order to keep up with technology, our kids and our grandchildren,” Laura says. The challenge is part of the benefit, Lara says. “Learning becomes hard when we are challenging ourselves at a level that is just beyond our ability. Learning difficult tasks slows down the rate of change in behavior. This is why it feels hard. But it also increases the amount of brain plasticity.” She applies the insights of her research to her own life by making a daily effort to cultivate conditions that she and other neuroscientists know optimize brain plasticity. These include exercising regularly, sleeping seven to eight hours a night and engaging in daily mindfulness practice. Lara also prioritizes learning at work and in her free time. “Because of the rapid changes in how we map and study the brain, I am constantly learning new imaging approaches. These can be quite technological and a bit tricky, but I love challenging myself to figure them out. I am also always reading books [that have] nothing to do with my work.” Learning How to Learn With all the benefits ascribed to engaging in lifelong learning, it is no surprise that “Learning How to Learn” is one of the most popular and highest ranked massive open online courses (MOOCs) in the world, according to ClassCentral.com, a website devoted to reviews of online courses. More than 1.6 million students have completed the course. Learning How to Learn was developed and is taught by Terrence Sejnowski, Ph.D., head of the computational neurobiology lab and Francis Crick Chair at the Salk Institute, and Barbara Oakley, Ph.D., the Ramón y Cajal Distinguished Scholar of Global Digital Learning at McMaster University and a professor of engineering at Oakland University. Barbara is also author of several books, including A Mind for Numbers and Mindshift. In 2017, Terrence and Barbara followed up their successful Learning How to Learn MOOC by designing and launching a new online course called Mindshift based on Barbara’s book. Barbara went from being a failing math student in high school to earning graduate degrees in engineering and eventually becoming a college professor teaching complicated mathematical and technical concepts to others. When Barbara’s students asked how she managed to change her brain so drastically, she began seeking an answer. She spoke with engineers, cognitive scientists and neuroscientists such as Terrence. She realized that there are distinct techniques that many mathematicians and scientists use to master technical or abstract material. Barbara explains that the main message she and Terrence communicate to their students is that learning is always possible. “There are tricks and tools anyone can use to learn material that is novel to them. There is enormous possibility in how you can change as a person.” Ready to grow? Get started with the following guidelines. Tip No. 1: Think of learning as a lifestyle. As Alphina and other participants in GripTape’s Challenges can attest, learning in its most powerful and lifelong sense is much more than studying a book or sitting in a class. Matthias Gruber and his colleagues at the Center for Neuroscience at the University of California, Davis have found that being curious enables learning. Being curious sparks the physical changes in the brain that enable learning and make subsequent learning rewarding. Barbara says that being a lifelong learner “is to create your own process for acquiring knowledge and skills and actively live that process in some way every day.” Learning can be a grand project involving intense focus on one subject or skill, or it can be as simple as paying attention and asking questions about the things that you see around you. Tip No. 2: Work with your brain, not against it. In their courses, Terrence and Barbara talk about balancing the use of a diffuse and focused state of mind when trying to understand something new, especially if it is complex and technical. A diffuse state of mind is free flowing and looks for the big picture. In doing so, it enables more random connections. A focused state of mind is hyper-attentive and task-oriented. It concentrates on ordering details and blocks out extraneous information. A diffuse state of mind might help you brainstorm what to make for dinner. A focused state helps you make the shopping list and follow the recipe. In learning complex information, we need to employ both a diffuse and focused mind. The trick is knowing when to employ which mode and giving yourself the time and opportunity to switch between them. Our brains approach novel information by first trying to integrate it into our existing knowledge—a set of connections and neural networks we already have in place. When our brains cannot find any connections, we may start to struggle and get frustrated. Our initial reaction is to try harder to make a connection using our focused, detailed-oriented minds. But it is often better to back off and let the details be in our subconscious so that new neural connections can be made. Stepping back and explicitly not thinking about a topic gives the new material a chance to sink in and enables our brains to go into diffuse mode and find novel ways to connect. This is why we often suddenly think of a solution to a problem or figure something out while in the shower or taking a long walk. Tip No. 3: Rethink failure. One of the most persistent and powerful roadblocks Barbara sees in adults is a fear of failure. We tie our self-esteem to getting things right and making the grade, rather than taking pride in our persistence. At a deep level, many of us are reticent to learn something new because we are afraid of not being good at whatever we’re trying to learn. For many of us, it is hard to overcome a fundamental fear of making a fool of ourselves. We want to get things right because that was what was most often rewarded in school. We may feel pain, shame and guilt at our mistakes. Barbara reminds her students that great learners possess a general openness to letting experiences shape and affect them. They head into any undertaking with the thrill of discovery. And they have no prejudice or predetermined conceptions of the potential outcome of their experiences. With this mindset, failure can become a lot less scary. Lara’s research at the Brain Behaviour Laboratory shows that if our goal is to reap the health benefits and adaptability that comes with learning, our stumbles and failures may be the best thing for us. This is because encountering difficulty and failure encourages brain plasticity. From a neurogenesis standpoint, they are at least as valuable as our successes, if not more so. Tip No. 4: Be prepared to feel like an impostor, and then get over it. In a class, we might worry that everyone else is getting it and we are falling behind. Or we might convince ourselves that we will never be any good at the hobby we’ve taken up, or that we are not serious students or our efforts are not valid if we are doing something just for fun. Barbara says we should embrace our inner imposters. She explains, “You don’t realize you actually have something very valuable. You have a beginner’s mind that enables you to step back and be more flexible. [In learning], many more problems actually come from being overconfident than being underconfident.” Barbara might say that no true master ever feels complete in his or her knowledge. Rather, they feel engaged and energized by their learning process. Mastery is not a static end state, but a high level of ability to find ways to refine one’s knowledge and skills. This spring, Alphina achieved another milestone, giving a TEDx Talk on what it means to give young people the keys to their own learning. In her talk, Alphina spoke about the power of embracing learning in its messiest, most personal and broadest sense. Through GripTape, Alphina and her peers have learned one of life’s (and neuroscience’s) most meaningful lessons. We limit ourselves when we think that education fits neatly into a box and that it only takes place for the 12 or 16 years most of us are in school. Education at its best and most powerful is a lifelong process. Knowing this, Alphina challenges learners of all ages to ask ourselves: “What are you learning that keeps you inspired and hungry for more?” Read more: 4 Ways to Stay Engaged With Lifelong Learning —Live Happy Science Editor Paula Felps contributed to this feature. Jennifer Wheary, Ph.D., researches and writes about the possibilities of education for improving lives.
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Beyond the Kale

Kale, seen by many as “the ultimate superfood,” doesn’t have a monopoly on health. Chard, mustard, collards—all the leafy greens—have a nutrition profile that makes the other vegetables green with envy. And the darker and leafier, the better it is for you. What makes them so great? Leafy greens are a powerhouse of minerals and vitamins such as A, C and especially K. They rank high in fiber, folate and phytonutrients. Eat them to boost your immune system, improve blood and eye health and help digestion. You can add them raw to salads, though cooking them helps reduce their distinctive bitter taste. And it’s that taste—which pairs so well with garlic and red pepper  flakes—that inspires chefs to forage for greens in their gardens but makes children hide under the table in dread. Eat greens as a side dish, or throw a bunch into your favorite minestrone or bean soup. Read more: 4 Great Ways to Use Your Superfoods Emily Wise Miller is the Web Editor for Live Happy magazine.
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Build a Capsule Wardrobe and Simplify Your Life

We’ve all been there: Standing in front of an overstuffed closet in the morning trying to put together the day’s outfit. But the cropped blazer that works with your high-waisted pants is stained. Nothing matches your new tweed skirt. The navy sheath dress feels too snug around your hips. And none of your boots—all black—look right with the brown pinstripe pantsuit. Before long, your bed is piled high with rejects, but if you’re going to make your train you’ve got to be out the door in the next three minutes, preferably fully dressed. It was a familiar scenario for Francine Jay, aka Miss Minimalist, author of the best-selling The Joy of Less: A Minimalist Guide to Declutter, Organize, and Simplify. “My closets were ridiculously overpacked, but like a lot of women I felt like I had nothing to wear,” she says. Today, Francine has a streamlined, or capsule, wardrobe of well-chosen essentials she loves. She has a total of 20 clothing pieces that include pants, skirts, dresses, tops and cardigans; five pairs of shoes; and one coat. She says she’s saving time, money, space and stress, while finding it a lot easier to look well-dressed. “It’s ironic, but when you pare down and your closet holds only your favorite things, you always have something to wear,” she says. “A capsule wardrobe eliminates decision fatigue and gives you a jump-start each morning. You get yourself together effortlessly and when your morning begins with ease, grace and efficiency, that sets a wonderful tone for the rest of the day.” I could never get my wardrobe down to anywhere near 20 items (and Francine wants to underscore that what works for her by no means will work for everyone). But the idea of a well-curated closet is a minimalist-happiness solution I’m ready to embrace. Right now, my closet and drawers are filled with random items bought on sale, many of them still unworn. So, to begin working toward a capsule wardrobe and address my shopping missteps, I’ve instituted the 14-day rule: If I don’t wear a new item—whether it’s a handbag, a pair of shoes, a dress or a T-shirt—within two weeks of purchase, it gets returned. This means that I've recently spent lots of time in customer-service lines. I’ve returned a pair of wide-legged navy poplin culottes that wrinkle too easily and require at least 6 more inches of good-looking leg than I have. I’ve brought back wedge sandals with a 4-inch platform that are impractical for walking and treacherous for driving. A black satchel purchased at an online flash sale has been mailed back; it duplicates in size and function at least two other purses I already own. And, after putting on and taking off the strapless floral camisole dress I bought for 40 percent off at The Gap a half-dozen times in front of a mirror, I’ve returned that, too. Something about the cut just wasn’t working. On the other hand, there are several things I’ve bought these past few months that have gone into early and regular rotation. They have a few qualities in common, which happen to align with Francine’s rules on building a capsule wardrobe. 1. They’re versatile A black linen jumpsuit that I bought at The Gap (after I returned the dress) goes everywhere, dressed up with heels and a white-linen jacket to a dinner party; thrown on with flip-flops to the salon for a mani-pedi. 2. They’re comfortable A new pair of black clogs with a 2-inch heel and a strap that holds them in place doesn’t pinch or rub even after a 2-mile walk with my dog Carlos. Yet they’re cute enough to wear with my favorite new wardrobe addition, a calf skimming low-high tent dress by Alice + Olivia that is comfy as pajamas but chic enough for a fancy lunch. 3. They fit my color palette Blacks, grays, creams and whites for foundation pieces like pants and skirts with brighter hues of teal, turquoise and red for secondary pieces like tops, scarves and wraps, means everything matches. As Francine says, “Ideally, you should be able to get dressed in the dark and still look fabulous.” 4. They’re flattering I know by now the lengths, necklines and shapes that work for me, and while I don’t want everything in my closet to look alike, better to strike out with new patterns and textures than something like those leg-shortening culottes. 5. They’re high quality When you have only a small collection of clothing you love, you want each piece to last forever. And, as Francine puts it, “you’re investing psychologically in an item when you bring it into your life, so why not be selective? Plus, it’s a more eco-friendly way to shop. You’re not adding to landfills by buying things that are trendy and disposable.” High quality doesn’t have to mean expensive and you don’t need to be a fashionista to recognize it. You can feel quality. Avoid pieces with loose threads, scratchy seams and fabric that bunches up or doesn’t lie smooth. I don’t yet have my capsule wardrobe nailed. But, I’m getting there. Most days, my bed no longer looks like a suitcase exploded on top of it. Packing for a trip has become a breeze. And, I’m spending way less time returning hastily bought shoes, bags and dresses. ** You can see photos of every item Francine has in her closet, as well as in the rest of her Portland, Oregon, home in her e-book 100 Essentials: Simple Kitchen + Capsule Wardrobe + Minimalist Home, or check out other avowed minimalists on her website. Read more: Simplify Your Life in 12 Steps Read more: The Life-Changing Magic of Cleaning Out Your Closet Shelley Levitt is a freelance journalist based in Los Angeles and editor at large for Live Happy. Her work has appeared in Real Simple, People, SUCCESS and more.
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