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Why Trust Makes Us Happier — And Happiness Makes Us More Trusting

Having high levels of trust can be a pathway to greater happiness, according to research from Utrecht University. The study Trust and Subjective Well-Being Across the Lifespan, published by the American Psychological Association, suggests people who trust those around them may be boosting their happiness, and it really doesn’t matter at what age. Having trust in people, institutions, or in society in general tends to lead to higher life satisfaction. What’s more, happy people tend to trust more, which creates a reinforcing happiness loop: “Trust is both a cause and a consequence of well-being — the more we trust, the happier we feel; the happier we feel, the easier it becomes to trust again,” the study says. Researchers conducted a meta-analysis of nearly 1,000 findings from different studies involving more than 2.5 million people. Participants ranged in age from 6 to 64 from countries all over the world, with the most common being the United States, China, and the United Kingdom. Catrin Finkenauer, Ph.D., a professor at Utrecht University and a co-author of the study, says the findings show that trust plays a key role in how happy and satisfied people feel, across all ages, especially for children, adolescents, and older adults. The research also suggests that societies with high levels of trust — where fairness, honesty, and cooperation are prevalent — have happier people. "Families, schools, and governments all share the responsibility of creating environments where people can rely on each other, she says. “When we build trust, we also support mental health and stronger communities.” While trust is something that has to be authentic and earned, according to Catrin, it can also be broken, making it harder to trust again. This can have the opposite of effect and create a negative feedback loop that leaves people feeling lonely, insecure, and with less hope. The good news is trust can be restored. Building a Life of Trust In the book The Speed of Trust, author Steven Covey argues that trust is key to our well-being and when we have high trust in ourselves, others, and our environment, we can experience safety, confidence, and peace of mind. “When trust is high, communication is easy, effortless, instant, and joyful,” he writes. Having trust provides a safety net that buffers anxiety, suspicion, and fear — emotions that rob us of our happiness. Performing small, consistent acts of trust every day can lead to lasting emotional benefits. Over time, these small acts of trust build and boost our well-being. A few things we can do to build more trust in our lives: Give others the benefit of the doubt. Instead of always viewing others with suspicion and skepticism, try assuming their intent is positive. Keep your word. When we follow through on the promises we make, we build both self and mutual trust. Relinquish control. The ability to admit when we need help can deepen our connections and boost our happiness. Practice gratitude. Grateful people trust more. Recognizing and appreciating the good in life rewires your brain to find more optimism. Forgive the small things. Holding on to unnecessary anger and resentment just adds to your stress and takes up emotional space that could be used for more empathy and compassion. When we choose to trust more — in others, ourselves, and even our institutions — we set the stage for a thriving in life. We can start with small acts of trust that will compound and eventually lead to stronger relationships, more compassion, and a sunnier look on life.
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Do We Really Need More Mindfulness?

The term “mindfulness” has become a part of our everyday vocabulary. What does this word mean? It might connote a mind full of thoughts. In fact, it is almost the opposite. Mindfulness involves cultivating awareness of our experiences, internal and external, without reacting. We become the observer of life’s happenings. We do not benefit from becoming upset, anxious, or depressed when things do not go our way. So, we simply notice what is happening as though looking down from above. The Challenge of the Present Moment Another key element of mindfulness is the focus on the present moment. Our brains are programmed through many thousands of years of evolution to ponder the future – what danger may be lurking? What is the worst thing that may happen? This catastrophizing may have been adaptive 200,000 years ago, as we sat in our caves, keeping a fire going and wondering whether a saber-toothed tiger might be lurking outside our dwelling. If we focused on such danger and prepared ourselves to react quickly, we tended to live longer and have more offspring. The genes and epigenetic factors associated with such wariness therefore propagated through the population over many generations. Nowadays, though, we are rarely confronted with such physical threats; yet, here we are, with the hard wiring that predisposes us to generate an acute stress response at the slightest provocation. Our adrenal glands are prepped to secrete adrenaline and cortisol when provoked simply by our thoughts. Our blood pressure and blood sugar skyrocket needlessly. Suppose we lack the resilience to quell the acute stress response and bring these hormone levels back down to normal quickly. In that case, they may become chronically elevated, leading to hypertension and type 2 diabetes. We are also predisposed to ruminating over the past. While it is adaptive to savor wonderful memories and consider the mistakes we have made so that we may learn from them, it is maladaptive to generate negative thoughts and feelings that bring self-blame, guilt, and even depression and anxiety. Too much focus on the past and future often means creating unpleasant ideations. Our brains are wired with a negativity bias. We tend to remember and be affected by negative experiences and thoughts than by positive ones. Negative things have a greater impact on our state of mind than neutral or positive things. We also tend to be overly judgmental. We explore our environment – including other people, the world, and ourselves – and perceive it as good or bad. Due to our negativity bias, we are more likely to view these elements as negative. In many cases (including my own), we are most harshly judgmental of ourselves. This contributes to depression and anxiety, two of the most prevalent mood disorders in our society. The Hope of Neuroplasticity The good news is that our brains have the remarkable quality of neuroplasticity. We can rewire our brains through focused practice. Our brains are capable of reorganizing themselves by forming new neural connections throughout life. They can adapt to environmental changes, learn, and recover from injury to a considerable extent. Neuroplasticity enables us to recover from a stroke by rerouting functions to undamaged areas. It allows us to learn a new language or how to play a new musical instrument, even later in life. Brain cells (neurons) actually change their structure and function in response to internal and external stimuli, including our thoughts themselves. The more we embrace positive thoughts, the more positive our thoughts become. We can learn to be more positive and less judgmental. Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, a founder of the practice in the United States, coined one definition of mindfulness. He defined mindfulness as “awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, non-judgmentally.” It seems intuitively obvious that paying attention to the present moment is essential, so why do we have such difficulty doing so? Our minds seem programmed to wander – to rapidly go from one thought to another, sometimes seemingly at random. We are easily distracted. We may even value “multitasking,” that is, thinking about and doing several things at once. In reality, we can only have one thought at a time, and jumping from one idea to another is an inefficient process. When we are multitasking, we often fail to accomplish what we intend to achieve to our full capability. When we are not truly focused on one task at a time, we are actually “task-switching.” We end up wasting time rather than saving time. We make more errors. We are less creative. Therefore, we really do need to “pay attention on purpose” to one thing at a time to be as productive as possible. How can we train our minds to focus on one thought or task at a time, given that we seem to be programmed otherwise? We can embrace a practice to rewire our brains to be more present rather than racing ahead or ruminating over the past. In other words, we benefit from a regular exercise of abiding in the present moment. This requires intention – hence the importance of the “on purpose” part of Dr. Kabat-Zinn’s definition of mindfulness. One version of mindfulness exercise is called the “GAIN” practice. GAIN is an acronym for what the author believes are the four essential domains of happiness: Gratitude, Acceptance, Intention, and Nonjudgment. Slow, deep, deliberate breathing is a core element of mindfulness practice. When we are stressed, we may go for many hours without taking a deep breath. Our diaphragm and other muscles involved in breathing are tense and contracted, preventing complete expansion of our lungs. As a result, the tiny air sacs in our lungs, called alveoli, tend to collapse, stiffening our lungs and limiting the amount of oxygen we can take in. Everything to GAIN When we practice mindfulness, we can start simply by focusing on our breathing. In the GAIN method, we inhale slowly to a count of three, pause to a count of three, and exhale without effort to a count of four. We are paying attention to our breathing, one moment at a time. As our chest and abdomen expand, we feel ourselves relaxing simply through this manner of breathing. We then begin a self-guided tour of the GAIN elements. We start with the “G” in GAIN as we acknowledge our gratitude for the gifts in our lives – loved ones, friends, pets, and living in a relatively safe environment with a roof over our heads. Even the simplest of things – isn’t it a miracle that we can step into the shower and experience warm water cascading over us? While continuing to breathe slowly, deeply, and deliberately, we transition to the “A” in GAIN, which stands for acceptance. As the Serenity Prayer teaches us, we must distinguish between what we can change and what we cannot change as we ponder the difficulties in life. We have all experienced the loss of a loved one, illness, fractured relationships, and other painful events. We identify one source of pain or discomfort and imagine opening our chest and heart and bringing this experience into our heart. We hold it there, nourish it, and embrace it as we relax our muscles. We may ask ourselves the question, “Can I live with this pain forever?” Eventually, the answer will be “yes.” Next come two of the elements in Dr. Kabat-Zinn’s mindfulness definition: intention (“on purpose”) and nonjudgment, the “I” and “N” in GAIN. We continue to breathe intentionally, drawing our attention to our current experience – the pressure of the chair against our bodies, the sound of a car or airplane passing in the distance, and the subtle tingling at the soles of our feet. Our mind may begin to wander after a few seconds – then we gently bring our attention back to the present. Gradually, we will be able to abide in the present moment for a more extended period. We transition to nonjudgment as we continue to expand our chest and abdomen with each full breath. We may picture a lovely NASA image of the Earth, apparently suspended in space. It is a lovely planet, but the Earth does not possess qualities that are inherently good or bad. It is simply the planet that it is – neither good nor bad. It is only logical that we, too, are neither good nor bad. We are merely human beings. We simply are. We might repeat the phrase, “I simply am the person that I am. I am.” We next return our full attention to the breath – slow, deep, and deliberate. We then gently open our eyes. We are ready to go out into the world. A Practice of Patience There are many versions of mindfulness practice. We are well served by finding the one that fits us best and sticking with it. Daily practice is most productive, as we slowly rewire our brains to pay attention to the present moment, on purpose, nonjudgmentally. Our brains evolved over many thousands of years to be the way they are, including this “wandering mind” condition. We cannot rewire our brains overnight. Let’s be patient and go easy on ourselves, embracing baby steps toward a happier condition, including the ability to appreciate the present moment. That is what mindfulness is all about. Greg Hammer, MD, is a recently retired Stanford University School of Medicine Professor and physician, mindfulness expert, and the author of the best-selling, award-winning book, GAIN without Pain: The Happiness Handbook for Health Care Professionals. Dr. Hammer is a health enthusiast and meditator, utilizing a non-duality and mindfulness-based approach, including the GAIN method.   Learn more at amindfulteen.com
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Even the Smallest Acts of Kindness Can Turn into Big Happiness

If you follow Live Happy, you already know that practicing acts of kindness can improve your well-being. Now, new research from the University of California, San Francisco (UCSF) shows that it doesn’t require grand gestures to make a difference — small, daily micro acts of kindness or gratitude can significantly boost happiness in just one week. The Big Joy Project tracked more than 17,000 participants from 169 countries through a web-based intervention. Each participant spent between five and 10 minutes daily sharing a joyful moment, practicing gratitude, or performing a small act of kindness. Small Acts, Big Results Just after one week, the results showed that people who engaged in these daily micro acts experienced: An increase in emotional well-being Higher positive emotions Lower stress Better sleep According to UCSF, people who make improvements in their well-being could see less of a risk of mental illness in the future and may experience better physical health. “People with higher well-being are less likely to develop chronic conditions, like cardiovascular diseases, and have reduced mortality in both healthy and unhealthy populations,” says Elissa Epel, Ph.D., a senior author on the study. What’s more, the more often these micro acts were practiced, the greater the benefits. This led researchers to conclude that this type of positive behavior could be scalable and might positively impact public health. Since micro acts were not labor-intensive or time-consuming, the shorter format made it easier for people, especially those socially disadvantaged, to improve their well-being. During the study, certain groups experienced particularly strong gains, including younger adults, Black and Hispanic participants, and those with lower education levels or subjective social status. A Mission for a Happier World UCSF’s Big Joy Project is an ongoing initiative centered on the science of joy and well-being. Its goal is to encourage people to find more joy in their daily lives through experiences, relationships, and their surroundings to enhance their overall quality of life. Participation is free, and for seven days, participants follow a prompt designed to evoke happiness — such as listening to an audio clip of laughter or recalling a moment of gratitude. Each day features a different micro act. By the end, you will receive a progress report on your journey to more happiness. What’s even better is that every participant contributes to the ongoing research on how to live a happier life, which could result in using micro acts as a legitimate mental health tool. According to the Big Joy Project website, more than 400,000 micro acts have been completed to date. Finding happiness in your daily routines, even if just for a few minutes a day, can improve your mental and emotional well-being, leading to a better quality of life. And this new research from the Big Joy Project shows happiness doesn’t have to be complicated.
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We’re Better Together: Why Socializing is Great for Your Health and Happiness

Human beings are inherently social creatures. Throughout history, our survival and prosperity have been deeply intertwined with the relationships we build with others. Social connections — whether with family, friends, colleagues, or even acquaintances — have a profound impact on our mental, emotional, and physical well-being. From the days of early human societies, where collaboration was key to survival, to today’s increasingly connected world, the importance of these bonds cannot be overstated. Research shows that having meaningful relationships plays a crucial role in improving health and enhancing overall happiness. The Science Behind Social Connections At the core of why social connections improve health and happiness lies a simple fact: humans are wired for social interaction. When we engage with others, our brains release feel-good chemicals, such as oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin. These chemicals are associated with feelings of happiness, security, and trust. Oxytocin, often referred to as the "bonding hormone," is especially significant, as it strengthens feelings of affection and attachment. When we are connected to others, our bodies enter a more relaxed, less stressed state, which has a cascade of health benefits. Conversely, social isolation or a lack of meaningful connections can trigger the body's stress response. Chronic loneliness and social disconnection activate the body's fight-or-flight response, leading to elevated cortisol levels and an increased risk of conditions like heart disease, depression, and anxiety. In fact, studies have shown that social isolation can be as harmful to one's health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Therefore, nurturing social bonds can directly mitigate these risks and foster better overall health. Physical Health Benefits One of the most compelling reasons to prioritize social connections is their significant impact on physical health. People who maintain strong social ties have lower blood pressure, better immune function, and a reduced risk of chronic illnesses such as cardiovascular disease. A 2010 study published in the PLoS Medicine journal found that individuals with strong social relationships had a 50% increased likelihood of survival over a given period, compared to those who were socially isolated. The key to these benefits lies in how social interactions impact stress levels. Being around supportive, understanding people helps to buffer the effects of stress. In contrast, prolonged stress without social support can lead to physical deterioration. Engaging with others allows the body to relax, reducing the impact of stress on the immune system, cardiovascular system, and even the digestive system. Moreover, social connections can also encourage healthier behaviors. Friends and family often motivate each other to exercise, eat better, and take care of their well-being. Having a support system makes it easier to maintain a healthy lifestyle, and this further contributes to the reduction of health risks. Mental and Emotional Health Boosts Beyond physical health, social connections are vital for emotional well-being. The sense of belonging that comes from relationships is an important factor in combating feelings of loneliness and depression. Engaging in regular social interactions helps individuals feel supported, understood, and valued — feelings that are essential for good mental health. These positive interactions can help people cope with life's challenges, whether it's dealing with work stress, navigating personal losses, or overcoming difficult circumstances. Additionally, social connections provide opportunities for joy, fun, and laughter — natural mood boosters. Sharing experiences, celebrating successes, or simply spending quality time with loved ones triggers the release of dopamine and serotonin, chemicals responsible for the feelings of pleasure and happiness. Furthermore, people with strong social networks are more likely to seek help when needed, reducing the risks of mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and addiction. In contrast, loneliness is a well-documented risk factor for mental health problems. A lack of social support can cause individuals to feel disconnected, isolated, and abandoned, which can lead to depression and anxiety. Having a few close, trusting friends or family members to confide in can provide a sense of emotional security and promote resilience in difficult times. The Role of Social Connections in Happiness One of the most significant ways social connections enhance happiness is by providing meaning and purpose in life. Humans derive much of their sense of fulfillment from their relationships with others. Whether through family, friendships, or community, being part of a group gives individuals a sense of significance and belonging. This, in turn, enhances feelings of happiness and contentment. Research consistently shows that people with strong social connections report higher levels of happiness. A study by the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which followed individuals for over 80 years, found that the quality of relationships — more than money or fame — was the key predictor of happiness and longevity. Positive relationships not only make life more enjoyable but also provide a buffer against life's challenges, allowing individuals to thrive even in the face of adversity. In a world that often prioritizes individual achievement and independence, it is essential to remember the immense benefits of social connections. Whether it's enhancing physical health, promoting emotional well-being, or contributing to overall happiness, the bonds we form with others are key to leading a fulfilling life. The evidence is clear: social connections are not just a luxury but a necessity for a healthy, happy existence. By fostering meaningful relationships and investing time in nurturing connections, we can improve our health, well-being, and happiness for years to come. Dr. Lori Whatley is a psychologist and expert on human connection with more than 25 years of experience. She helps businesses and families manage digital distractions and foster meaningful relationships. Author of Connected and Engaged and Happier Together, Dr. Lori is known for her approachable style and insight. She holds advanced degrees from California Southern, Mercer, and UGA, and has traveled to over 85 countries. Also listen to this Live Happy Now podcast featuring Dr. Lori: How to Make Friendships That Last
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The World Happiness Report names Finland the happiest country—again

For the eighth consecutive year, the World Happiness Report has named Finland the happiest country in the world. The annual report, published by the Wellbeing Research Centre at the University of Oxford in partnership with Gallup, the UN Sustainable Development Solutions Network, and an independent editorial board, ranks countries based on a three-year average of the populations’ assessment of their quality of life. Similar to previous years, Nordic countries dominated the top 10, with Denmark again ranking second. Costa Rica and Mexico both entered the top 10 for the first time — at 6th and 10th place respectively — while the United States slipped one more spot, landing at 24th. This marks the lowest ranking for the U.S. since the first report was published in 2012. At that time, it ranked 11th; it fell out of the top 20 for the first time last year. [caption id="attachment_21508" align="alignright" width="300"] Finland has been named the world’s happiest country for the 8th consecutive year, while the U.S. dropped one more point to place 24th.[/caption] This year’s top 10 happiest countries are: Finland Denmark Iceland Sweden Netherlands Costa Rica Norway Israel Luxembourg Mexico Strong support system Dr. Felix Cheung, a professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of Toronto and co-author of the chapter that looks at countries’ rankings, said it’s notable that the countries in the top 10 all have strong social structures in place. That contributes to people feeling secure and happy. “Finland is well known for having a really strong welfare system, really strong education system, very low corruption, and strong healthcare,” he said. “All of these are necessary to produce national happiness.” Countries that report greater happiness also have strong social connections. This year’s report focused on different themes of connection, including how such things as sharing meals, household size, acts of benevolence, and trusting others affect wellbeing. “I think that sense of trust connections is incredibly helpful,” Felix says. “At the same time, I think national happiness cannot be cultivated simply through individuals. We also must think about our political institution, our social structures, and so forth.” Reconnecting in the U.S. The report found that the decline in happiness and social trust in Europe and the U.S. have led to the rise of political polarization. Felix said the widespread political division could be preventing people from making crucial social connections. “So based on this year’s report, maybe perhaps we can think about how can we reverse some of this?” he suggested. He pointed to a global experiment in which researchers looked at the frequency of lost wallets being returned. It found that the actual rates of a lost wallet being returned was about twice as high as people anticipated. And the study further found a correlation between a country’s happiness and its population’s belief that a lost wallet would be returned. Report co-author John F. Helliwell, an economist at the University of British Columbia and founding editor of the World Happiness Report, wrote that the lost wallet research is compelling because it confirms that people are much happier when they live in a place where they believe other people care about them. Felix said remembering that those around us are probably more helpful than we think they are could help ease some of the current political division — and help make us happier. “I think if there’s anything that we can learn from this year’s World Happiness Report, [it is] we should be able to give more credit to other people. They’re actually really kind and helpful,” Felix said. “And by closing this gap between how we think people are to the reality that people are actually really helpful, well, maybe that’s one way to get us closer to a happier society.”
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Watching Live Sports May Boost Happiness and Reduce Loneliness

If you’ve ever experienced an electric atmosphere while attending a live sporting event, that feeling could be making you happier in ways you never thought of before. According to a recent study published in the journal Frontiers in Public Health, attending live sports could be another tool to boost your happiness and longevity. Researchers from Anglia Ruskin University’s School of Psychology and Sport Science used survey data from more than 7,000 adults in England between the ages of 16 and 85 and concluded that watching sporting events in person increased life satisfaction and decreased feelings of loneliness. Existing research already suggests that actively participating in sports increases happiness and well-being. However, this is the largest study that suggests that just watching sports in person—or passive sports engagement—allows social interaction and bonding that can lead to meaningful connections, even for a short time. Commissioned by the Department for Digital, Culture, Media and Sport, the insights from the report found that attending live sporting events and identifying with a team fostered connections with other people and made people feel that life was more worthwhile. Dr. Helen Keyes, a lead author of the report and the head of the School of Psychology and Sport Science at Anglia Ruskin University (ARU), says that “watching live sport of all types provides many opportunities for social interaction and this helps to forge group identity and belonging, which in turn mitigates loneliness and boosts levels of well-being.” Lonely No More Loneliness, as described by the study, is a “modern behavioral epidemic” that can have negative impacts on mental and physical health. The Healthy Minds Monthly Poll conducted by the American Psychiatric Association (APA) found that one in three adults in America say they have experienced feelings of loneliness at least once a week this year and 10% say they are lonely every day. Even younger people are not immune to feelings of loneliness, with 30% of Americans aged 18-34 saying they were lonely every day or several times a week. According to Gregorio Lozano III, a licensed professional counselor with the online mental health platform Grow Therapy, our need for connection is hardwired and is rooted in survival. Connecting with others is a basic human need  “The root cause of loneliness tends to be a sense of disconnection from others, more specifically, emotional disconnection,” he says. Researchers are optimistic that the results from the ARU study can lead to social interventions that can help mitigate the growing loneliness problem, such as offering reduced ticket prices to certain groups that may need a well-being boost.
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The 6 Keys of Positive Relational Energy

The 6 Keys of Positive Relational Energy

Etelle is a human rights lawyer and environmental activist. She can be found doing investigations on deforestation and child labor in the jungles and forests of Africa and South America, often risking her own life, as nearly happened on a mission in an African country where she was working to stop a rubber company from illegally cutting down trees. As Etelle was about to leave for the airport, which was three hours away, her driver mysteriously disappeared. The local officials suspiciously insisted she set off for the airport with two threatening-looking, muscle-strapped strangers in military apparel. The safety concerns were obvious: The rubber company Etelle was investigating for illegal deforestation had built close financial ties with the country’s leaders. Her activism was a potential threat to the kickbacks the leaders were receiving. Still, she had no other choice than to get into that car. In those three momentous hours in the car with her would-be hitmen, Etelle worked a miracle. She connected with her handlers in such a way that they not only safely escorted her to the airport, but also shared their snacks with her and—get this—even held up a little sheet to give her privacy while she relieved herself by the side of the road. When they safely dropped her at the airport, Etelle received confirmation that they had been ordered to kill her. They warned her that she was not safe in their country and that she shouldn’t ever come back, but that, if she did anyway, she should travel over a land border and under their protection. And that she should stay with them. How did Etelle turn her hitmen into protectors? She didn’t threaten them, seduce them, or pay them. She didn’t need to. Because Etelle has something much more powerful than that: positive relational energy. Kim Cameron at the University of Michigan’s Ross School of Business, together with his colleagues, discovered the fascinating science of relational energy while studying organizations. He noticed that among these large networks of people, certain subgroups stood out as anomalous. They had significantly higher levels of productivity than other groups at the company. Not just a little higher, much higher. What was going on here? Looking further into the data, you see that one person at the center of this subgroup is causing the effect. And—though it didn’t sound scientific—the best way researchers found to describe this person was that they had contagious positive energy. Others, on the other hand, had the opposite effect. They were de-energizing. Being around them made people feel less motivated, less enthusiastic, and less alive.  Thinking back on your own life, you’ve probably experienced that some friendships and work relationships are draining while others are enlivening. The good news is that anyone can learn to be a positive energizer. Because it is both extraordinary and absolutely ordinary. The 6 Keys of Positive Relational Energy Positive Energizers relate to others in such a way that they are a catalyst for those around them to get in touch with and reach their fullest potential. They raise their own energy and that of others. Both the giver and the receiver leave the interaction uplifted. These Energizers live a fulfilling and productive life and are magnetic. What makes someone a positively energizing person? Based on Kim’s research it involves six things: 1. Caring for, being interested in, and seeing the best in others—their qualities and skills, their attributes and gifts. In so doing, you meet their fundamental need to be seen, heard, and valued. To feel safe and to trust. You let others know that you appreciate them for who they are and that they matter and that you have their back. 2. Providing support for one another, including offering kindness and compassion when others are going through a hard time. Everyone has moments of struggle, and when someone knows you genuinely are there for them during those times, it automatically deepens your relationship. Think about someone who was there for you unconditionally when you were going through a hard period in your life—perhaps it was a mentor or a friend, a teacher or a boss. If that person were to call you right now and ask for help, you’d probably drop everything to do what you could to help. That’s the kind of loyalty that grows out of a deeply supportive relationship. 3. Avoiding blame and forgiving mistakes, not holding on to grudges. Making mistakes is a basic part of the human condition. It’s how we learn. Forgiveness both benefits the relationship and increases your own well-being, research shows. 4. Inspiring one another and focusing on what’s going right. It’s easy to  be negative, criticize, and complain, but it’s also de-energizing and depleting—both for yourself and others. Positive Energizers don’t just focus on what’s going right, they make a point to emphasize it and celebrate it. Gratitude, for example is a tenet of wisdom. It is energizing and enlivening both for yourself and others. Research shows it strengthens relationships. 5. Emphasizing meaningfulness. Whether you’re parenting children together or working on a group project at your job or in a community, focusing on the impact and benefit of what you are doing is a powerful motivator. It reminds others of the impact they have. In one of my favorite studies, workers at a university alumni call center doubled their productivity after they heard a student talk about the difference financial aid had made in her life. Feeling that you are contributing in some way and making a difference is automatically energizing and inspiring, research shows. 6. Treating others with basic human values. Like respect, gratitude, trust, honesty, humility, kindness, and integrity. Think about it. When you know someone has those kinds of values, you automatically feel trust and safety around them. You can relax and let your guard down. You know they will do the right thing, so you appreciate them. These are the type of people you want to be around and want to be like. They are uplifting. 7. Most importantly: they fill their own tank. They have a good relationship with themselves. They take care of their mind, body, and soul with respect. In a time when 80% of millennials endorse the idea “I am not good enough” – essentially having a toxic relationship with themselves – it is powerful to have a firmly life-supportive relationship with yourself. And that’s sovereignty. Excerpted with permission from Sovereign: Reclaim your Freedom, Energy and Power in a Time of Distraction, Uncertainty and Chaos by Emma SeppĂ€lĂ€. Available wherever books are sold.
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Older Americans Are Getting Happier, but Young People’s Well-being is Declining

Around the world, young people between the ages of 15 and 24 report being happier than older adults — except in the U.S. In fact, the dramatic decline in well-being among young people is the likely cause of the U.S. falling off the list of the World Happiness Report’s 20 Happiest Countries for the first time since the report began in 2012. For the first time this year, the report — which is published each year by the Sustainable Development Solutions Network (SDSN) — broke down rankings by age in addition to providing overall rankings. And it found that viewing results by age groups provided very different outcomes than the overall rankings. For example, while Finland was once again named the World’s Happiest Country, Lithuania is the happiest country for children and young people under 30. And for adults over the age of 60, Denmark takes the No. 1 spot. The kids are not alright In the U.S., the news was great for older adults: Baby Boomers (born before 1965) are happier than those born since 1980. In fact, when ranked by age only, the Boomers pushed the U.S. to a No. 10 spot on the world charts. But while Boomers report their satisfaction increases with each year of age, subsequent generations report just the opposite and say life satisfaction falls each year. The happiness gap is most evident when looking at the under-30 age group in the U.S., which ranks 62 nd for happiness — just six spots above Russian youth. Dr. Lara Aknin, a distinguished professor of psychology at Simon Fraser University and co-editor of the World Happiness Report, pointed out that, around the world, happiness is typically highest among the young, but begins to drop after the age of 30. “In North America, particularly in Canada and the United States, the young have started rating their life satisfaction quite a bit lower,” she said. “In fact, it is one of the only regions in the world where the young are less happy than the old.” The reasons behind that change, she said, are varied and complex: “Those under 30 today are reporting less support from their friends and family than did earlier cohorts,” she said. “They’re also reporting less freedom to make life choices, more stress and anxiety — but not more anger — less confidence in the government, and greater perceptions of corruption.” She said dissatisfaction with their living situations also factor in, because incomes are stagnating relative to the cost of living, which fuels more frustration, stress, anxiety, and uncertainty. The country is also experiencing extreme political tensions and growing levels of income inequality that could be weighing heavily on young people, Aknin said. “So it seems to be this cocktail of predictors that are associated with lower levels of well-being among those under 30 and different from those that were reported by those [of the same age] about a decade ago.” Bringing happiness home While the data parsed out by this year’s report shows an alarming decline in the well- being of North America’s young people, Aknin said she finds hope in the science: “One of the main thrusts and the rationales for the World Happiness Report is to present some of this leading evidence on the science of happiness to the public and also to policymakers and individuals who are concerned about the well-being of their constituents and their community members and their neighbors,” she explained. “And so the hope is that by bringing some hard science to this question, to shine a spotlight on those who perhaps are not thriving or doing as well as we would’ve hoped, can direct attention to those areas.” About the World Happiness Report The World Happiness Report is a partnership of Gallup, the Oxford Wellbeing Research Centre, the UN Sustainable Development Solutions Network, and the WHR’s Editorial Board. The report is produced under the editorial control of the WHR Editorial Board, formed of John F. Helliwell, Lord Richard Layard, Jeffrey D. Sachs, Jan-Emmanuel De Neve, Lara B. Aknin, and Shun Wang.
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Finland Tops Global Happiness Rankings for 7th Consecutive Year

In a remarkable display of consistent well-being, Finland has once again been named the happiest country in the world, according to the latest World Happiness Report published by the Sustainable Development Solutions Network (SDSN). This marks the seventh year the Nordic nation has held the top spot in the rankings, which are based on self-assessed life evaluations of citizens from countries around the world. The six key factors used to evaluate happiness are social support, income, health, freedom, generosity, and absence of corruption. Rankings are based on a three-year average of each population’s average life assessment. Who’s happy now? Consistent with previous years, Nordic countries did well overall, with the 10 highest countries being: Finland Denmark Iceland Sweden Israel Netherlands Norway Luxembourg Switzerland Australia The report authors noted that the survey was taken in Israel after the October 7 attack but before warfare had broken out. While there was little change in the top 10 from previous years, the top 20 was a different story and showed plenty of movement. Costa Rica and Kuwait moved into the top 20 for the first time at positions 12 and 13, respectively. Both Czechia and Lithuania — new entrants to the top 20 last year — remained steadfast and were nearly joined by Slovenia, which moved up to the 21st spot. It’s not all good
 However, while these countries continue to show greater happiness, the United States had its worst showing on the list to date, falling out of the top 20 for the first time since the list began in 2012. Last year, it ranked 15th; this year, it ranked 23rd. The study links the decline to the drop in well-being among people under the age of 30. Germany, which ranked 16th last year, joined the U.S. in tumbling out of the top 20. That means the top countries no longer include any of the world’s largest countries; in the top 10, only Netherlands and Australia have more than 15 million residents, and the only countries in the top 20 with populations above 30 million are Canada (No. 15) and the United Kingdom (No. 20). In addition to ranking the happiness of more than 140 countries, each World Happiness Report looks at specific curated themes, and this year’s report looks at happiness across different age groups. It found that, globally, young people (ages 15-24) have a higher life satisfaction than adults. However, this is no longer the case in America, where people under the age of 30 show the lowest levels of happiness. Additional research in this year’s report looks at the impact of dementia on one’s well-being, but also looks at how higher well-being earlier in life can reduce the risk of developing dementia over time. One chapter of the report is also dedicated to studying life satisfaction among older adults in India, which is now the world’s most populous nation. Researchers found that, just as in other countries, increasing age is associated with higher life satisfaction. About the World Happiness Report The World Happiness Report is a partnership of Gallup, the Oxford Wellbeing Research Centre, the UN Sustainable Development Solutions Network, and the WHR’s Editorial Board. The report is produced under the editorial control of the WHR Editorial Board, formed of John F. Helliwell, Lord Richard Layard, Jeffrey D. Sachs, Jan-Emmanuel De Neve, Lara B. Aknin, and Shun Wang.
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Do you Live in the Happiest City or State?

If happiness is a state of mind, then where you live may make your trip to bliss a little bit easier. Since the place you call home is where you most likely spend a great deal of your time, it would be nice if that city or state also contributed to your well-being. Research suggests that living in certain locations and environments can make you happier for a variety of reasons, including greater access to green and blue spaces, strong social support systems, more opportunities for physical activity, higher levels of education and economic stability. As a whole, the United States regularly ranks around the 15th happiest country in the world, according to the World Happiness Report. But there are cities and states within the country that rank higher than others in happiness, giving residents living in those areas the opportunity to greater life satisfaction. The Happiest Cities and States in America  WalletHub, an online personal finance company, regularly ranks both the happiest cities and states in America. Their methodology for these lists includes three key categories to determine the results, including emotional and physical well-being, income and employment, and community and environment. According to Wallethub, their analysis is based on a mix of existing research from some of the leading studies in positive psychology as well as data compiled from a variety of sources, such as the 2024 U.S. Census Bureau and the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Free to Be Happy in Fremont WalletHub’s Happiest Cities in America list shows which of the largest cities in the U.S. had happier people. Fremont, California was named the happiest city in the country for the fifth consecutive year. Located in the Bay Area, residents of Fremont enjoy more than 1200 acres of green spaces, parkland and other outdoor amenities which provide plenty of opportunities for exercise and relaxation.  Other factors include a friendly place to raise a family, low divorce rates, and low unemployment. A few other Bay Area cities that made the list include San Jose (3) and San Francisco (7). Here are the top ten happiest cities in the U.S. according to WalletHub: Fremont, CA Overland Park, KS San Jose, CA Madison, WI Irvine, CA Honolulu, HI San Francisco, CA Pearl City, HI Columbia, MD Scottsdale, AZ You’ll Find More Joy in Utah While multiple cities in California made the ‘Happiest Cities’ list, it isn’t the happiest state, at least according to WalletHub. In the Happiest States in America list, released by WalletHub in September of 2023, Utah ranks No. 1. Using the same factors as the ‘Cities’ list, Utah is also the top state in the country for providing a great work environment, having the lowest divorces rates and high volunteer rate, which all contribute to greater well-being. Utah Hawaii Maryland Minnesota New Jersey Connecticut California Florida Idaho Nebraska
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