We all have a deep desire to matter, but do we know why? In this episode, host Paula Felps sits down with philosopher and author Rebecca Newberger Goldstein to explore the “mattering instinct” and why it shapes everything from our personal fulfillment to our political divides. She explains our longing to feel significant influences our choices, our relationships, and even our conflicts — and how reframing our own mattering projects can lead to a more meaningful, connected life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why the need to matter often drives us more powerfully than the need to be happy.
- How different “mattering projects” shape our behavior and our relationships.
- What we can do — individually and collectively — to create a world where everyone feels they count.
Visit Rebecca’s website.
Discover her new book, The Mattering Instinct: How Our Deepest Desire Drives Us and Divides Us.
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