We’ve heard a lot about the dangers of loneliness, but how is loneliness different from solitude? In this episode, host Paula Felps sits down with psychologist and author Dr. Robert Coplan to discuss his new book, The Joy of Solitude. Rob shares insights from decades of research on how intentional alone time can foster emotional clarity, creativity, and well-being — and how it differs profoundly from loneliness. From childhood development to adult relationships, he reveals why solitude is a vital part of a balanced life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- The surprising benefits of spending just 15 minutes alone each day.
- Myths about loneliness and solitude, including why living alone doesn’t mean being lonely.
- The science of “aloneliness” — the longing for solitude — and how it impacts mental health.
Visit Dr. Rob’s website here.
Read his column on solitude from Psychology Today.
Follow along with the transcript.
Follow Dr. Rob on Social Media:
- X: @rjcoplan
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